Freud says... Chances are he likes you!
Based on your answers, Freud says there’s a high chance he likes you!
Although guys can be hard to read and struggle with their unconscious desires, they don’t text someone they’re not into. You have a level of intimacy that goes beyond just being friends or casual hookups.
As Freud explored in his work, our dreams, sexual drives and mental focus tend to align with a very specific person. Chances are he sees in you the chance to complete his childhood issues and unresolved sexual fantasies.
I know that might sound a bit…clinical, and you’re not here to be a psychologist. But before you get spooked let me be clear:
In Freud-speak it means he’s really into you!
That’s the good news.
The bad news is that there’s something holding him back from going all in.
One of Freud’s most important discoveries in the field of sex and attraction was how conflicted many of us are between our conscious and unconscious.
He also did groundbreaking work showing how unresolved childhood sexual stages of oral, anal and phallic can lead to us dividing sex from intimacy and being unable to healthily combine the love with sex.
That means that men can become very sexually attracted to someone they’re not into at all as a person, and vice versa.
The “sweet spot” is when he feels great affection toward you and wants to pair bond for life and also feels very sexually turned on by you.
This is what Freud would call a successful session.