9 psychic signs someone is thinking of you sexually

Have you ever had an intense, almost inexplicable feeling that someone’s thinking about you in a way that’s more than just casual?

While science may not fully explain it, many believe that certain psychic signs can reveal when someone is thinking of you sexually.

These subtle, energetic cues can appear in various forms—ranging from sudden thoughts to physical sensations.

In this article, we’ll uncover nine psychic signs that suggest someone’s mind might be wandering in your direction with desire.

Pay attention to the energy in the first place, because it will tell you the most and then all the other signs will surely help.

Without any delay, let’s dive in!

1) The energy shifts

Pay close attention to the energy you feel when the person you like comes closer to you. You will be able to feel if he wants to deepen the connection and move to the next level.

When someone is not interested in you, they will try to keep the distance and the energy will be stone cold.

On the other hand, if there is genuine interest between you, you will feel like there is a source of heat between you that is simply not possible to ignore.

Even if you are not sure what is this about, the other people around you will notice the changes and the energy between you that feels like glue. This is usually when your friends can play a significant role.

Tell them to keep a close eye on you two when you are together. Things are much clearer from the objective standpoint.

It is always hard to know for sure what kind of energy someone is sending if the signals are pretty mixed and when your emotions are clouding your judgment.

2) He wants to touch you

If the person you like constantly finds excuses to touch you, then this is a sure sign that he is attracted to you sexually. Pay attention to the way this person acts around you.

Does he hug you a little bit longer than necessary? Does he gently remove the hair from your face and just looks at you? Or perhaps he lightly touches your arm during conversation and finds reasons to sit closer than usual?

These small, seemingly innocent gestures can be clear indicators of physical attraction.

Often, touch is a subconscious way of expressing deeper desires, and if someone is consistently initiating physical contact, it’s a strong sign that they’re thinking of you in a more intimate way.

Subtle touches, lingering hugs, and affectionate gestures reveal their desire to create a closer connection with you, both emotionally and physically.

3) Feeling like you’re not alone

When someone starts thinking about you sexually, you may start feeling his presence even if you are alone at home.

This occurs because sometimes people can send us their energy and thoughts telepathically, which is especially strong when there is sexual tension involved.

It is not something that you should be afraid of, but it may be hard for you to accept it with your mind that this is just the energy sent by the guy who can’t wait to be with you.

Open your mind to this kind of energy and think about the possibility of taking your relationship to next level.

4) The conversations between you get awkward

If you find that conversations with him suddenly feel awkward, it might be because he’s distracted or losing focus.

You may notice him asking you to repeat what you said or seeming preoccupied. This is often a sign that his mind is elsewhere—specifically, on you in a more intimate way—even when you’re discussing something important.

It’s easy to misinterpret this awkwardness as a sign that something is wrong, but in reality, it can be an expression of underlying sexual tension.

Awkwardness, in this context, is just another form of energy, one that can be understood and even embraced rather than feared. It’s not a sign of disrespect; rather, it’s how our biology works.

When attraction is strong, it can be hard to think about anything else.

To truly grasp the dynamics of sexual tension, it helps to look beyond the surface. I had similar experiences that initially felt like barriers to genuine communication, but everything changed after I took Rudá Iandê’s Out of the Box Masterclass.

The insights I gained helped me reframe how I thought about sexual energy and its role in relationships.

Instead of seeing awkwardness as a problem, I began to view it as an opportunity for deeper connection.

If you’re dealing with awkward conversations and sexual tension, this masterclass can help you see things from a new perspective and guide you through the complexities of sexual energy in relationships.

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5) You can feel the magnetism

Sexual energy is a very important aspect of our nature. It is a force that pulls us to explore, conquer, show our abilities but also to embrace our true raw nature.

Once there is an attraction between two people, it feels like a magnet is pulling you closer. If you start noticing that magnetic energy between you, it means that the guy you like is thinking about you emotionally and sexually.

These two aspects are intertwined and in most cases cannot go without the other one. There is no doubt that being intimate with someone we like and love feels good, so if you suddenly start sensing sexual energy coming your way it is because the guy you like is ready to take the next step.

This cannot be ignored in any way because the feeling is very strong and the connection is almost tangible.

6) You feel good around him

If the guy you like makes you laugh all the time and likes to see you happy, this is a sign he is trying to put you in a mood so you start wanting him as much as he wants you. If you feel good around him, you can be sure that he is making an effort to relax you and show you what it would be like if you were together.

Besides, sex doesn’t start in the bedroom. Far from it.

It starts with the look, the touch, and the communication you have. The better you feel, the better the connection will be.

If he’s trying hard to make you feel good and you can see that it is very important for him then you can know for sure that he wants to in his bedroom. It’s a good start and it is a definite sign that there is more than just a friendship in this equation.

The best thing you can do is to simply enjoy this wonderful energy and let your connection become deeper to the extent you want it to go.

7) You may struggle with mood swings

If the guy starts thinking about you sexually all the time, his thoughts may come to your energy field which will impact the way you deal with your emotions. This can happen frequently in the beginning, before you realize what it is about.

Telepathic communication is very frequent and in cases of strong sexual tension, you may start feeling it in the moments when you are busy with something else. You may start feeling happy for no reason, sad in the others, but also aroused.

This may come is as a surprise, but it can be great if you are interested in pursuing a sexual relationship with this guy. The fact that he’s showing you in all the possible ways that he wants you will surely be a boost of confidence necessary to push you in the right direction.

8) He gazes at you frequently

Did you notice that whenever you’re doing something and suddenly glance at him, he’s gazing at you? Well, it’s likely because he’s imagining you in a more intimate setting—or even without clothes on.

If he’s trying really hard to respect your boundaries and give you time to show him what you want, you will see in his eyes that his desire for you increases by the minute.

The fact that he doesn’t want to push you or rush you to make the changes in your relationship or start one if you haven’t started dating yet shows just how much he is willing to wait for you.

However, that doesn’t mean that he cannot think about you sexually.

9) The power of dreams

Ever wake up from a dream and wonder, “Where did that come from?” Our dreams are a fascinating mix of our daily experiences, thoughts, and yes, sometimes our desires too.

If someone appears in your dreams in a sexual way, it’s possible that they’re also dreaming about you. The universe has a funny way of connecting people through the subconscious realm.

Of course, you can’t exactly ask someone if you’ve been starring in their nocturnal fantasies. But if they ever mention having dreamt about you, it might just be a hint that their thoughts about you have taken a more intimate turn.

Remember though, dreams are mysterious and often nonsensical. So don’t take this sign too seriously. It’s more of a fun possibility to consider while trying to navigate the intriguing world of psychic signs.

8 hints he wants to make love to you

Besides these psychic signs that you may start noticing on a regular basis, there are also some hints that will clearly show you that he is ready to take your relationship to a whole new level.

Guys do certain things when they want to get closer, especially if there is lots of sexual tension involved. Here are hints that you should pay attention to!

1) He looks amazing around you

Guys are usually much more relaxed about their appearance when compared to girls. This is a part of their natural charm that is so appealing and attractive to us.

However, when a guy wants to make love to you he will do his best to be on top of his game. This means that his clothes will be either new or carefully put together.

He will want you to notice him and he will try to attract your attention in every way possible. If you ever complimented him that you like the way he looks when he shaves his face, you will probably start seeing him freshly shaved every time he “accidentally” bumps into you.

There is nothing sweeter than a man who is doing his best to look good for you and he knows it. If you start feeling the butterflies having a party in your stomach when you see him so cute, then he is achieving his goal which can be pretty fun.

Anything you say you like about him will be carefully used to the maximum, which is truly adorable and hot, all at the same time.

2) He puts on perfume

There is something so hypnotic about using perfumes and their magic doesn’t seem to seize for centuries. People have always used perfumes to attract a person they like but, to show other people how appealing they are.

If the guy you like suddenly starts wearing perfume every time you see him, then he is probably doing this for you. He’s doing it to make you notice him, but also to think about him every time you smell this perfume even if he is not around.

3) He plans everything

If the guy starts planning everything in advance and organizing date nights to please you, he wants to show you that you are very important to him. Also, he wants to show you how caring and gentle he can be.

It is a known fact that girls like it when guys are taking initiative and guys use it profusely. If he starts making an enormous effort to take you to a concert you like or go for a dinner that you will enjoy, he wants you to know that he is ready to go the extra mile.

4) He invites you to his home

If a guy invites you to his home and no one is there, but you notice soothing music and dim light, you can be sure that this is his sign that he wants to get physical with you.

He will probably prepare everything so you feel completely relaxed which will put you in the mood.

All of this is done so you can start feeling the way he does. He will probably start giving you various hints by touching you and letting you pick the music, which will help you get the idea of what you want to do next.

5) His voice gets really soft

When we are aroused, our voices usually start being softer and lower which is very exciting and it can heat up the situation.

This voice can be staged, but if you feel the genuine desire and the energy between you then the voice may be just a natural consequence of the heated energy between you.

If you notice that your voice is starting to get softer, then this is the starting point of a magical experience you are about to share.

6) He gives you compliments

When we like someone we want them to know it, but of course, instead of just blurting it out, we usually use milder forms.

He will probably say that your hair is nice, that you have beautiful eyes and he will probably look at your lips a lot because he simply wants to touch you and every move will give him away.

Besides, giving compliments brings in positive energy which will help you bond and develop your relationship further. This is very nice and it is a way that he uses to show you that he appreciates your beauty and wants to come near you.

7) He acts heroic around you

If you suddenly notice a guy who is very helpful, wants to solve your problems or he steps in the moment you start dealing with the problem, you should know that he is trying to show you that he’s worthy of your love.

This can be very sweet and can be a wonderful beginning of a relationship and physical connection that can easily lead to something more. Enjoy this attention and help you are getting from him because this can be the beginning stage of a wonderful connection.

8) His body language is pretty easy to read

If you notice that he is open to you, which means his arms are not crossed, and he’s constantly making room for you, this is a great sign that he wants to show you that he cares.

It is a known fact that women like it when guys are relaxed and open to their emotions.

If he is not afraid to show you he likes you, he probably wants you to know that he’s ready to turn it to something more. One of the signs that he is into you is that he will get really close to you when you talk.

Eyes are the mirror of the soul, so pay close attention to the way he looks at you. If he doesn’t want to even blink, it means that he wants to take all your beauty in and show you that he likes you very much.

Final thoughts

Hopefully, this guide can help you navigate through a confusing situation with a guy you cannot exactly decipher.

If you are getting signals you can’t fully understand, then hopefully this guide will shed a little light on the meaning of his behaviors.

We’ve covered the most obvious signs that someone is thinking of you sexually. But if you’re looking to go beyond just interpreting signs and actually build a meaningful, intimate connection, then you might want to check out this free Love and Intimacy Masterclass.

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It’s not just about the physical or even emotional aspects — a deep spiritual connection can elevate your relationship to a whole new level.

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