We’re all beautiful in our own way, but sometimes it can be hard to see that.
If you feel like being on the outside looking in, you might want to take stock of the signs you are not as pretty as everyone else.
These 50 unfortunate signs you’re ugly (and what to do about it) will make you consider how your looks and your character traits could be holding you back.
1) You’re overweight.
Most people think that being overweight is unhealthy, but what they don’t realize is that being overweight is actually a sign of being unattractive.
Being overweight implies that you are lazy and lead a sedentary lifestyle.
You need to get out of the house and start moving more if you want to be attractive.
2) You’re too skinny.
Being skinny can make you look like a frail weakling, so it’s important to be healthy and strong as well as have an attractive figure.
If you’re too skinny, then it might be time to invest in a few extra pounds around the midsection or put on some muscle.
3) You don’t look after your teeth.
Poor dental hygiene is a huge turn off and having bad teeth can be seen as a sign of being unattractive.
If you want to be attractive, it’s only right that you take care of your teeth. It may seem like an inconvenience at first but once the routine becomes second nature, it will become something much easier than before!
This means brushing twice daily for two minutes each time with toothpaste or mouthwash and flossing between every meal (or snack).
4) You’re too needy.
If you find yourself being overly needy and feel like it’s affecting your relationships and self-esteem, it’s crucial to address this issue head-on.
Being too needy can push people away and create an unhealthy dynamic where you’re constantly seeking a “savior” to make you feel better about yourself.
The role of “needy” is especially sabotaging when it comes to relationships.
But you’re not alone in this, and it doesn’t make you a bad or unloveable person.
The truth is that many people struggle with neediness in relationships. I only realized this after watching the renowned shaman Rudá Iandê’s Love and Intimacy Masterclass.
The key is to acknowledge it and take steps to improve.
That’s why I highly recommend Rudá’s free masterclass. It aims to help you explore the root causes of your neediness, providing you with actionable steps to develop healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
Instead of worrying too much about this unattractive trait, give yourself the chance to grow and change the way you approach love and, more importantly, how you see yourself.
Click here to access the free masterclass.
5) Your nails are dirty.
Personal pet peeve here. There is nothing more unattractive than somebody who has filthy nails that look gunky.
Some people think that having manicured nails is a sign of wealth and personal taste, but if you don’t take care of your nails then you’ll look like an untidy person.
If you want to be attractive, then learn how to properly care for your nails and visit the nail salon every three weeks!
6) Your hair is unkempt.
You might have frizzy hair as I do, that’s fine.
What’s not ok is letting it ruin your looks.
There are plenty of serums, treatments, and DIY hair hacks available to keep your mane in check.
If you have unkempt hair then it will make you look like an untidy person.
If you want to be attractive, then learn how to take care of your hair properly and visit the hairdresser twice a month for a haircut and blow-dry!
7) You neglect foot care.
With warmer weather comes the time to expose those feet and toes, so you need to make sure that they are ready to be exposed.
Dry, cracked heels and toenails that need an angle grinder to keep them in check are another sign of being unattractive.
A good pedicure and regular moisturizing will help you to keep your feet looking good and inoffensive to the rest of us.
8) Your hair is always greasy.
I guess I’m lucky that my hair is not greasy, but if yours is then it’s a sign of laziness and poor hygiene.
The way to combat this is by washing your hair more regularly and making sure you’re using the right products.
You don’t have to be a supermodel but having clean and tidy hair will boost your overall appearance.
9) Your skin isn’t glowing.
If you don’t have a healthy glow on your skin then it’s a sign that you aren’t taking care of yourself.
Dark circles under your eyes are also not attractive.
To maintain good skin and combat dark circles, moisturize daily and visit the dermatologist once a month!
10) Your teeth are yellow or stained with coffee or tea stains.
I mentioned teeth earlier but having off-colored teeth is a huge sign that you’re not as attractive as you can be.
There are many ways to combat teeth stains such as whitening, using a good mouthwash, and brushing your teeth at least twice a day.
11) You’re materialistic.
You might have money and are probably better off than most others but there is nothing more tasteless than talking about all the wonderful things you own and how luxurious your first-class flight was when we have people in the world who are starving.
And you know what?
Materialism means that you place too much value on things and you let them consume you.
If what you own is overshadowing who you are as a person, then it’s time for a change.
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12) You’re a chain-smoker.
I’m not saying it’s bad to smoke (well, actually, it is), but if you’re a chain-smoker, you’ve got a lot of work ahead of you.
Smoking has been shown to age the skin, make you look tired, reduce your attractiveness, and make you appear less healthy compared to someone who doesn’t smoke.
So, if you want to enhance your attractiveness, quit smoking and find other ways to improve your appearance.
13) You’re overbearing.
Are you the type of person who always likes to control others?
Do you like to dictate and is it a case of always being your way or the highway?
Being overbearing is ugly and unattractive.
It’s not a good idea as it can make people feel uncomfortable and maybe even threatened.
People might think that you’re trying to be too much of a good person or don’t have any real personality when they see your over-sharing nature.
They may also get the feeling that you are simply being needy, which is never attractive in itself either.
14) You have poor posture.
Do you slouch? You don’t sit up straight?
If you are like this then your posture is poor.
It’s unattractive and it makes you look lazy and uninterested.
Poor posture can also make you feel unattractive as it can make people think that you’re not confident or willing to put in any effort.
15) You make others feel uncomfortable.
You might not mean to but you can sometimes make others feel uncomfortable. Maybe it’s because you’re too loud or too talkative.
Maybe it’s because you’re overbearing or maybe it’s because you just don’t care about how you look and how other people perceive your appearance.
If people see that they aren’t comfortable around you then they might stop wanting to be around you. A tell-tale sign that you’re unattractive.
16) People don’t like being around you.
People don’t want to be around you because you’re boring.
You have no personality and people aren’t interested in what you have to say. You’re just a person who’s there and that’s it.
If people are bored with you they won’t want to be around you. They will stop wanting to be around you because they will think that your company isn’t worth their time.
17) You’re insecure.
If you’re not confident then you don’t look like someone who will stand out in a crowd.
You don’t look attractive and you don’t look interesting, so people won’t want to be around you because they will think that your company isn’t worth their time.
They’ll lose interest in being around you as they’ll see that your company is not worth it, which is never attractive in itself either
18) You don’t smell nice.
Some people associate smelling nice with wealth and good taste, but if you don’t smell pleasant, it can signal poor personal hygiene.
If you want to be more attractive, it’s important to maintain cleanliness and shower regularly. And this isn’t something you can’t change or improve.
19) You wear inappropriate clothing.
If you wear inappropriate clothing, people might not want to be around you because they may think you don’t care about your appearance.
You might wear things that are too small, too big, or choose slogan tees with cringe-worthy sayings that tend to offend.
Additionally, not dressing age-appropriately can be off-putting. For example, dressing like Britney Spears in her Baby One More Time costume isn’t cute when you’re well over 40.
20) You have inappropriate tattoos.
Tattoos can be incredibly sexy and tasteful when done right.
However, I’m referring to tattoos like tramp stamps, misspelled phrases, or that regrettable design around your belly button.
Not cool.
21) You’re too loud.
You have no concept of an “inside voice,” and you’re always loud, causing a scene.
Your constant chatter can be annoying, resembling the cackle of a witch, and you don’t stop.
This habit is not only unattractive but suggests a lack of awareness. Tone it down.
22) You’re overly opinionated.
It’s fine to have your own opinions, but it’s not okay to insist that others are wrong for disagreeing.
You can disagree without being rude or aggressive.
Having strong views isn’t an issue—forcing them on others is. It creates discomfort and makes people avoid you.
23) Your vocabulary is limited to swearing.
It’s never really okay to drop an f-bomb when you’re in the company of others, especially children.
There’s nothing more off-putting than listening to someone whose every other word is a curse.
It’s not that we don’t all have moments where we use bad language, but it shouldn’t be so frequent that no other words are coming out of your mouth.
It also shouldn’t become so normal for those around you to hear it, because if they do, their perception of you will change over time, affecting how much respect or care they have for being around you.
24) Your clothing is dirty.
You don’t wash your clothes, you wear the same thing every day, and it’s dirty. It seems like you don’t care about how you look or smell.
While taking care of yourself is a personal choice, it’s important to be mindful of how this affects those around you.
You don’t have to wear the trendiest clothes, but being attractive means being clean and presentable.
No one wants to see a huge oil stain from your KFC lunch. Yuck.
25) You have poor table manners.
Not all of us went to finishing school, but there are do’s and don’ts when sitting at a table.
If you’re the type who always has your elbows on the table, eats with your hands instead of using a knife and fork, or chews with your mouth wide open, know that this is incredibly unattractive.
When you’re attending dinner, make an effort to apply some basic etiquette. It will make you appear much more appealing.
26) You talk over other people.
If you want to talk, go ahead. If not, don’t.
It doesn’t matter if you’re a man or a woman—if you’re always talking, your conversation partner will eventually get tired of listening to everything you say.
Sometimes, staying quiet is better than speaking just for the sake of it, which, by the way, is extremely unattractive.
27) You’re habitually late.
Being habitually late is a major pet peeve!
If you’re late to a date or event, it sends the message that you don’t care about being on time.
Chronic tardiness is not only disrespectful, but it’s also unattractive—it shows a lack of consideration for others and their time. On the other hand, being punctual shows respect, and people will appreciate you for it!
28) You have a bad attitude.
It doesn’t matter if you’re a man or a woman—if you have a bad attitude, people will avoid you.
There’s nothing attractive about someone who can’t handle criticism or doesn’t care about their own self-image.
An attitude problem drives others away, and there’s nothing appealing about that.
29) You’re rude to the waiter/waitress.
Rude behavior toward waiters and waitresses isn’t just embarrassing—it can ruin the experience for everyone in the restaurant.
It’s important to remember that these people are just doing their job. They should be treated with respect, regardless of how busy or slow your service is on any given day, and they should be compensated fairly for their time and effort.
If you have an attitude problem with waiting staff, it may be time to practice showing gratitude before heading back out into the world.
30) You don’t follow through with things that you say.
Saying something and not following through is incredibly unattractive.
If you make promises but fail to keep them, people will begin to doubt your honesty and sincerity.
To build trust and maintain respect, it’s important to ensure that your actions align with your words.
31) You have bad-breath.
Bad breath is undeniably unattractive, and there’s no excuse for it—especially when it’s easily fixable.
Regardless of your age or health, bad breath makes you appear unkempt and unappealing.
A simple breath mint can be a game-changer. Use it.
32) Your perfume is overwhelmingly strong.
Wearing an overly strong perfume can be very off-putting.
Not only can it be overpowering, but it might not even smell good to everyone. It’s important to remember that scent perception varies, and some people simply don’t like strong fragrances.
The best way to avoid this is to keep your perfume light.
If you choose to wear scented lotion or perfume, make sure it’s subtle and not overpowering. A light, simple scent tends to be more pleasant for everyone.
33) You use bad grammar and spelling.
Poor grammar and spelling can be incredibly unattractive.
In today’s world, with countless free tools available, there’s no excuse for sending texts or emails filled with typos and grammatical errors.
It sends the message that you don’t care about how you present yourself.
34) You’re not friendly or outgoing.
Being friendly can make you more attractive than being shy or reserved.
You don’t need to be overly outgoing or flirty to be appealing, but a friendly attitude goes a long way.
For some, friendliness comes naturally, while others may need to work at it. If you’re not friendly, you risk coming off as aloof or standoffish, which can push people away.
35) You talk about yourself too much.
Constantly talking about yourself can be incredibly unattractive. If someone is genuinely interested in your life story, they’ll ask.
Dominating conversations with self-focused talk leaves little room for others, and it can make people lose interest in engaging with you.
36) You humble brag.
Humblebragging—trying to make yourself look better by pretending to be modest—is a huge turn-off.
Statements like, “I’m sorry I can’t stay longer, but my new BMW is being delivered at 5 pm” are insufferable.
It’s not as subtle as you think—people see right through it. URGH!
37) You’re too confident or cocky.
Excessive confidence can be incredibly off-putting.
When someone is overly confident, they often come across as arrogant or self-centered, which is extremely unattractive.
38) You talk about things that don’t matter.
Constantly talking about things that don’t matter can be incredibly unattractive.
When you dominate conversations with trivial topics or details that don’t engage the other person, it’s easy for them to lose interest.
It’s important to recognize when a conversation is going nowhere or doesn’t really connect with the other person.
If your topics aren’t relatable or meaningful, the conversation will fall flat, and they may even start avoiding future interactions. Keeping things relevant and engaging shows you value the other person’s time and attention.
39) You use all caps or all lowercase letters in your texts or emails.
Using all caps in texts or emails is unnecessary and can be quite distracting.
It’s important to remember that when someone is trying to be thoughtful, typing in all caps can come across as if they’re yelling.
On the other hand, using all lowercase letters can seem careless or lazy, making it harder for the recipient to take you seriously.
40) Your fart and belch in public.
If you’re the type of person who farts or belches in public, it can be incredibly unattractive.
Yes, we’re all human, but there’s a time and place for everything.
If you need to pass gas, step outside or move away from others. There’s nothing worse than being subjected to a stranger’s unpleasant odor—it’s utterly disgusting.
41) You don’t wash your hands after going to the bathroom.
Failing to wash your hands after using the bathroom is incredibly unattractive, especially after the pandemic.
It’s not just about personal hygiene—it’s about showing respect for the health and safety of those around you.
Skipping this basic step is a major turn-off, and it gives the impression that you don’t care about others.
It’s a simple act of cleanliness, and neglecting it speaks volumes about your disregard for basic decency.
Gross. Shame on you.
42) You love to gossip.
Gossiping is never a good look.
While it may be tempting to share juicy details or spill the tea from time to time, constantly talking about others behind their backs can quickly become unattractive.
Sure, we all enjoy a bit of drama now and then, but if gossip is your go-to conversation topic, it reflects poorly on your character.
People will start to see you as untrustworthy or negative, which can make them wary of sharing personal things with you.
Instead of focusing on who’s doing what or who’s dating whom, try expanding your horizons. Engage in meaningful conversations about different subjects—whether it’s current events, shared interests, or personal growth.
Not only will this make your interactions more positive and interesting, but it also shows that you have more to offer than just rumors.
43) You are a bully.
No one likes a bully.
There’s nothing worse and nothing more classless than seeing someone belittle others and thinking it’s okay.
Bullying is never acceptable, and if you’re doing this, it’s time to stop. It’s not only cruel, but it also makes you look downright ugly.
44) You don’t make an effort with your appearance.
This is a big one—if you don’t make an effort with your appearance, you’re missing many opportunities to make a good impression.
While a great personality is important, people are often initially drawn in by how you present yourself. If you don’t take care of your appearance, others may lose interest before they get to know the real you.
To be attractive, you need to show that you value yourself enough to put in the effort.
If others see that you don’t care about how you look, they’ll likely assume you don’t care about how you’re perceived either—and their interest will fade just as quickly.
45) You call people derogatory names.
There’s no excuse for calling people derogatory names.
It sends a clear message that you’re narrow-minded and disrespectful.
Remember the old saying: if you have nothing nice to say, don’t say anything at all. Full stop. Period. Name-calling only reflects poorly on you and damages your relationships with others.
46) You are entitled.
Do you expect everything to fall into your lap without putting in any effort? Do you ride the coattails of others because you’re unwilling to lift a finger?
If so, know that this sense of entitlement is extremely unattractive and downright off-putting.
Stop relying on others and start taking responsibility—it’s time to put in the work yourself.
47) You don’t take advice.
Maybe you’ve had a body odor problem, and your friends gently suggested using a stronger deodorant or recommended a new mouthwash.
Instead of appreciating their help, you get upset and stop talking to them.
If you can’t take the hint, it’s hard to understand what’s holding you back—they’re only trying to help you improve. Being open to feedback is crucial, especially when it comes from people who care.
48) You have no hobbies or interests.
One clear sign of being unattractive is having no hobbies or interests.
If you’re content just drifting through life without any passions, it can come across as boring and unengaged. There’s a world full of fascinating experiences out there—make an effort to explore new things every now and then.
Developing interests not only enriches your life but also makes you more interesting to others.
49) You have smelly feet.
This one takes the cake for me—there’s nothing worse than someone with smelly feet who thinks it’s okay to subject others to the awful odor.
It’s rude and unpleasant.
If you can’t be bothered to wash your feet and clean your shoes, it shows a lack of basic hygiene, and frankly, you don’t deserve to have people stick around.
50) You’re overly dramatic.
If you find it necessary to exaggerate every situation and constantly involve yourself in drama, it’s a sure sign of being unattractive.
People prefer peaceful, easygoing interactions, and drama often pushes them away. I know I’d rather live in peace than be caught up in someone else’s unnecessary chaos.
Offloading your petty issues on others isn’t just tiring—it makes you seem self-centered and oblivious to what really matters. There are far bigger problems in the world, and a little perspective goes a long way.
Try reading the news now and then—you might realize that your daily drama isn’t as significant as it seems.
Conclusion
So, there you have it. This list covers every quality and unfortunate sign that you (or someone you know) might be considered unattractive. There’s no way to sugarcoat it.
Whether or not you agree, if some points struck a chord, it’s a call for introspection.
The first thing to realize is that the labels “ugly” or “beautiful” are nothing more than social norms we’ve been conditioned to accept—sometimes without even realizing it.
Personally, I only came to this understanding after watching Rudá Iandé’s Out of the Box masterclass. This free video goes beyond typical motivational chatter; it’s about digging deep to rediscover your true self and personal power.
Now I know that true beauty comes from a well-understood self, and there’s no better way to explore your self-understanding than by challenging these norms. So if you’re ready to turn the tables and reframe your reality, I can’t think of a better guide than Rudá.
Start your journey by checking out his free video. Trust me, it’s life-changing.
