You’ve been interested in her for a while now, but you haven’t said anything.
It seems like the right time to finally say something, but you don’t know how.
You can feel yourself getting emotional, and you don’t want to start an argument with her. For some people, it’s a thrilling and exciting experience that feels like the first time. For others, it’s a terrifying and confusing experience that they can’t explain.
Regardless of how you feel about it, it’s definitely something you should take into account when trying to figure out if your girl is crushing on you.
But how do you know if she’s actually crushing on you?
1) She’s willing to split a meal with you if the other person is paying
If a girl is willing to split a meal with you, it shows that she’s willing to compromise on the small things. She sees you as an equal.
To her, that means that if she likes you, she should be able to ask you out and spend time with you without having to pay for everything. She’s not asking for anything more than what is already there.
A girl who is crushing on you will definitely put her money where her mouth is – even if it’s just a dollar or two. She’ll split the bill with you and maybe even pay for your drink.
It’s a simple thing, but it’s a sign that she wants to be around you and is open to the idea that she might like you.
If she only wants to be around you if the other person is paying, then it could just be a random thing that she’s doing.
But if she’s willing to split a meal with you, then it could mean that she has feelings for you.
2) She’ll wait until after everyone else leaves to tell you what she wants to do
Everyone has that one friend or that one person they feel they can’t talk to while a third party is around.
If you notice her waiting until after the other people leave to suggest another activity, then she’s probably crushing on you and trying not to be too obvious about it.
It’s hard to tell if she likes you or not if you first meet while everyone else is still around, so she’ll wait until after they leave.
The only way to know for sure is if she talks to you while they are still around, but it can be obvious if she doesn’t feel comfortable because everyone else is there.
A girl who wants to be around you could definitely have feelings for you.
If a girl is trying to get to know you, she will be quiet and not make any plans until after everyone else has left.
Since she’s trying to keep her friends away, it’s a silent signal that the date is officially happening.
She wants you, and she knows it.
3) She’s attracted to your confidence
Dating should be fun, not stressful.
When you’re really present with a woman, you’re showing genuine interest and that’s what makes dating enjoyable.
And if she enjoys your confidence and feels secure whenever she’s around you, she might be interested in seeing where things go.
Think about it:
If she’s already thinking about what it would be like to be in a relationship with you, it’s a very good sign.
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4) Sometimes, she shows her affection by saying “You make me so happy!” or “I love being with you!
I really like it when a woman is able to show her affection for me in public. It makes me feel respected and cared for, but also attractive and manly.
You’re probably much the same way.
If you notice that she’s acting differently around you than she normally does, then it’s likely because she has feelings for you.
She’ll be quiet and won’t be the life of the party, but she really appreciates being around you.
If it was just a random place, she might not want to be there at all. But if it was with you, then she’s ready to pay a little more attention.
And if she’s showing that affection with you by saying things like “You make me so happy!” or “I love being with you,” that means she really does like you.
It shows that she probably cares about you a lot.
5) She always has something nice to say about you when other people are around
A girl who is crushing on you will always want other people to know how awesome of a guy you are.
If you notice that she never has anything negative to say about you, then she’s probably crushing on you.
However, you might not be able to tell until she’s in a heated debate about something and someone comes to your defense.
If she’s really upset about something and speaking negatively about you to another person, she would have come to your defense immediately.
When someone else supports you or even says something positive about you, it shows that they aren’t just saying they like you because they feel pressured – they truly do like you.
It’s a good way to tell that she’s crushing on you, even if it seems too simple.
6) She gives you thoughtful, little gifts
You’re probably familiar with the idea that women like to go shopping.
And if she finds out you have a favorite band, movie, or book that she doesn’t know about, then it could be the perfect excuse for her to go shopping.
If you notice that she keeps buying gifts for you and giving them to you on random occasions, then it might be because she has feelings for you.
It really is that simple!
If she is crushing on you, she will give you little gifts.
They won’t be expensive or even that big, but they’ll mean the world to you – things like drawings, trinkets, and pictures.
It shows that she wants to be around you and cares about your well-being. She’s also showing interest in your life by giving thoughtful gifts like this – it’s a subtle way to show that she cares.
If she loves giving thoughtful gifts and sending cute little messages, then she probably has feelings for you.
7) She keeps extra food for you every time she cooks for herself
Every guy likes to eat. If you’re the one who is cooking, make sure to keep extra food for yourself.
But if she’s always making extra food when she’s at home, then she could be crushing on you.
It shows that she wants to make sure you’re well-fed, which is a good sign that she has feelings for you.
If she already has feelings for you, then she’s going to want to make sure you’re taken care of and will probably add a little extra of everything or add an extra portion of your favorite foods.
It also shows that she really cares about you and always thinks of you even when cooking food.
She is crazy about you!
8) She always makes sure everybody else is having a good time whenever she’s with you
Whenever she’s with you, she always makes sure everybody else is having a good time and doesn’t have to worry about anything else (for example, she makes sure they have snacks or drinks).
Making sure the people around you are having a good time is one of the most significant ways to discover if she’s crushing on you.
If she takes care of you and others around you, it means that she does care about you.
That’s a big sign that she has feelings for you!
She wants to make sure everyone is having fun because it means that any possible drama won’t affect her or anyone else around her.
And when people are happy and enjoying themselves, that’s when a woman is at her most attractive.
No doubt about it!
If she makes sure that everybody else is having a good time, then she’s probably interested in you.
9) She always looks forward to seeing you and is excited when you get together
Usually, when a girl is crushing on you, she’ll get excited thinking about you.
Every time a girl is really into someone, they look forward to seeing them.
If a girl likes you and loves spending time with you, she will always enjoy seeing you and will be ready whenever it’s time to hang out.
But wait, let me tell you something!
A woman is attracted to a man who has confidence in himself, understands who he is, and is clear about what he wants. A woman can usually tell just by the way he acts.
So if she always gets excited seeing you, it’s mostly because she feels the confidence and positive energy from you.
10) She’ll ask you to hang out with her just because she wants to
If she doesn’t have any plans and she wants to hang out with you, don’t even think about refusing!
When a woman likes you, she’ll ask you to hang out.
She’ll say something like, “Oh hey, do you want to hang out sometime this week?” or “Hey maybe we should get together sometime.
Even if she doesn’t have anything planned, she’s definitely going to want to spend time with you.
This is one of the best ways to tell that she’s crushing on you because she’ll definitely want to hang out with you if she likes you.
It shows that she wants to spend time with you and be around you – two things that definitely mean something in a relationship.
11) She always tries to talk to you if you don’t look like you want to be bothered
If you’re not in the mood for her to talk to, then she often won’t try and force herself on you.
A woman likes to be around people who she feels comfortable being around.
And if she sees that they don’t want to be bothered, then she won’t feel pressured or forced into talking.
But if she’s into you, she’ll often try to get a word in since she wants to talk to you so badly.
And it can be as simple as trying to get your attention with a greeting or asking you how your day is going.
That shows that she really wants to talk to you and be around you!
It also shows that she cares about what you have to say and what’s going on with your life.
12) Sometimes, she takes your hands when she wants something from you (like help or a hug)
When a girl is truly into you, you’ll often notice that she wants to get closer to you.
A great sign that she likes you is when she reaches for your hands. This shows that she cares about you, which is a huge aspect of any relationship.
She doesn’t push you away and instead wraps her arms around yours.
She’ll often get a little closer to you when she wants something from you.
She might ask you to help her and hold onto your hands without thinking twice about it.
If she’s grabbing onto your hands when she wants something, that shows how eager she is for you.
It also means that she sees you as someone who can help her with things (and someone who has the capability of helping her out).
This is not only a sign that she likes you, but it also shows that she cares about you.
13) She’ll sometimes help you when nobody else is around
If a girl is crushing on you, she’ll often want to help you. It shows that she cares about your well-being and wants you to be happy.
She notices when you’re in a tough situation and will do whatever it takes to help you out.
If there aren’t any other people around, she might start helping you wipe the table or pick up your keys from the ground.
She won’t hesitate and will always be there to help you. It shows her caring about you and the fact that she wants to make sure you’re okay.
This is a big sign that she has feelings for you because if she were crushing on someone else, it’s doubtful that she would care about your well-being so much!
And this kind of caring is something she might not show to others.
14) She often compliments you on everything that you do
One of the biggest signs that she’s interested in you is when she compliments everything you do.
She might not just compliment your looks, but other things that you do.
If you ask her to hang out and watch a movie with you, she’ll compliment your choice of movies or praise your decision to hang out.
She won’t hesitate to compliment your attire if you’re wearing a new shirt before saying anything else.
She’ll always compliment you first, and her compliments will get a smile on your face.
And the more compliments you get, the happier you’ll be because it shows that you have a good impression of yourself.
15) She gives you a little more attention than she gives other people in general
She’ll usually say yes without hesitation if you ask her to hang out.
She’ll try to make sure that you’re happy and always want to be around her.
This is a huge sign that she cares about you because if she just wanted to hang out with everyone else and did what they said, why is she being so attentive towards you?
She’s showing that she wants to be around you and be with you – two things that mean a lot to a relationship.
And if she only wanted to hang out with everyone for the sake of hanging out, then why is she so concerned about what you’re doing and where it is?
She’s showing that not only does she want to hang out with you, but she also has feelings for you and cares about your well-being.
16) She sometimes makes sure that she sits next to you during a movie or concert
If a girl is really into you, she’ll often make sure she sits next to you, especially during a movie or a concert.
She’ll often ask you, “Do you want to sit next to me?” or “Do you mind if I sit next to you?”
If she asks this question, it’s most likely because she wants to be around you.
She cares about your well-being and wants to be with you. She’ll be the last one to sit down because she wants to make sure that you’re comfortable.
Her seating arrangement will likely result in her sitting on your right or her left (depending on which side of the theatre or venue you are in).
This shows that she probably has feelings for you.
17) She makes you feel more important than you actually are
A girl who cares about you might do this.
She’ll often make sure that you have a better seat than everyone else because she knows that you’re important to her.
This shows that she cares about you because if she just wanted to fit in with everyone else, then she wouldn’t care so much about your standing and comfort level.
It also shows that she wants to make sure you feel important, and her attention is a good thing.
This is a huge sign that she likes you and is interested in you because if she just wanted to hang out with everyone else, then why would she make sure that you’re sitting in a better area?
If a girl is interested in you and is crushing on you, she’ll often treat you as if you’re more important than other people.
She won’t just treat you with respect and dignity but will also show it through her actions.
She cares a lot about your well-being, so she usually won’t be afraid to ask what something is or what your opinion is.
18) She says things to make you feel uncomfortable about yourself
One of the biggest signs that she’s interested in you is when she says things to make you feel uncomfortable.
She might say, “You’re such a good guy!” or “You’re so cute!”
This isn’t necessarily a bad thing, but it can make you feel uncomfortable.
If this happens, just ignore what she says and don’t listen to it.
If you do listen to it, it’ll make you feel bad about yourself and show that you’re insecure about yourself.
It also shows that she thinks highly of you because if she just wanted to have a good time or fit in with everyone else, then why would she make you feel uncomfortable?
She’s showing that she cares about you and doesn’t want to make you feel bad about yourself.
19) She’ll always look at you during conversations, even if she’s talking to someone else
If she’s interested in you, she’ll always make sure she looks at you whenever you’re having a conversation.
It’s a common mentality of someone who has a crush on you.
However, very few people realize this small gesture.
It shows that not only does she care about what you have to say, but she also shows how much she cares about you and what you think about it.
It also shows that she wants to be with you and that you’re important to her.
She’s showing that not only does she like what you have to say, but also cares about your life.
Here’s the point:
She’ll usually glance at you to observe your creation during a conversation, and she also loves your beauty.
In short, looking at you when talking shows that she is crazy about you.
20) She’ll always give you first-person updates on what’s happening in her life
One of the biggest signs that she has a crush on you is when she’ll always make sure that she gives you updates on what’s going on in her life.
Because she wants you to understand more about her and know what’s happening to her.
After hanging out with someone or after the first date, she’ll usually make sure that she texts you to tell you what happened.
It’s important that if something happens, then you have to talk about it.
She’s showing that she wants you to become really close with her.
If two people hang out, they’ll normally talk about what they did before hanging out.
And if they just had a normal conversation, then they wouldn’t need to get text messages the next morning.
It shows that she cares about you a lot.
21) She keeps looking for signs that she can tell what you like, and she looks for a way to do something nice for you
If she has a crush on you, then she’ll often look for a way to do something nice for you.
She’ll often ask you about different things and will wonder what it is that you like.
She’ll also be really interested in trying new things with everyone else and using the same things that everyone else uses.
If she likes you, then she’ll want to be around you as much as possible.
She’ll want to learn about what other girls like in order to try and impress them. She’ll make sure that you’re comfortable and that you have what you need.
She also looks for ways that she can do something nice for you.
Want to make her yours?
This is your chance.
1) Ask her on a date
If you’re interested in her and want to see where things go, begin by asking her out for a date.
By having a date in mind, you’ll show her that you’re interested and ready to move forward into the relationship.
For this part of the conversation, it’s important that you lead it very naturally. Don’t force any lines or say anything unnatural.
Try to find things she has in common with you and open up the conversation from there.
2) Ask her what she thinks of something
This is a great way to help you get to know someone better before going all-in with a real conversation.
The more you talk, the more you’ll find out about how she keeps up on things in general.
Ask her where she likes to hang out, who her favorite person is, and what her thoughts are on the latest news or political issues of the day.
These are great ways to get to know someone better and set up future conversations.
3) Challenge her
Challenging her to a game of basketball or a round of pool is a great way to get to know someone better.
You’ll also show how much you enjoy hanging out together as you play with her and learn more about her as you compete.
If she’s interested, she’ll get excited about the challenge and will have fun playing with you, which will dig deeper into who she is and what types of things she enjoys.
You can challenge her on something and see where the conversation goes from there. After you’ve been talking for a while, you might have some things in common (you both like outdoor activities, or sports, or you both like books).
Then, you can ask her what she thinks about a topic with which you’re unfamiliar.
4) Follow up
After your first date together, you should set up another fun event so that you can really get to know each other better. Then, after a while, you should set up another date and so on.
As long as you are willing to continue the relationship, she’ll be happy to keep going!
The more dates you have together, the better you’ll get to know each other and the more comfortable you’ll feel with her.
By going out with her again, she’ll get excited about seeing you again and developing a deeper relationship. Make sure she has something to look forward to when she’s going out with you.
It’s also a great chance to talk about how you’re feeling about having met in the first place.
If you go out a lot and develop a solid relationship, she’ll be more relaxed around you and the conversation will be better.
That’s why setting up fun dates and events with her is so important for your chances of success.
If she has a crush on you, then she’ll often look for a way to do something nice for you.
She’ll often ask you about different things and will wonder what it is that you like. If she likes you, then she’ll want to be around you as much as possible.
And if you want to be with her, start conversations frequently.
The more you start conversations with her, the better your chances are of winning her over.
The fact is that she knows what you’re talking about and the more you talk, the better your chances.
This isn’t a game or a battle, this is your chance to be yourself and get to know someone who might turn out to be awesome.
But, if she doesn’t respond positively to this, then the best thing you can do is to pull away a bit yourself.
It’s a psychological fact that when we fear we’re going to lose something, we want it 10x more.
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