If you’re dreaming about the same person romantically, it can mean that you have a deep connection with them.
It might also mean that your subconscious is trying to tell you something about your relationship with the other person.
Perhaps you feel a strong attraction to the other person, but you’re not sure how to act on it?
But, it can also mean that there’s something about the other person that you don’t like.
Dreams are messages from your subconscious to your conscious mind. They usually indicate that you have to pay more attention to someone or something in your life.
Understanding what your dream is trying to tell can be a simple process. Let’s jump right in.
What does it mean if you’re dreaming about the same person romantically?
Dreaming about the same person romantically can be seen as a positive sign It usually means that a deep part of you believes the two of you are meant to be together.
If you aren’t sure how to act, your subconscious is trying to play out the scenario for you. It is trying to tell you to get closer to them and bond with them on a deeper level.
This can also mean that there’s something about the other person that you don’t like.
Sometimes, the thing we are attracted to can be a sign of something we have to face about ourselves or a lesson we need to learn.
This person that you dream of romantically might also remind you of someone else, like a past lover, or it can mean that there’s something about this person that reminds you of someone from your past who meant a great deal to you.
There are many different interpretations for dreaming of the same person romantically.
Understanding what your dream is trying to tell you is the first step in interpreting whether it’s a good sign or not.
Is your dream about the same person a good sign?
Dreaming about the same person romantically can be a good sign if you can become more intimate and explore a deeper connection with this person. Then you can start a more in-depth spiritual bond with them.
Your subconscious may be telling you that it’s time to take your relationship to the next level and make it more serious. It might be telling you that you are ready to open up and be more vulnerable around them.
While the point of this article will help you deal with why you are dreaming about someone romantically, it can be helpful to deal with it on a conscious level.
With professional coaches, like the ones at Relationship Hero, you can get tailored advice.
They have helped countless others work through their dreams, and to deal with the deeper underlying issues of being attracted to someone who is off-bounds, having strong desire, and being tempted to cheat.
Their expert team is available and ready to help you connect with a certified and experienced relationship coach to help you understand your dreams in more depth.
How to interpret your dreams
1) What is the theme?
The first step in interpreting dreams is understanding what the general theme of your dream is.
To find out why you’re dreaming about the same person romantically, you might believe that the other person is your soulmate, then you may be trying to tell yourself something.
Dreams such as these can hint at a future romantic relationship with another person. But it’s important to note other details and symbols that appear in your dreams. This can tell us a great deal more about the meaning behind them.
Also, it’s important to be aware of how you feel when you dream about them. What emotions arise?
Dreams do not necessarily reflect reality and are usually interpreted in their context.
Take a moment to think about the meaning of your dream from every detail that you remember.
If it isn’t something that you can easily figure out, then don’t worry. It’s important to start paying attention.
Start with yourself.
The real meaning of your dreams is related to the relationship you have with yourself. And that’s why you should try to reflect on your thoughts and explore your emotions.
Something that might help you to do so is Rudá Iandê’s incredible free video on Love and Intimacy.
Rudá is a world-renowned shaman who believes that the way to find love and intimacy is not what we have been culturally conditioned to believe.
Instead, for this, we have to dive dig into our inner selves and find the answer to things that are hidden from our conscious minds.
If this sounds impressive, I’m sure you should take the time to watch his inspiring video.
2) Be patient
You will often find your dream meaning after you wake up.
It takes some time to process the context of your dreams. This can happen much later in the day or week.
Your conscious mind will never be able to decipher the dream as fast as your subconscious brain in the morning. It takes time to catch up.
As your conscious mind is still trying to come awake, your subconscious mind can be doing all the decoding and figuring out the dream’s meaning. Just relax and be patient, the message of your dream will find its way back to you.
3) Write down what you remember as soon as you wake up
Try to write the dream down on a piece of paper, or in a journal as soon as you wake up.
Take note of everything you can think of.
If you do this, then your conscious mind will be able to focus on making sure that you stay awake rather than trying to recall what your dream was about.
This is why so many people wake up and forget their dreams almost instantly after waking up.
You can also try to draw what your dream was about if it helps you remember it better.
4) Study your dream symbols and connect them with your life
There are many different ways to interpret dreams, including Jungian and Freudian theories of dream interpretation.
Which theory you use depends on how you wish to interpret the dream.
For instance, if you were dreaming about a woman who was torn between two men and did not want to choose either one of them, then the Jungian theory would say that this means that she is torn between two versions of herself.
Whereas, if she is splitting herself into two people due to the conflicting desires of her subconscious, Freud would say that she is torn between two men because she has deep-rooted thoughts about a childhood sexual act that has yet to be resolved.
Do some further research on your dream symbols to see an alternative interpretation. Exploring different theories can help you find added meaning that might resonate with you.
The meaning is yours to discover
The spiritual meaning of dreaming about the same person romantically varies based on what context the person is in your dream.
In general, you may be dreaming about the same person romantically if you are attracted to them or if you are in a committed relationship with them.
In some cases, you may be dreaming about the same person romantically because you have unresolved feelings for them, or because you feel like you have been betrayed by them. There is something about them that is pulling you near.
If this is the case, then it may be time to take a step back and reassess your current relationship.
In other cases, the person may represent a part of your psyche or something that needs to be resolved.
This begs the question:
How is your current romantic relationship? Do you feel like you are in a rut?
How was your last romantic relationship? Do you have any unresolved feelings?
If so, let me tell you:
I’ve been there, and I know how it feels to have lingering issues and feelings surface.
When I was at the worst point in my relationship, I was having vivid dreams about my ex-lover. I didn’t know what to do, so I reached out to a relationship coach to see if they could give me any answers or insights.
I expected some vague advice about cheering up or being strong in my current decisions.
But surprisingly I got sage and practical advice about addressing my feeling of dissatisfaction.
This included real solutions to improving many things that my partner and I had been ignoring.
Relationship Hero is where I found this special coach. They helped turn things around for me and helped me understand what it means to open up and be honest with myself about what I need in my relationships.
They provide solutions, not just empty words and jargon.
If you find that you are dreaming about the same person over and over again, maybe then, you can start to find the relationship between your dreams and your reality.
Breaking them down and looking at them either by yourself or with someone familiar with the cycles and patterns of relationships is a great way to bring their deeper meaning to light.
This can only happen with an honest and open investigation into yourself and your deepest needs.
It’s time to transition from dream to reality, from message to action. It’s a step worth taking!
Love yourself first and everything else falls into place
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The point isn’t to believe you’re better than others or to accept things about yourself that you really do need to change.
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Loving yourself is about committing to who you are, understanding the many different nuances to your identity, and showing yourself a level of care and intimacy that we usually reserve for other people.
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