BY MARCEL DEER
Constant, low-level anger bubbling below the surface signals deep unhappiness in men, manifesting in short tempers, perpetual frowns, or even road rage, serving as a clear indicator of underlying issues despite attempts to conceal them.
Some deeply unhappy men resort to violent behavior, often engaging in frequent fights as a means of releasing pent-up emotions, seeking out other aggressive individuals to justify their actions, though not all are actively seeking conflict.
Many men, unable to openly express their emotions, especially unhappiness, resort to complaining and criticizing as a means of regaining a sense of control, with some exhibiting full-blown complaints about everything while others demonstrate subtler behaviors, such as complaining at odd times or about trivial matters, serving as potential indicators of deeper dissatisfaction.
When men become noticeably quieter than usual, it often signals underlying unhappiness, as they may withdraw from expressing themselves and offering opinions due to a combination of upbringing and low self-esteem, a behavior often overlooked but indicative of deeper dissatisfaction.
"Overdoing it" for men can encompass excessive work, partying, or exercise, often serving as a means of escapism from underlying unhappiness, yet while these activities may initially seem positive, pushing them to extremes can lead to detrimental outcomes, indicating deeper issues.
Have you noticed a man who once took pride in his appearance now seeming to neglect it? This shift might stem from various factors such as age, increased responsibilities, or underlying unhappiness, with signs like irregular grooming, stagnant wardrobe, or fluctuations in weight indicating potential struggles that warrant support and empathy.