When you are going through a breakup, one of the biggest questions is often “Does my ex want me back?”
I know because I was in that same situation. After trying to figure it out for months, I realized that looking at the spiritual side of things might give me more answers than waiting for him to text me.
I found spiritual and psychic signs that he wants me back, and everything changed!
Of course, I wanted you to have the same privilege, so I listed them here:
1) You feel weird around your ex
If you have been trying to get back together with your ex, you might notice that you feel weird around them.
This can be a sign that you still have feelings for them and that they want you back, too.
You might be hyper-aware of their presence, or you might feel self-conscious around them.
This happens because your energy is still connected to them.
If your ex has strong energy, you might feel this even if you are no longer in a relationship with them.
Whatever the reason, you should take this as a sign that you still care about them on some level.
If you notice that you feel weird around your ex, then it’s worth taking note of.
It might be a sign that you still care about them and that they want you back, even if you don’t realize it yet.
You see, our subconscious mind picks up on energy way quicker than our conscious mind.
This means that even if you don’t realize how your ex feels about you yet, your subconscious might know already.
That’s why you feel weird around your ex.
Once you figure out that they want you back, you can use this knowledge to make a decision about whether or not you should give them another chance.
You see, when your ex wants you back, they will be sending out very specific energy whenever they see you, which can make you nervous, uncomfortable, confused, and conflicted.
This can be the reason why you feel weird around your ex.
2) Your heart starts racing out of the blue
Your heart can be an excellent barometer for whether your ex wants you back or not.
If you have broken up with your partner and they have started moving on, then your heart rate should be back to normal.
However, if your ex is acting strange and you suddenly start feeling anxious and your heartbeat goes through the roof, then it’s likely that they are trying to get back together with you.
Your heart rate can give you a lot of information about what’s going on in your relationship, and if your ex wants you back, you should be looking out for this sign.
I know it sounds strange, but when your ex wants you back and they start thinking of you “like that”, your subconscious might pick up on it and in return react with a really fast beating heart.
This is because your heart rate is controlled by your subconscious, which means that it can be an excellent indicator of whether or not your ex wants you back.
If you suddenly notice that your heart starts racing out of the blue, then it’s likely that your ex has started thinking about you in a romantic way again.
You see, when someone wants to get back together with their ex, they will often send out very strong energy toward them.
This energy can end up influencing the other person and causing them to feel nervous and anxious around their ex.
This feeling can manifest itself in the form of a very fast heartbeat, and if you notice this happening in conjunction with other signs of them wanting you back, then it’s highly likely that they are going to make a move on you again soon.
3) Your intuition tells you
We all have an intuitive side, but that doesn’t always come out.
However, if your ex wants you back and you tap into your intuition, it will tell you.
If your ex is trying to get back in touch with you, you might find that you feel “pulled” toward them.
That pull might not make sense at first, but it can be a really powerful sign that they want you back.
If you notice that your intuition is guiding you towards your ex, you should take it seriously.
It might be trying to tell you something. Your intuition is very powerful, so if you feel like your ex wants you back, you should take it seriously.
However, unfortunately, many people have unlearned and forgotten how to listen to their intuition.
This is because we are so accustomed to our logical minds tell us what to do, and we often forget that our subconscious mind can tell us a lot of things as well.
However, if you want to be able to tell whether or not your ex wants you back, then you must learn how to tap into your intuition.
Your intuition will allow you to pick up on all kinds of signs that your ex wants you back.
It will also show you when they are trying to get in touch with you, and if that’s the case, then it’s likely that they want a second chance.
If this is the case, then it might be time for you to make the first move and contact them before they contact you.
I learned all this from a psychic, believe it or not.
I was at a really desperate point in my life, so I decided to reach out to Psychic Source, an online service that connects you with a gifted advisor.
Honestly, I didn’t know what to expect, but I was thrilled by the experience!
My psychic was amazing, they analyzed my situation with my ex, gave me amazing advice, and even showed me how to tap into my intuition from now on.
I got so much value out of that one reading, that I immediately planned when to do my next one.
Of course, this is a personal matter and it might not work as well for you, but I’d give it a shot!
4) They are constantly contacting you
If your ex wants you back, they will likely be in constant contact with you.
This can be anything from texting you all the time to calling you or showing up at your house unannounced.
If you notice that your ex is constantly contacting you, then there is a good chance that they want you back in their life.
If they are constantly trying to get in touch with you, it’s probably because they want more from the relationship.
You see, they are trying to have you in their life in one way or another, which is proof for you that they want you back.
5) They show up in your dreams
If your ex is trying to get you back, they might show up in your dreams.
This can happen in many ways. Your ex might be one of the characters in your dream or maybe a location that you are in.
If any of these things happen, it could be a sign that your ex wants you back.
Simply put, if your ex shows up in your dreams, it could be a sign that they want you back.
The next time you dream about your ex, pay attention to the details of the dream. Is your ex in the dream? What are they doing?
If they are, then it could mean that they want you back.
Sure, dreams can be a reflection of personal desire, but when someone thinks about you a lot, they can influence your dreams, too!
So, if your ex wants you back, they might show up in your dreams.
6) Your heart still feels connected to them
If you have broken up with your partner, your heart should be back to normal.
However, if your ex wants you back, you might notice that your heart still feels connected to them.
Your heart is a very powerful organ. It can have an intense connection to your ex even after you have broken up with them.
If your ex wants you back, you might notice that your heart still feels connected to them.
Now: this might sound a bit confusing, and I was at a loss of what to think about it at first, too.
However, your heart is connected to the people you love around you. When they love you back, that connection is especially strong.
Now: when you and your ex break up, you might notice this heart connection fade a bit.
But when your ex suddenly wants you back, you might notice that this connection feels a lot stronger again all of a sudden.
I mentioned the psychic at Psychic Source earlier. They really helped me to grasp this concept a lot better.
They explained how I can tap into that feeling and taught me exactly how to feel these heartstrings within myself.
Honestly, after learning this technique, it was crystal clear that my ex wanted to get back together, I could literally feel it, without a doubt!
So, maybe this could help you out, too.
7) When you meet, you see it in their eyes
If your ex wants you back, you might notice that it’s written all over their face.
If your ex is trying to get you back, they might be nervous to talk to you.
This can cause them to have sweaty palms and a racing heartbeat.
It can also cause their eyes to shift around the room.
If your ex looks at you and you notice that they have a slight shift in their gaze, it could be a sign that they want you back.
You might also notice that your ex looks hesitant to talk to you.
This can be another sign that they want you back.
Pay attention to the signs that your ex gives you when you meet up with them.
If you notice that they are nervous or hesitant, it could be a sign that they want you back.
You see, the eyes are the windows to the soul, and for good reason!
If you pay attention to your ex’s eyes, you might be able to see if they want you back or not.
I definitely noticed that my ex wanted me back when he met my eyes. I could tell that he was nervous, but I could also tell that there was a lot of love in his eyes.
8) You keep hearing their name everywhere
If your ex is trying to get you back, you might notice that you keep hearing their name.
If you are in a relationship with someone and they suddenly break up with you and you start noticing that their name keeps popping up everywhere, it could mean that they want you back.
If you hear your ex’s name come up in conversation, you should take it seriously. It could mean that they want you back.
You see, the universe works in mysterious ways. Sometimes, you might not know why something is happening exactly, you just know that it’s happening.
Sometimes, you might not know why your ex wants to get back together with you, but it could be because they really miss you.
When you hear or see your ex’s name a lot, it could be that their thinking about you is literally manifesting you back into their life.
And because the universe is working hard, this could mean that you see and hear their name everywhere around you.
9) You think about them 24/7
If your ex is trying to get you back, you might think about them 24/7.
If you are in a relationship and your thoughts are completely consumed by your ex, it could mean that your ex wants you back.
This can be a very frustrating sign. It can be really difficult to deal with the fact that your ex is constantly on your mind when you are trying to move on.
If your thoughts are completely consumed by your ex, then it’s likely that they want you back.
Now: of course, sometimes, that’s simply a sign that you haven’t moved on properly, yet.
Your thoughts keep wandering to your ex because you would wish to be back together with them.
Sometimes, however, this can be a sign that your ex wants you back. They are thinking about you so much that their thoughts are literally influencing yours.
You’d be surprised how powerful thoughts can actually be, don’t make the mistake of underestimating them!
10) You get a warm, giddy feeling out of nowhere
If your ex wants you back, you might notice that you get a warm, giddy feeling out of nowhere.
This can happen at any time, day or night. This warm and fuzzy feeling could be your ex’s energy trying to come back into your life.
If your ex wants you back, you might notice that you get a warm, giddy feeling out of nowhere.
You see, your heart obviously welcomes your ex back, because you once loved them and so it feels comfortable and familiar.
When your ex thinks about you a lot and wants you back, this energy will be trying to come back into your life.
When it happened to me, I loved it. It’s such a nice sensation, and it makes you feel really good.
You see, love is supposed to feel like this: warm and fuzzy.
It’s a really nice feeling, and it’s the feeling that you miss.
If there is one thing I know for sure, it’s that your ex misses that feeling just as much as you do!
When you go through a breakup, it can be really difficult to know what the other person is thinking.
You might have no idea if they want you back, or if they are even interested in pursuing a future with you.
That’s why you need to be vigilant when it comes to looking at the spiritual signs that your ex wants you back.
If you notice any of the signs that we listed above, it could be a sign that your ex wants you back.
If you notice any of these signs, you should definitely reach out to your ex. Make sure that you let them know how you feel, and you can hopefully get your relationship back on track.
And if you need some tips on how to get your ex back, I can really recommend the book “Win your Ex back“.
Not only will it teach you how to get your ex back, but you will also learn how to love yourself again.
Good luck with your journey, you got this!
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