BY tina fey
Bringing up certain topics can trigger negative emotions in individuals who haven't fully healed from past experiences, leading them to avoid discussing these subjects to prevent confronting their emotions, as illustrated by my neighbor who couldn't bear talking about marriage or weddings due to a painful divorce that remained fresh in his memory, highlighting that avoidance may signal deeper underlying issues.
People who've experienced betrayal or hurt by someone they trusted may struggle to trust others, often maintaining emotional distance and preferring shallow conversations to avoid exposing their vulnerabilities when deeper discussions arise.
People who experience recurring nightmares and daytime flashbacks due to unresolved trauma may suffer from disrupted sleep, emotional withdrawal, and suppressed emotions, potentially indicating underlying issues affecting their well-being.
People still affected by their past often struggle to let go, holding onto hurts with unforgiveness, bitterness, and hatred, even when the other party may not remember or comprehend the extent of the trauma they caused, leading to a perpetual negative mindset and difficulty in releasing these long-held memories.
These emotions can negatively affect a person's mental health, potentially resulting in depression, chronic anxiety, and frequent panic attacks that may require professional treatment for improved well-being.
This emotional distress can manifest in physical ailments like migraines and body aches, disrupt appetite patterns leading to either weight gain or loss, and even result in overexertion through excessive exercise, potentially causing injuries and burnout.
To avoid confronting reality, some individuals may attempt to escape their feelings through activities like video games, overeating, or excessive television consumption, which, when done excessively, can be detrimental, as unresolved issues persist and may eventually lead to more harmful behaviors like substance abuse or gambling, often hidden from others until signs of strain become noticeable.