14 telepathic signs she’s communicating with you

When we fall in love, we usually don’t know what hit us. It is the most wonderful and the scariest experience there is.

We are thrilled and terrified all at the same time. It can be quite confusing, to be completely honest.

If you fell in love with the girl who is giving you mixed signals, you probably started wondering if the weird things you started to notice are actually signs that she’s communicating with you telepathically.

Don’t worry, there are a few signs that will help you with this puzzle!

What is telepathy?

Let’s begin first by saying a little bit more about telepathy and the connection that people have that cannot be explained by anything else. People have always been interested in the ways to communicate with someone they love without using any technology.

Being able to send the thoughts to someone else and let them know that we think about them is a perfect dream that every person thought about at least once in a lifetime.

There were studies conducted by Harvard University when they achieved to send a message using only the power of the mind while the participants were miles away. Even though this is not completely researched, it is certainly progress and there is definitely something more to this kind of communication than we know.

Can you connect telepathically with just anyone?

Well, in order to be able to vibrate on a similar frequency, you should be very similar and interested in the same things with the person you want to connect to. However, that is not all.

We are simply more prone to connect with the people we can feel with our hearts. When we fall in love, we feel the person to their core, which increases our chances of feeling telepathic connection significantly.

Now, without further ado, 14 signs she is communicating with you telepathically!

1) Her eyes “talk”

When she’s looking at you, if you feel like you can hear her talk, this is an amazing sign that she is communicating with you telepathically. This happens very rarely and only with the people who are very similar and feel drawn to each other.

If you are not sure what she thinks about you, the meaningful looks she gives you will surely help you understand her feelings better. The feeling of telepathic connection and having a “conversation” with eyes is very unusual, but you will simply know in your heart what the girl you like is trying to tell you.

Some people mistake this kind of communication with intuition. However, these things are not the same, because by using your intuition you will be able to feel the emotions of a person, but if you’re telepathically connected you will feel like you can hear the person saying the words.

The fact that there are certain similarities makes it harder for people to understand the differences completely.

2) You know what she is going through

If the girl you like doesn’t talk to you much, but you still know with your heart what is she going through, it means she’s using telepathy to let you know when she’s sad or when she needs help. This can manifest through confusion or sudden feelings of sadness that you cannot explain by any event in your life.

This can be exhausting and pretty overwhelming, but you can find out more by asking her about the things that are bothering her. If she tells you that she was feeling very sad at the time when you also felt sadness, it means that she was communicating with you by using telepathy.

It means that you are connected on a deeper level and that you can receive the mental messages she is sending you without saying a word. This can be scary at first, but it is a powerful connection that can get you even closer together.

It can manifest through fast mood changes when you can feel sad, then happy, excited than annoyed. It is not easy to be impacted by emotions and the energy of another person, but it can be thrilling at the same time.

3) You dream of her

Dreams are very powerful and can help us understand our lives better because it is a way for our brains to process information received during the day. No one can actually explain how dreams work, but numerous people experienced dreaming about something and then the same thing happens in real life.

People in love usually dream about each other because they want to be around the person they deeply care about. However, this is not the only reason.

If your girlfriend or a girl you like keeps appearing in your dreams, there might be one more reason for it – she wants to communicate with you telepathically. These types of dreams are slightly different from regular dreams because you will feel like you are truly experiencing them.

They are very vivid and feel very real so you will probably be confused. You won’t know if you dreamt about her or did it really happen.

You can start writing about your dreams so you can understand them better and find out more about the underlying message these dreams carry with them. It can sometimes happen that everything you talk about in your dream actually occurs in real life.

This can feel like a deja-vu or a glitch in the universe, but it is a call from the person you love to be closer to you.

4) You suddenly start talking about the same thing

This is what happens when we are very close to someone and when we want to connect with them even more. If it often occurs that you start talking about something and then hear her say the same thing it means that you are telepathically connected and that she wants to send her thoughts to you.

This can sometimes be funny and can be a good reason to deepen the conversation and spend more time together. Even if you are already in a relationship, if you are not very eager to talk, but you suddenly get a burst of words coming out of your mouth for no reason, it can mean that she has been sending you the energy and thoughts by using the power of her mind.

Telepathic communication can be pretty useful during the periods when you’re picking a fight often. You can feel it like a sudden urge to call her or the unstoppable need to be with her.

It can certainly be helpful, especially if both of you are too stubborn to call first.

5) A real psychic confirms it

The signs I’m revealing in this article will give you a good idea about whether she is communicating with you telepathically. 

But could you get even more clarity by speaking to a real psychic?

Clearly, you have to find someone you can trust. With so many fake psychics out there, it’s important to have a pretty good BS detector. 

After going through a messy break up, I recently tried Psychic Source. They provided me with the guidance I needed in life, including who I am meant to be with. 

I was actually blown away by how kind, caring, and knowledgeable they were.

Click here to get your own psychic reading.

A genuine psychic from Psychic Source can not only tell you more about her, but they can also reveal all your love possibilities.

6) You know what she wants to say

When you are closely connected with someone, you can sometimes know what they will say before they even say it. If your sweetheart is sending you telepathic thoughts and energy, this will occur even more frequently.

It is a known fact that couples in love can finish each other’s sentences. This happens for a good reason because they know each other very well but also because their thoughts are synced.

Sometimes girls wish to be even closer with the person they love so if this suddenly started happening to you can be sure that she is testing her telepathic abilities. She wants to draw you to her.

This can be a wonderful way to deepen the connection and improve the relationship. It can also be a way to start a relationship if you haven’t already.

7) Silence doesn’t bother you

People usually tend to talk all the time especially when they are in love because they simply want to spend more time with the person they like. However, if you feel that the silence is very comfortable when you are with your darling and if it feels like you are talking by using only your eyes and hearts, it means that she is sending you the energy and the love with her mind.

Pay closer attention to the energy she sends. If it is soothing and comforting, then you are on the right path.

Not many people can be so synchronized to be able to enjoy the silence together. This feeling is very precious and it doesn’t happen often.

This is why you need to cherish it and nurture it so it can grow. Being completely relaxed and at ease with the person you spend your time with is the perfect sign that you are a good match.

8) You feel the warning

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In some situations when we are not careful enough we can be in danger without even knowing it. People who care about us can feel it and send us telepathic warnings that we should go from the place we are currently located at or do something to stay healthy and safe.

If you suddenly start feeling like a warning is going through your body that can be a way the person you love warns you about something that is about to happen. This can feel pretty disturbing and harsh the moment you feel it, but it is a telepathic sign of love.

When something like this happens, you should take this sign seriously and not disregard it immediately. It means that your darling is trying to keep you safe and you should be grateful for the thoughts she’s sending.

9) You smile for no reason

If you suddenly realize that you are smiling while you do something else, this can mean that someone is sending you positive energy and is thinking about you at the moment.

If the girl you are interested in suddenly starts sending you telepathic thoughts and energy it’s like a rush of positive energy flowing through your body.  It is a wonderful feeling and a way for you to know that you’re not alone and that someone cares about you.

It is like a ray of light that appears suddenly, just like a rainbow after the rain and it feels wonderful. If you start feeling this kind of energy it can only mean one thing – your darling is thinking about you right now.

10) You feel like your cheeks are burning

We are used to having our cheeks red when we get embarrassed about something or when we have a glass of wine. However, if you are not embarrassed and you drink only water but somehow your cheeks are completely red, the reason may be that the person you love is thinking about you.

Some people notice that their ears are getting warm without any visible reasons. That can mean that the girl you like is trying to send you a mental message to call her and maybe deepen the connection you have.

Pay attention to the physical symptoms you have, and think about the way it can relate to the thoughts she may be sending.

11) You get hiccups

There is an old belief that’s when you start hiccupping, someone is thinking about you or mentioning you to someone else. Keep in mind that sometimes the cause of hiccups can be related to a health issue, so try to resolve that first.

Try to drink a glass of water and if you see that it doesn’t work and that you are still hiccupping, then the reason may be of a different nature. If you simply cannot stop no matter what you do, you could try calling the girl you like and start a conversation about anything.

You will notice that you will stop pretty soon because her goal will be achieved – you will be in touch. Your sweetheart was probably thinking about you and wanted to talk to you.

12) You get goosebumps

Goosebumps often appear when something frightens us or when we are excited about something. However, goosebumps can appear on our skin when someone is sending their thoughts to us wanting to be close to us.

If you start noticing goosebumps without any specific reason, then the reason may lie in the thoughts of your sweetheart. If she is trying to send mental messages to you, you will probably start thinking about her and get distracted, but your skin will react as well.

It is a sign that she’s trying to inspire you to call her or do something else that will intensify the bond that you have. Well, you can call her or make some romantic gesture that will show her just how much you care.

13) You can hear her voice

It is normal to hear the voice of the people you love in your head when they are not there especially when you think about the time that you spent together. However, if you start hearing your darling saying the things that you have never heard her say before, this can be a sign that she’s trying to communicate with you telepathically.

Pay close attention to the things she’s saying because she may be trying to tell you something she’s not able to tell you in person. This can be an opportunity for you to develop a deeper connection and create a stronger bond, so take it seriously and enjoy your relationship.

14) You feel like she’s touching you

There is no better feeling in the world than to feel the skin of the person you love and spend all the time in the world with them. This is not always possible, but if you feel like you’ve been touched but your darling is not there then she may be trying to communicate with you telepathically.

This feeling can be quite confusing at first especially if you have never experienced it before. Open your mind to this kind of energy transfer and you will be more comfortable after a while.

It is just a way that loved ones are able to send energy and love to us. She’s maybe trying to let you know just how much she cares about you and how she feels.

What you cannot expect from telepathic communication?

These are all wonderful signs that you are in sync with the person you love. However, it is necessary to talk about what you cannot expect from telepathic communication because people often consider it a miracle that can fix anything.

It is potent, there is no doubt about that, but you should also do what you can to improve the way you communicate when you are together. Sometimes couples in love expect that their partner will read their mind.

This of course leads to numerous conflicts and problems in the relationship which can only grow as time goes. Telepathy is not explored yet and it should be considered as a lovely way just to show someone you think about them and that you care.

But, it should not be considered as the main form of communication. If you suddenly start liking telepathy so much that you get mad when your girlfriend cannot guess or know what you like or want, then it is time for you to learn how to communicate better and bond on different levels.

Tips for improving communication in a relationship

Communication is a skill that can be learned just like anything else. If you start thinking that there are certain glitches in your communication and there are often misunderstandings, then you should work on improving it further.

Here are a few tips that can help you do just that!

1) Think about your emotions first

When we get too emotional, we can start being too harsh or tactless when we talk to other people. This can especially be hurtful in a relationship when the person you are talking to wants you to be kind, but you’re too hurt to be calm.

Think about the emotions that are bubbling up inside, so you can first understand better what the problem is before you start dealing with it with the person you love.

This is a good strategy in every situation, but it will be highly beneficial in this particular one. If your loved one is trying to communicate with you telepathically it may mean that she is trying to find a way to fix the issues you are dealing with at the moment.

Once you are clear about your feelings, it will be easier to deal with any issue that you may have.

2) Learn to listen

Relationships are sometimes hard and they can be confusing because it’s simply not easy to find a good way to say some things when the other person is very sensitive. Try to work on listening more carefully and truly hearing what your loved one is trying to tell you.

This can be hard at first, especially if you are truly upset. However, it is a skill necessary if you want your relationship to work. Try to notice the non-verbal signals she’s giving you, as well as the things she’s saying so you can fully understand what to do to make things better.

If your girlfriend is saying that everything is alright, but you simply see that she’s not satisfied because of something, you don’t have to read her mind, you just need to enable the relaxing environment that will soothe her.

Sometimes just the tone says it all about the emotions someone is feeling. This is usually a hint that something is not right and that something should be done.

It can sometimes be just leaving her alone so she can process her feelings and settle down. Other times, a sweet thing like making dinner or preparing tea can do wonders for a relationship.

3) Say what you need

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One of the most important things in a relationship is that you need to say clearly what you need. No one can read your mind if you don’t ask for the things you need and want.

Of course, in order to be able to ask for the things you need, you should first understand your needs better and know how to get them. One of the reasons so many fights and misunderstandings in a relationship happen is because the other person doesn’t say clearly what their needs are in a clear manner.

It can lead from one problem to another until it gets too big so no one knows how it started. This is one of the most important pillars of good communication in a relationship.

Everything else just comes as the icing on the cake. When you know yourself well, you will be able to get what you need, which can lead to greater satisfaction in a relationship.

This is the only way that a healthy relationship can be built. It should be based on trust and support, which can lead to a better connection on all levels.

If you can say what you need, you’re much more likely to attract the right type of woman for you. 

4) Make your bond a priority

We tend to get overwhelmed with everyday obligations and simply forget just how important it is to nurture and cherish the relationship we have. The moment the problems start appearing, you should try to invest your time and do things that will make it right.

Depending on the time you’ve spent together, you will be able to read the small cues she’s giving you, so you can adjust your behavior accordingly. Do more things together that you enjoy and choose some hobbies that would bring excitement into your relationship.

You will soon notice that your communication expressed verbally and telepathically is getting stronger and better every day.

5) Ask questions

This is very simple and obvious this you maybe probably wondering now why is it necessary to say it. However, you would be surprised how often people forget to simply ask what’s wrong before developing a whole story in their minds about the reason why their significant other is sad or upset.

By simply asking everything you want to know will probably get you farther than just imagining all the things that may be wrong. Not only this can decrease the time before the problem gets resolved, but it will show your loved one that you want to make things right.

If your girlfriend is not ready to share the reason why is she upset, that is fine too. Sometimes just giving enough space is enough to help the person deal with her emotions.

6) Take your time

If you are both in a rush and you are too distracted by your phone, emails, laptop or anything else, the room for misunderstandings increases by the minute. Take some time to truly talk and hear what your girlfriend has to say.

This is a good starting point for finding a solution to a problem that you cannot understand at the moment. Sometimes the problem is very small and the emotions we have make it huge.

Don’t shove the problems under the carpet and let them become too big to resolve. Address all the problems when they appear, so you can continue building the relationship you’ve always dreamed of.

Every time you ignore the problem and hope it will disappear by itself, there is a huge chance that it won’t.

7) Send her a telepathic message

If nothing seems to work, you can always start sending telepathic messages to her, so she can receive the energy you send to her. In order to make it work, you need to find a quiet place where you won’t be disturbed.

Focus on your breathing, clear your thoughts and imagine your girlfriend like she’s sitting right in front of you. Concentrate on the things you would like to tell her and the way you would like to hug her so she stops being mad.

If you suddenly notice that she is getting softer and that she wants to communicate with you again, it means that your telepathic message has been received and that she felt your energy coming to her. Telepathy goes both ways, which is great because you can always send messages back and forth, staying in each other’s minds all the time.

On the other hand, if she still stays mad at you, maybe you should work on your telepathic skills a little bit more. Try to meditate and clear your mind as much as possible, release all the negativity, focus, and try again.

Final thoughts – what next?

We’ve covered the telepathic signs she’s communicating with you, but if you want to get a completely personalized explanation of this situation and where it’ll lead you in the future, I recommend speaking to the folks over at Psychic Source

I mentioned them earlier on; I was blown away by how professional yet reassuring they were. 

Not only can they give you more direction on how to communicate with this girl, but they can advise you on what’s in store for your future. 

Whether you prefer to have your reading over a call or chat, these advisors are the real deal. 

Click here to get your own love reading.

Sealing the deal

Now it’s time to actually use these telepathic signs she’s giving you and seal the deal!

This all relates back to the incredible advice I learned from Kate Spring.

I mentioned her earlier, she’s transformed dating and relationships for thousands of men.

One of the most valuable things she taught me was this:

Women don’t choose the guy who will treat them the best. They choose guys they are deeply attracted to at a biological level.

Women don’t like assholes because they’re assholes. They like assholes because those guys are confident and they give off the right signals to them. The sort of signals a woman can’t resist.

What if I told you that you could quickly learn the right signals to give to women—and you absolutely don’t need to become an asshole in the process?

Check out this free video by Kate Spring.

She reveals the most effective method I’ve come across to make women obsessed by you (whilst remaining a good guy).

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Azra Jovicic

I am Azra Jovicic and I love writing about psychology and wellness. I am just trying to make the sense of the world and share with others the things I’ve found out.

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