16 amazing things that happen when you click with someone (complete list)

There are rare moments in the infinitude where we come across someone with whom we instantly click and hit things off on a high note.

When treasured, the rare connections can fill one with happy and special memories.

There may be an instant connection or even inexplicable chemistry between the two of you.

You might be wondering if they feel it too or if you’re just imagining the whole thing because it seems so perplexing or powerful.

It’s also easy to lose track of these fleeting moments and miss out on creating memories with the people that matter.

So here are 16 amazing things that happen when you click with someone

1) There’s meaning even in the moments of silence

There’s no need to fill the awkward moments of silence when you’re with someone with whom you truly connect on a deeper level.

Being in their company alone brings comfort. You can stay together for hours without speaking a word.

In the moments of quietness, there’s an understanding of unsaid feelings and emotions that can be felt on a whole other level.

When there are no words uttered, there’s actually a welcoming stillness that makes you feel at home.

It’s a special moment where both of your souls connect and communicate when the words can’t do justice to how you truly feel about each other.

2) You feel comfortable to speak your mind

Another sign that you click with them naturally is if you feel comfortable speaking your mind without having to think about every word.

You know that they’ll understand what you mean even if you fumble over your words.

You trust them to lend a patient ear to listen to hours of rambling on different topics that pop into your head.

You don’t feel the need to put barriers when you speak because you connect with them to the point where there’s mutual respect and understanding.

This comes when you reach the point where they value your thoughts and opinions.

3) You love their quirks and they love yours

We all have masks that we put on for the rest of the world. We try to be on our best behavior for the world whether we realize it or not.

But when you truly click with someone, you start to see and love their quirkier sides, and they end up loving yours too.

The connection goes past those walls to the point where you know the deepest secrets of each other and embrace them.

For some reason, you love it when they use strange accents for no apparent reason or they love the fact that you’re still into cartoons.

You’re just as eccentric as they are, and you wouldn’t want either of you to change in the slightest.

When there’s a genuine connection between two people, acting incredibly silly together simply serves to strengthen that bond.

4) Everything about them feels natural and organic

It’s like skipping through a summer meadow when we meet someone with whom we click right away – it’s delightful and effortless.

Everything about them feels natural and organic as if it were meant to be.

Time flies when you’re with them and you never feel the pressure to make extra efforts to push it forward; it builds itself on its own.

While watching the newest Netflix show, it just feels right when they put their hand in yours or their arm around your shoulders.

Your bodies just seem to fit together like a puzzle with every touch feeling natural.

5) You know exactly how you feel about them

While there may be a part of you that may want to ask them if they feel like you click and vibe together too, deep down you already know the answer.

When you’re with them you’re on cloud nine, and rarely do you ever stop to overthink what you feel for them.

In your heart, you know that there’s a natural connection like none other.

You never pause to consider your feelings for them again, and never ask questions.

Because there’s so much more good than bad things about your relationship, you can seldom stay angry with someone for very long, no matter how annoying they’re or what they do that you think is stupid.

6) They inspire, motivate and empower you

A person with whom you click with is someone who inspires you; someone who’s always there to motivate and empower you – the both of you grow and evolve together.

Sure, the two of you might have differences but you focus on complementing each other.

Together, the both of you are an unbeatable duo.

Things that you’ve consistently put off because there’s never enough time suddenly become a top priority.

Because you want to continually be your best self when you have a profound connection with someone; that degree of fulfillment and commitment eventually overflows into other aspects of your life.

7) You want to venture outside your comfort zone around them

It takes a special kind of connection to make someone want us to voluntarily venture out of the bubble of comfort that we envelope ourselves within.

When that person with whom you have that connection can intrigue you by sparking your curiosity and imagination, it can bring out the more adventurous sides of you.

They’ll make you want to try things that you would have never done before. You’ll have the confidence to face the world and discover new sides of yourself.

You get the impression that someone’s always looking out for you in life, which will inspire you to make further strides toward greatness.

8) You’re not afraid to open up the darkest sides of yourself

Similar to how a deeper connection with someone brings out your best qualities, it also applies to your less desirable traits.

Because you’re confident that they’ll always adore you for who you’re, they push you to take a good hard look in the mirror and bravely face your personal demons.

Vulnerability requires a great deal of confidence and trust.

Because of this, the degree to which you feel comfortable being open, true, and genuine with someone says a lot about your relationship.

With a genuine connection, you may let go of part of that baggage since you’re no longer required to keep it and don’t have to worry about them judging you for it.

9) You can’t imagine a time before them

Even though you have just recently crossed paths, there are some people you meet who make you feel as though you have known them for a very long time.

It feels as though your actual connection has always been a part of your life, even though you have only recently met them.

Trying to imagine what life was like before they entered your life is like having amnesia. They seamlessly blend into both your life and theirs.

The closest thing to fate that exists is this.

Whether it is a shared background, similar interests, or a natural click, you tend to feel like they have been a part of your entire life.

10) You’ll do anything for each other

Have you ever felt a connection so strong you would throw yourself in front of a bus for that person?

There is a strong desire to keep this person safe and happy. You want them to enjoy their life, and this helps you to enjoy yours.

If you feel like each other’s heroes, you are forming a deep level of intimacy and connection.

Simply put, men want to step up for the woman they care about and earn her respect in return.

11) They Make You Feel the Butterflies

A classic sign that you click with them is if you can feel the butterflies when they’re around you or you think of them. you’re genuinely enthused with excitement when you think about them.

This may even translate into a natural attraction and intimacy that transcends the sexual level.

Just being around them can make your day and fill you with a buzz.

Deep down your gut is telling you that there’s a special kind of connection and spark between the two of you that’s rare to find.

It can feel like the entire world has disappeared and you can only think of them when they’re in front of you.

Your eyes, focus, and attention are fixed on each other.

12) You Can’t Wait to Meet Them Again

When there’s a genuine spark between the two of you, you can’t wait to see them again.

Even though you may have spent the entire day together, you miss them minutes after you say goodbye. The both of you genuinely cherish each other’s company.

You feel like you’re the happiest version of yourself when you’re by their side.

This longing to be around each other all the time is a sign that you click on an emotional, physical, intellectual, and spiritual level.

Even the most mundane of activities become so much more fun when you do it with them.

13) You Almost Finish Each Other’s Sentences

When you naturally click and vibe with someone, your personalities connect on a whole new level.

They know you completely and vice versa – it may even come to the point where the both of you finish each other’s sentences.

Your wavelengths, line of thinking, and humor sense are perfectly in sync with each other it can almost feel unreal.

We often gravitate towards people who we have some common ground with but it’s also true that when we truly connect with someone it’s almost as if the two of you blend into a single person with common ideologies without compromising on each other’s individuality.

14) You’re Excited to Introduce Them to Your Friends and Family

When someone is a part of your life, you want to introduce them to your closest friends and family.

You look forward to introducing them to the people who are most important in your life.

When you can’t wait for the moment when they meet those closest to you, it’s a good sign that there is a deep connection between the two of you.

It shows that as individuals you are clicking and connecting at a level that transcends just the two of you.

When it comes to introductions, you don’t need to put on an act or pretend that you’re something that you’re not when they meet your family and other loved ones.

15) You Feel Like You Can Be Yourself Around Them

When there’s a genuine connection, it feels like the other person knows exactly how to make you feel comfortable around them.

You feel like you can be your true self, even though you’re around them.

This is one of the most telling signs of a connection that is not just superficial.

You leave your ego behind and feel comfortable with them knowing their exact thoughts, reactions, and expectations around you.

16) They Leave You Speechless

It can just be by their presence or by their actions, but when you are with someone, nothing is more telling of the extent of your connection than how they leave you speechless.

When you’re speaking to them and they know exactly how to make your body feel, it’s hard to keep a genuine smile on your face because they’re making it so easy for you.

With a connection of that level, you feel as if you were meant to meet them in person.

What if you feel like you’re not clicking with someone?

If you feel like you can’t tick off these signs with someone, then don’t worry.

There is a way to resolve this and click with your partner. 

I mentioned the unique concept of the hero instinct earlier. It’s revolutionized the way I understand how men work in relationships. 

You see, when you trigger a man’s hero instinct, all those emotional walls come down. He feels better in himself and he’ll naturally begin to associate those good feelings with you. 

And it’s all down to knowing how to trigger these innate drivers that motivate men to love, commit, and protect.

So if you’re ready to take your relationship to that level, be sure to check out James Bauer’s incredible advice. 

Click here to watch his excellent free video

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Lachlan Brown

I’m Lachlan Brown, the editor of Ideapod and founder of Hack Spirit. I love writing practical articles that help others live a mindful and better life. I have a graduate degree in Psychology and I’ve spent the last 6 years reading and studying all I can about human psychology and practical ways to hack our mindsets. If you to want to get in touch with me, hit me up on Twitter or Facebook.

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