Ever sit and wonder, ‘do people actually like me?’ You’re not the only one.
A lot of us question if our friends and coworkers enjoy having us around. But here’s the truth: we often fail to see just how much we’re liked.
So, don’t sweat it! This article is designed with you in mind.
We’ve put together a list of 12 subtle signs that you’re more liked than you think. Trust us, these are easy to miss.
So, get comfy, start reading and prepare to discover some pleasant truths about yourself.
Ready? Let’s jump in!
1) People initiate conversations with you
Ever notice how often people start chats with you? It might be a casual ‘how’s your day going?’ or a more specific question about your weekend plans.
Either way, if folks are coming up to you and starting conversations, that’s a really good sign.
Why? Because people don’t waste time chatting with folks they don’t like. They’re more likely to avoid them.
So, if you notice that people often strike up conversations with you – from small talk to deeper discussions – take it as a sign. They probably like you more than you think!
2) They remember small details about you
Have you noticed that people remember tiny details about you? Maybe it’s your favorite coffee order or the name of your childhood pet. It might seem insignificant, but it’s actually a big deal.
When someone remembers the little things about you, it shows they really listen when you talk. And guess what? People don’t usually listen carefully to people they don’t like.
3) Your jokes always get a laugh
Is it just me, or do your jokes always seem to land? Even when they’re not that funny? If yes, then that’s another sign you’re well-liked.
I remember one time I was at a party and told a joke that was, let’s be honest, pretty terrible. Yet, everyone laughed.
At first, I thought they were just being polite. But then I noticed it happened more and more. Even my weakest jokes seemed to get a chuckle.
When people like you, they’ll find you funny because they enjoy your company and your personality.
So if you’re the one making people laugh, even with silly dad jokes or terrible puns, take it as a good sign – you’re probably more well-liked than you think!
4) People mimic your behavior
Did you know that people tend to unconsciously mimic the behavior of people they like? It’s a phenomenon called “mirroring,” and it’s a common human behavior.
If you notice that your friends or co-workers are copying your gestures, speech patterns, or even your fashion style, it’s not just a coincidence. It’s a subtle sign that they like you and feel connected to you.
5) They make time for you
There’s nothing more precious than time, is there? In our busy lives, we only make time for things and people that truly matter to us.
So, if someone is making time for you, it’s because they genuinely enjoy your company. Whether it’s a quick coffee catch-up or a long phone call at the end of a tiring day, the fact that they chose to spend their valuable time with you speaks volumes.
Remember, time is a gift that people don’t give easily. If someone is giving you theirs, take it to heart. It’s a sign they like you more than you think!
6) You’re included in their future plans
I’ve always noticed that when people like you, they include you in their future plans. It could be a group holiday next summer, a concert next month, or even just a dinner next week.
The point is – they see you in their future.
I remember my friend once casually mentioning a road trip planned six months ahead while we were just hanging out. The fact that she saw me as part of her future told me that I was more than just an afterthought.
So, if people are making plans with you for the future, it’s because they enjoy your company and want to continue spending time with you. It’s a surefire sign that you’re well-liked!
7) People open up to you
Here’s the raw truth: people don’t spill their guts to just anyone. They open up to people they trust, respect, and yes, like.
If someone is sharing their dreams, fears, or secrets with you, it’s because they feel safe with you. They know you won’t judge them or spill their secrets.
Let’s be honest; we all have that protective wall around our true selves. If someone is letting that wall down for you, it’s because they genuinely like and trust you.
8) They’re happy to see you
Did you know that genuine happiness can’t be faked? It’s a fact. Genuine smiles involve not just the mouth, but the eyes too.
It’s called a Duchenne smile, named after the French physician Guillaume Duchenne.
So, if someone’s eyes light up when they see you, that’s a genuine smile right there. It means they’re genuinely happy to see you.
If people are always glad to see you, if they’re always greeting you with a warm, sincere smile – that’s a pretty clear indicator that they like you.
9) They tease you in a friendly way
I used to think people teased me because they were trying to annoy me. But over time, I realized it was a sign of affection.
One of my friends has this habit of teasing me about my terrible sense of direction. She never misses a chance to tell others about the time I got us lost in our own city.
Initially, I was a bit upset, but then I realized she only does this because she likes me.
Friendly teasing is just that – friendly. It’s often a sign that someone feels comfortable enough with you to share a laugh at your expense, knowing it won’t upset you.
10) They’re there for you
Here’s some raw honesty: people don’t go out of their way for people they don’t like. It’s as simple as that.
If someone is there for you, if they’re willing to help you when you’re in a bind, if they’re ready to lend an ear when you need to vent or offer a shoulder when you need to cry – it’s because they genuinely like and care about you.
So, if you’ve got people showing up for you, count yourself lucky. You’re well-liked!
11) They want to know your opinion
Let’s be real: we tend to value the opinions of people we like and respect.
If someone constantly asks for your opinion – whether it’s on something serious like a life decision or something trivial like which movie to watch – it’s because they value your perspective.
They might not always agree with you, but the fact that they want to know what you think is a clear sign that they like you.
12) They make an effort to keep the conversation going
People don’t put effort into conversations that they don’t want to be in. If someone is making an effort to keep the conversation going – asking follow-up questions, bringing up new topics, or even just texting back promptly – it means they enjoy talking to you.
And guess what? People don’t enjoy talking to people they don’t like.
