14 undeniable signs you have a deep soul connection with someone

Have you ever felt connected to someone in a way that makes you feel like you’ve known them your whole life?

If so, then there is a good chance that you have a deep soul connection with that person.

It is said that soulmates are people who we feel deep connections with and an instant understanding of one another.

We all have different ways of showing our love for others, but if the following 14 signs apply to you, then it may be safe to say that your special person is your soulmate.

1) You have the same core values and beliefs

Just think back to the way you felt when you first met that person. How similar did it feel to being in a relationship with them?

If it felt really familiar, that’s probably because you have the same core values and beliefs.

If you share the exact same core values and beliefs, then there is a high chance you have a deep spiritual connection with each other.

These may be things like family, health, and nature, but they can also be deep emotional truths.

For example, if your partner has a shy personality, then you will most likely have a similar personality.

One of the most defining traits of soulmates is that they share similar core values and beliefs, so once you find one, you will always know where to find “the one”.

2) Your soulmate inspires you to be a better person

Have you ever felt as if there was a fire in your soul?

That’s because there is something inside of you that wants to be better and be the best version of yourself.

While this ability to inspire others can come from a deep relationship with your soulmate, it can also come from simply being around them.

Soulmates are very supportive, even when you mess up.

They encourage you to excel and grow as a person by helping you believe in yourself.

Soulmates will always be there for you even if they don’t agree with your choices.

If someone inspires you to be a better person, then that person is most likely your soulmate.

3) You lose your breath for a moment when seeing them

It becomes more difficult to breathe after looking into someone’s eyes and witnessing their soul.

This is one of the first indications that your soulmate is approaching. It’s as though time has stood still for a split second when your universe collides.

You lose track of what’s going on. You can’t help but be perplexed as to why this individual is stealing your breath.

And you can’t believe what you’re seeing right before your eyes.

It’s because the tremendous feelings you’re experiencing are being carried away by the energy of your karmic link. The feelings will be strong, which is to be expected given that you’ve finally located your missing puzzle piece.

As time passes and your breathing returns to normal, you’ll notice something: the person in front of you possesses a piece of your soul.

4) You keep thinking about them

It’s hard to concentrate on anything else when you’re thinking about someone… especially your soulmate.

Maybe it’s a bit harder to focus on school or work.

Maybe you’re thinking about them all the time.

Maybe you have one word repeatedly running through your head (“I love you” or “soulmate.”)

Or maybe there is just one image that keeps playing in your mind repeatedly, which makes it harder for you to concentrate on anything else.

For example, maybe it’s just their face, or maybe it’s their voice.

The reason for thinking about them all the time is because your soulmate wants to be with you. So you need to work harder in order for that to happen!

5) You feel happy and at home around them

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Your soulmate is the first person that makes you smile after a long day and offers peace of mind when things get tough.

At this point you realize:

You can’t help but feel happy around them, and you feel like you’re just coming home after being away for a long time.

In other words, you click together.

You feel more at home with them than anywhere else you’ve been.

It’s as if your home was actually with your soulmate because that is where the truth of who you are resides.

They bring joy and strength to your life, which is because they are part of your soul.

And when you’re around them, you feel happy and at home.

You might even break out into giggles or start daydreaming about them from time to time.

But it’s all because of how much these two individuals mean to you.

6) You might even have the same dreams and goals

You’re not going to be exactly the same person as your soulmate, but you’ll have some of the same dreams and goals.

Maybe that’s because you have the same values and beliefs.

Or maybe it’s because you both joined the same religious group and are part of the same community.

Whatever it is, your dreams and goals will most likely be bonded with your soulmate’s dreams and goals because of how much you want to be together.

If you often wish to travel, visit somewhere new, or do something that you haven’t done yet, then there is a good chance that this person has similar dreams and ambitions too.

7) You have a deep longing to be together, even when apart

If you just have to have each other’s company, or if the idea of being apart for even a short time makes your heart ache, then that could be another sign that you’re soulmates.

Let’s dig a little deeper:

You get a strong feeling in your stomach that something is missing when you’re apart from them. You miss them.

You want to see them.

You just want them in your life.

Something happens to your body, which is like an itch that you can’t scratch when you want to be alone.

It’s as if there is this fire inside of you that needs to be filled immediately. The only way to do so is by being with your soulmate because it’s truly one soul in two bodies.

8) You feel so confused

What exactly happened?

Your feelings appear to be all over the place. These are the ones you’re most prone to experiencing:

  • You’ll lose track of what you wanted to say.
  • You’ll notice a difference in your body language.
  • Your body will tremble and you will be unable to control it.
  • Your emotions will soar that you may feel compelled to cry.
  • Your heart is squealing with joy.
  • You’re overjoyed and can’t believe it’s actually happening to you.

How are all of these things possible?

Don’t worry, everything is absolutely normal. Your soul is aware of what’s going on, but it hasn’t yet communicated with your brain.

It’s no surprise that you’re perplexed as you try to figure out what’s going on and why you’re feeling this way.

But once you grasp what’s going on, you’ll be able to relax. Then it’ll feel like you’re at home – and you’ll be protected.

Your heart and mind realize that things are finally fitting into place after years of wondering and wandering around.

And when that happens, you’ll feel an extraordinary sense of calm.

9) You have a deep connection to the way they think

If you see the world in a similar manner as your soulmate does, then there’s a great chance that both of your souls have been together in one form or another many time before.

And because of the way their souls communicate, you can trust that they’re thinking the same things, which is why you both seem to understand each other so well.

You feel like your brain is being programmed by an alien. Or maybe your soulmate is using telepathy to make you think differently about certain things.

When this happens, it brings about a great sense of unity and peace.

Maybe you both think the same way and have similar goals. Or maybe you both are into the same kinds of activities (e.g., artwork, hiking, running, music).

Whatever it is, it doesn’t matter because this is exactly what your souls need to know that they’re thinking in a similar way.

10) There’s great communication between you two

If there’s one thing that you and your soulmate have in common is the way you communicate with each other.

Maybe you both love to write letters or cards, or maybe it’s all about the phone calls. It could be all of the above, and more!

Communication is so important because it allows you to know what’s going on in their mind. You need to know that they’re thinking the same things as you are.

And the best part?

You and your partner have an endless supply of topics to discuss.

You two can talk about anything without being judged.

You’ve always been able to communicate well with each other.

There is a mutual trust between the two of you that makes it easy to open up to each other.

11) The silences are comfortable

Let me guess!

You will be uncomfortable or shy when having nothing to say with the person next to you?

Maybe you’ll try to make up for the silence by making small talk—only to realize that you’re not on the same page.

But with your soulmate?

There is no feeling of silence, because your soul understands what’s going on around you.

And even if your brains don’t, your souls will be communicating in other ways and it makes everything seem natural.

And we’ve all experienced the peacefulness that comes from spending time with someone when you no longer feel the need to fill in all the gaps with conversation.

I think it’s usually something that evolves with time as we become more comfortable with each other.

However, there are occasions when we don’t even have to work towards this, and it happens in a matter of seconds.

Because you’re both enjoying one other’s company so much, it’s possible that you haven’t yet had any peaceful silences.

However, you may still know that you may simply enjoy their company and be content with that.

12) Sparks fly when you’re together

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Let’s talk about when you two are together. What happens to you?

The scintillating energy of passion is what makes everything that much more exciting. Your soulmate seems to ignite a spark that makes your entire body talk.

You don’t seem to be able to control this, and you don’t even want to.

It’s as if your bodies are drawn together by some kind of magnetic force.

It’s impossible to ignore it—and you’re happy about that!

The chemistry is just right, and you can feel it coming from within every time you see them or talk to them.

You head towards a deep connection, and by doing so, the physical attraction will take place naturally.

13) You two enjoy each other’s presence

The presence of each other isn’t just a feeling, it’s an actual fact.

You can see that it’s true when you take note of your bodies or the way your hearts beat together.

Whatever you do, you’re always drawn to being with your soulmate. This is what you’re hoping for and striving for.

You may still be saying that you’re not sure if this is love, but there’s a good chance it is.

It seems to be that your souls are meeting for the first time, and it’s just as exciting now as it was when you were young.

Your souls are simply attracted to each other and want to know more about them.

The more your souls learn about each other, the stronger the bond will become.

With this bond comes an even greater sense of excitement.

‘The best thing about this is that you’ll always have each other, wherever you go. ‘You’ll never have to go through a phase of wondering if the person next to you is missing him/her too.’

What you believe to be love isn’t necessarily on the same level with what your soulmate believes to be love. It doesn’t mean that they don’t have love for you—they do.

14) You fall in love with them immediately

Love takes time to grow but when you meet your soulmate, you instantly fall in love. You know it’s true when you meet their eyes and you feel the warmth of love at the same time.

You may not know where they’re from, although that doesn’t matter because you have hopes and dreams for the two of you to be together.

And, like all great romances, you can only move forward in your relationship through conscious action on your part.

You know how your heart wants to skip a beat when you open the door to your soulmate. You can feel that it starts to race when there’s an empty seat in the next row of a movie theater.

It happens when you first see their face or even their voice. You can’t stand still, and you may have trouble keeping your eyes open.

But this attraction is natural and holy, and it never seems to go away—for long.

However, there’s one thing for sure

The truth is rather different.

Everything isn’t picture-perfect out of the box.

We can’t expect a relationship to be flawless unless we put in the effort.

In order to be prepared to have a relationship, there are certain things that you must do to be ready to meet your soul mate:

Love yourself first

You cannot love someone else unless you love yourself first.

When you find the person who will be your soulmate you want them to feel loved and appreciated just as much as anyone else in their lives.

Therefore, if you are not able to do that for yourself, how can you do it for someone else?

Maybe you need to work on the most important one you’ll ever have before you can fix the others:

The one you have with yourself.

I learnt about this from the shaman Rudá Iandê. In his excellent, free video on cultivating healthy relationships, Rudá reveals where most of us go wrong in our relationships.

So why should you listen to Rudá’s life-changing advice?

Well, he uses techniques derived from ancient shamanic teachings, but he puts his own modern-day twist on them. He may be a shaman, but he’s made the same mistakes in love that you and I have.

And now he’s found the solution, he wants to share it with you.

So if you’re done with feeling less than worthy, if you’re tired of toxic relationships, and you want to cultivate real, genuine love, check out his simple yet effective advice.

Click here to watch the free video.

Be mature

First and foremost, you have to be mature in order to attract a soul mate.

If your relationship is with an immature partner, you’ll be prone to arguments that could ruin your union if not stopped right away.

This can happen because a certain element in your personality attracts an immature partner.

So long as you feel like you have to take control of your life, you will attract an immature partner. You need to become more mature if you want to attract the opposite sex.

The only way to do this is by recognizing the need for change and being able to identify the signs of success and failure—gaining clarity on what things are meant for and what things are not meant for.

Be independent

Now hang on.

You can’t lean on your soulmate for everything, so it’s important to be the best version of yourself that you can be.

Stay focused and strong, don’t lose your head, and don’t weaken yourself as a human being.

Your soulmate is not looking to be the one who makes you weak, they’re looking for someone who’s just as strong as they.

If you’re too dependent on your partner, they may end up leaving you because they don’t want the burden of having to pick up after you.

Be financially and emotionally stable

Here’s the most important part.

There is no doubt that money cannot buy happiness, but there are many things that can be purchased with it.

Many unhappy marriages are the result of one or both partners’ inability to make ends meet.

As a result, financial stability is a necessary.

Having one partner take care of household bills means the other can save money and plan a vacation or a vocational course that you both like.

You must also be able to maintain your composure.

Your new relationship should not be tainted by the resentments and baggage of your previous ones.

In order for a great relationship to begin, you must let go of any and all negative thoughts.

Final thoughts

The beauty of finding your soulmate is that they are uniquely designed to make you happy.

In the same way, you are uniquely designed to make them happy.

You carry a spark of magic that only your soulmate can access and ignite.

Your soulmate has the power to awaken your inner glow and make you shine for all the world to see.

Unlike most people who are searching for the love of their lives, you have found what you need to be truly happy.

From this day forward, you can begin your journey as a happy couple making decisions together and planning for an amazing life together.

Stop seeking love in all the wrong places, and start looking within yourself for this essential ingredient for a successful relationship.

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I've ridden the rails, gone off track and lost my train of thought. I'm writing for Ideapod to try and find it again. Hope you enjoy the journey with me.

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