7 habits unsuccessful people have in common

Have you ever felt like you’re running in place, no closer to your goals than you were a year ago? 

I’ve been there — stuck in a loop of habits that I didn’t realize were holding me back. 

Now, looking back after years of personal growth and stepping into the world of successful entrepreneurship, I see a pattern. A pattern that distinguishes the unsuccessful days of my past from my present.

Through observation and experience, I’ve identified 7 habits that unsuccessful people often share — habits that any of us can change. 

This isn’t about casting judgment; it’s about shining a light on the path that leads away from those patterns and towards success.

1) Procrastination

There’s a thief that might be robbing you of your progress, and it’s called procrastination. 

I was once its frequent victim, always telling myself I’d start ‘tomorrow.’ But in the world of the successful, ‘tomorrow’ is the forbidden word. 

Successful people understand that procrastination is the silent dream killer. Instead of waiting for the perfect moment, they create it by taking action, however small, right away. Because, spoiler: the perfect moment never comes.

So they replace “I’ll do it later” with “What can I do right now?”

If you find yourself putting off tasks, remember that the journey to success starts with the steps you take today, not tomorrow.

Take it from someone who learned the hard way — waiting only leads to more waiting. Begin now, and you might be surprised how quickly ‘later’ turns into ‘accomplished.’

2) Putting short-term gratification first

There’s a subtle trap that many of us fall into: the lure of short-term gratification. It whispers promises of comfort and ease, suggesting a life of leisure on the couch with your favorite snacks and shows.

Enjoying life’s pleasures is indeed important — after all, joy is a part of why we work so hard. But when the immediate gratification comes at the expense of long-term goals, it’s a costly exchange.

Success is often a game of choosing your discomfort. Yes, growth requires stepping out of the comfort zone, which isn’t always the path of least resistance. 

It means sometimes saying no to a night of binge-watching or an extra hour in bed in favor of a morning run or an evening working on your side project.

But the truth is, discomfort is inevitable. Whether it’s the discomfort of discipline or the regret of inaction and laziness, it’s going to find you. 

So, I had to ask myself — and I encourage you to do the same — which discomfort would I choose? The one that leads me towards my dreams, or the one that leaves me stagnant? 

3) Poor time management

The clock is ticking, always. And in the past, I would hear it but not really listen. Poor time management is a common thread among those who feel they’re not quite hitting the mark. 

It’s not about being busy — oh, I was always busy — but about being busy with purpose.

I had to learn the hard way that managing time isn’t just about squeezing in as many tasks into a day as possible.

It’s about prioritizing, planning, and sometimes, saying no to good opportunities to make room for great ones.

High achievers treat time like the finite resource it is, investing it wisely. They know that every minute spent on a task with no real contribution to their goals is a minute lost forever. 

It’s a mindset shift from “I’m too busy” to “I prioritize what aligns with my goals.” And this shift can dramatically change how you view and use your time, opening doors to success that were once hidden behind the fog of busyness.

4) Ignoring mistakes

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We all make mistakes; it’s a universal truth. But the difference between those who succeed and those who don’t often lies in their response to errors.

I remember a time when I brushed my mistakes under the rug, hoping no one would notice. But that’s like ignoring a leaky faucet and expecting it not to flood the kitchen eventually. 

Unsuccessful people often fall into this trap, avoiding the discomfort of facing their faults.

Successful people, on the other hand, treat mistakes as what they are: learning opportunities.

They examine their errors with a detective’s eye, not to scold themselves, but to understand the ‘why’ and the ‘how’ to prevent future blunders. 

And once they understand that, they put the mistakes aside and don’t dwell on them anymore. 

This approach is transformative. It’s not just about fixing problems; it’s about evolving from them. 

And this growth-oriented mindset is what can turn an unsuccessful path into a journey of triumph.

5) Negative attitude

There’s a whisper inside most of us that we hardly notice — a constant, chattering narrator that is quick to point out every flaw, eager to draw comparisons that make us feel small, and always there to remind us of every stumble and fall. 

This inner critic doesn’t just stop with us; it can paint our entire world in shades of negativity.

And it is destructive to our success. Our thoughts are the architects of our destiny; they build the foundation of our beliefs, which in turn influence our actions. These actions are the hands that shape the clay of our lives. 

Imagine trying to sculpt your life’s masterpiece with a voice incessantly whispering that you’re not talented enough, that the material is flawed, or that all grand creations are just strokes of luck.

It’s essential to recognize that this inner dialogue is just that — a dialogue. It’s not an absolute truth. You can challenge it, change it, and choose a narrative that empowers you. 

And when you do so, the path to success becomes a journey you’re not just ready for, but one you deserve.

6) Giving up when things get tough

Life’s journey is often compared to a marathon, not a sprint, and for a good reason.

The road to success is lined with hurdles, and it’s the perseverance through tough times that separates the enduring from those who may fall short of their potential. 

Those who find themselves stumbling on this path often share a common habit: they give up when the going gets tough.

The narrative of giving up can be alluring, whispering that it’s easier to just throw in the towel rather than face the headwinds. 

Yet, what this habit overlooks is the power of resilience and the growth that comes from it. Every challenge conquered is like a battle scar — a testament to strength and a builder of character. 

Consider re-framing the idea of difficulty not as a signal to give up, but as a sign that you’re on the verge of growth, an opportunity to level up in the game of life. 

By adopting a ‘grit mindset’, and viewing each obstacle as a stepping stone rather than a stumbling block, you transform what could be a reason to quit into a reason to push even harder. 

Remember, the sweetest victories often come after the hardest battles.

7) Staying in the comfort zone

The comfort zone is aptly named — it’s where we feel shielded from the high winds of risk and the unpredictability of life. It’s cozy and familiar, a sanctuary where failure and ridicule seem like distant threats.

But here’s the thing: true growth thrives on the other side of that comfort. 

Sure, nobody is suggesting you throw caution to the wind with high-stakes gambles. Sensible and meaningful risks — like launching a podcast, entering a contest, or simply voicing a bold idea in a meeting — are the steps that lead to greatness.

When we talk about risk, it’s not about courting danger blindly but about embracing the possibility of failure as a step towards success. 

The world is full of stories, including my own, of people who dared to step out of their safe havens. 

Success, in any shape or form, never comes with an iron-clad guarantee. But the act of consistently pushing past the easy and the familiar — that’s where the journey to success truly begins. 

I’ve yet to meet someone who, with tenacity and heart, pursued their dreams and didn’t eventually find success as they defined it. 

Embracing change for success

In our journey, we’ve seen the common threads that can quietly weave a pattern of stagnation into our lives. But the power to redefine our path is always within reach. 

I’ve lived the habits that hold us back and I’ve witnessed the transformation that comes with shedding them. 

Success isn’t a distant, exclusive club; it’s a series of choices that are accessible to us all, every day. It begins with the recognition that we can do better and a commitment to act on that realization. 

Let’s choose to embrace the discomfort of growth over the ease of the status quo, for it’s in that space that our potential unfolds. 

Together, we can step forward, leaving behind the habits that don’t serve us, and march confidently toward success as we define it.

Pearl Nash

Pearl Nash

Pearl Nash has years of experience writing relationship articles for single females looking for love. After being single for years with no hope of meeting Mr. Right, she finally managed to get married to the love of her life. Now that she’s settled down and happier than she’s ever been in her life, she's passionate about sharing all the wisdom she's learned over the journey. Pearl is also an accredited astrologer and publishes Hack Spirit's daily horoscope.

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