Do you feel like you are feeling strong and empowered and ready to share your life with someone in a meaningful way?
When you are about to meet a significant person in your life, whether it be a soulmate or a long-term life partner, some significant things tend to align in your life.
Here are 12 things that might happen right before you meet the love of your life.
Let’s jump right in:
12 things that happen right before you meet your soulmate
1) You will have a better understanding of what is important in your life
After meeting your soulmate, you might find out that there are a lot of things in your life that you never thought about before.
You might find out that you have the same interests as your partner, or that you have different hidden talents that can come through because of how you interact. You might take on new challenges, business pursuits or courses that you were timid to get involved with.
Your soulmate might challenge you to use your talents in a way you have never thought of before.
You might also find out that you have a lot in common with your soulmate and this helps you to keep on the path of your dreams.
After meeting your soulmate, you might learn more about yourself and what makes you happy and gain more clarity about what you need and can give in your life.
2) You may experience a shift in your personality
Your personality may change as you get to know your soulmate.
This is because your soulmate is a reflection of you and the person you have been searching for.
They will probably be more authentic than you have ever been before, and they may be more understanding than you thought possible.
You may also find that you fall in love with them instantly. When you fall in love with your soulmate, it’s usually instantaneous and unquestionable.
The feeling of falling in love is intense and strong; it can be hard to get rid of that feeling. It’s like the first time you kiss—you don’t know what will happen next and you are completely lost in that moment.
Your soulmate is like the mirror that reflects to you the person you are, and this may be why you fall in love with them instantly and the love grows deeper and deeper.
3) You may find new friends who are similar to you
When you are about to meet your soulmate, you will probably feel surrounded by the love of friends around you.
Friendship is a pure form of love that we give one another with very little expectation in return. The more we surround ourselves with warmth and love, the more we will be able to give and share.
Love is an unending currency. The more we give, the more we learn to give.
It’s not always easy to find someone similar to you, but by meeting someone compatible with you in a romantic context.
But, when you surround yourself with friends, family, and community, It will be easier for you to find a romantic partner who adds to your ability to love.
Meeting more friends who share interests will also bring out the best in you and vice versa. They might even help you attract or introduce you to the love of your life.
4) You may gain access to new knowledge and abilities
When you are in a space where you feel open and receptive to giving love and joy, you may be able to tap into new levels of mental and emotional clarity.
This will make it easier to have truthful, honest, and meaningful conversations and connections with others.
Knowing yourself better will also make it more likely to form deep bonds with the people you meet.
Or it can help you to experience a deep connection with someone you’ve always known was special.
You may find that you have more understanding of yourself, others, and the world around you.
And because of this knowledge, you will be more able to understand the meaning of true love.
5) You may experience a change in your emotions
You may suddenly feel a strong connection to someone, that is strong and inexplicable.
This is because the connection you share for each other is so powerful that it can change everything about your life.
When two people connect through positive emotions, thoughts, and feelings, they can create a powerful force that can achieve anything.
You will feel a type of intimate connection that makes us human; it is what allows us to feel empathy for others and care for them in return.
To have strong relationships with others, we need some understanding and trust in our abilities as well as the ability to be kind and compassionate towards those around us.
This takes time—it takes effort on both parts of our lives—but when done correctly, it can change everything about your life.
You might have been waiting for a moment to make a significant change in your life and when you meet this person they propel you forward.
Your emotions may have been fluctuating. It might feel like you are on a roller coaster and life is taking you through ups and downs of extreme joy and pain and stress. But when you meet your soulmate, you might tune into an air of calm and this ride will feel a little more secure and supported.
You might feel expressive, as though you are feeling things are more intense and passionate than ever before, and yet grounded and feeling like an inner guiding force.
6) You might feel love at first sight
Love is a feeling that people experience when they are attracted to someone and feel a strong connection. They don’t always know why. But often our gut just speaks to us: “Trust this one” or “Careful with that one”.
Often, the two people involved in a relationship fall in love because they share similar values, have the same interests or have similar personalities.
Opposites do attract and can be powerful matches when they bring out the parts of each other that might normally go overlooked. They bring out different aspects of each other that might normally be hidden or not appreciated.
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This can lead to powerful matches where the two people can work together towards a common goal and have an intense connection with one another.
7) You might not want to date at all
Perhaps you have been single for a long time or are more interested in forming friendships with your friends. When you meet a significant love of your life, it tends to happen when you aren’t looking at all.
Perhaps you have been in many relationships and are looking for something more meaningful.
Or perhaps you want to work on yourself.
You might even feel like you would be better off alone, without a romantic partner.
The thing is when you are about to enter into a deep and meaningful relationship, you will feel very clear on what you need in life and what you are best able to give your friends and family, and community.
When you meet your soulmate, it can feel like a light is going off.
Something will click where you feel like this person is bringing out your weaknesses for you to look at and daring you to dream big again. It will probably feel exciting and terrifying at the same time.
8) The feeling of love might feel very strong, and sometimes painful
When you meet your soulmate or strong match, you may instantly feel like you are safe and arriving home.
This is because they make us feel completely at ease in a way no one else ever has. Your soulmate is named such because they can touch a deep part of you that no one else can typically access.
This feeling can be overwhelming and feel like you are being taken over.
It can even feel painful. But it is a good pain, the kind that feels like a crab is breaking through its shell to take on a space that is bigger than before.
You might try to push this person away because it hurts so much. That’s a natural reaction. But try to bear in mind this person is close and able to help you grow in ways that you might not have otherwise known you were capable of.
If someone hurts you, it’s important to tell them how you feel. It can be difficult to deal with things that hurt, but telling the person what’s going on will help make the situation more manageable and less confusing.
And if someone has hurt you in the past, also let your new partner know how you are sensitive and what might throw you off in your interactions.
Remember, understanding is the sister to love.
9) You might have been waiting for someone to come into your life who will help you grow and change
It’s easy to live alone. It’s easy to push on and be independent and live life as you like.
Sometimes meeting someone you’re interested in and developing a strong connection with can feel like destiny has intervened.
When we fall in love, it’s often the same feeling—a deep sense of excitement, happiness, and peace that comes along with finally knowing who we are meant to be together.
The key is not to let the feelings get too out of hand or overshadow your actual goals for relationship status or networking; keep things simple and focused on what makes both of you happy.
But what happens when you get a partner?
What happens when you have someone who cares about and loves you for who you are, not just what he or she thinks is best for you?
But deep down inside, you may have been hoping for a love that would challenge you to grow in all areas of your life: intellectually, spiritually, and emotionally.
10) You might feel like you have known each other forever
When you meet your soulmate or a significant person in your life, it can feel like you have known them forever.
Many things go into making this connection, from the time you meet someone to the depth and breadth of their love. It doesn’t matter if your partner is just an acquaintance or a lifelong friend.
It can feel like a déjà vu, or that you have known them for so long that you can’t remember a time when they weren’t in your life or that you have met them before. They will just make sense.
11) You might feel like you are in a relationship with your best friend
When you meet the one, it will feel like the best relationship of your life – even better than with anyone else who has come before.
You will be able to talk about everything with this person and enjoy their company more than anyone else’s.
Conflicts may not feel enjoyable but you will be able to navigate through them and come out with more understanding.
At some point, you might even start to laugh at the way you interact and squabble.
12) You will find that you can be yourself around your soulmate
You might feel more comfortable around your soulmate than anyone else in your life.
You will feel like you can be yourself and that they are not judging you.
You will feel loved and accepted and able to fully express yourself.
You can open up to them and not have to pretend to be someone else, which means that they will know everything about you.
So, Where do we go from here?
Now, you must be thinking, “If all of these things are true, how come I don’t have a soulmate?”
Well, it is possible that you do have a soulmate out there somewhere. Maybe you have to put yourself out there a little more, embrace your passions, get involved with life and your friends more.
Maybe the timing isn’t right.
Sometimes the best moments come when we least expect them to.
So try to stay open, ready, and loving to all!
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I used to believe I needed to be successful before I deserved to find someone who could love me.
I used to believe there was a “perfect person” out there and I just had to find them.
I used to believe I would finally be happy once I found “the one”.
What I now know is that these limiting beliefs were stopping me from building deep and intimate relationships with the people I was meeting. I was chasing an illusion that was leading me to loneliness.
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