15 big signs your soulmate is near, according to spiritual experts

Meeting a soulmate is the ultimate reward for everything good we do in our lives.

It is something that we are all yearning for and looking forward to, and we can even sometimes get a little desperate waiting for our soulmate to come.

If everyone else is enjoying with the love of their life while you’re still single, don’t worry. Here are 16 big signs that your soulmate is very near!

1) You dream about him

Sometimes people we haven’t met come to our dreams to tell us something. If you have been dreaming about a person you feel connected to, but you haven’t met him still, pay attention to the way you dream about him.

Is he trying to tell you something? Or, are you just sharing silence and enjoying the time you spend together?

Dreams are something that no one has so far managed to explain fully, but their power is enormous, and they can tell us more about our future, the past and can help us overcome difficulties. If these dreams occur very often, try to remember all the details so you can find their deeper meaning.

You can keep a journal next to your bed so the moment you wake up, you can write it down and then, later on, try to figure out the meaning of each part of the dream. Your soulmate is probably trying to connect with you and comfort you so you can know it in your heart that you are about to meet.

2) Your wounds are almost healed

We all have something from our past that haunts us and prevents us from fully reaching our destiny and enjoying our life thoroughly. If you have noticed lately that you have more energy to deal with those past wounds, you should know that this is a sign that your soulmate is coming.

The universe is preparing you for it. Working on healing is not an easy job.

It comes with lots of pain, but if you want to get ready to enjoy with the love of your life, you should do everything, so you can close some painful chapters from your past. There are some things you can do to make sure that you are making an effort to heal, and here are a few of them:

  • Embrace the negative emotions and face them
  • Be very gentle to yourself throughout the process
  • Commit to self-care more
  • Talk about it
  • Accept that it will take some time

Look at this period as a way to clean your soul from all the negativities so you can get ready to meet your soulmate when the time is right. Seek help if you need to or go through this process alone step by step.

Try to pamper yourself as much as possible during this period and silence for a while the inner force that is pushing you into the past. Sometimes all we need is to cry about the things that hurt us, so we can continue our lives refreshed.

Talk to someone you trust, so you can make sense of the things that hurt you and step towards the future with trust that you will be fine.

3) You are finally at peace

If you’ve noticed that you are starting to accept all the things from your past, good and bad, it means that you are reaching maturity, which will surely make your life easier.

That also means that you are allowing your energy to flow freely and there are no blockages that you can feel. Here are a few signs that show without a doubt that you have reached this peaceful stage in your life:

  • Your ability to enjoy the moment has improved
  • You don’t have the need for conflicts
  • You don’t worry about your life so much
  • You feel connected with nature

Once you stop worrying about the past so much, you will be able to enjoy all the things that are happening right now. This feeling can help you recognize your soulmate when it comes to your life.

4) You are ready to break the patterns

We create patterns during our lives, and we function without even giving them a second thought. However, not all the patterns are beneficial for us.

Some bring us discomfort and negativity that we may not even notice sometimes. Once you start noticing just how negative your previous behaviors were, that will be a chance for you to overcome them and turn to something better in your life.

Noticing that you are able to behave differently and trust people even though you were hurt before means that you are ready to forgive and even forget about these past experiences.

Making an effort to do something different this time is a sign that you are ready for a change and that you are willing to show your worth to the world.

5) Self-love comes naturally to you

When it comes to loving others, that is so easy for us, we are not afraid of showing love and appreciation. However, lots of people struggle with nurturing self-love.

In order to be able to give the best of yourself to the world and welcome the soulmate into your life, you should start practicing self-love until it becomes natural to you.

Ways you can do it is to simply start trusting your intuition more and work on setting boundaries with all the people around you. Try to be nice to yourself as much as possible and turn off the inner critic inside that all of us have.

Make yourself a priority. Even though this may sound weird if you are looking forward to meeting your soulmate, but this is actually the best thing you can do for yourself.

The more you do to satisfy your own needs and wants, the better you will be when your soulmate finally comes. You will have lots of things to offer so that you can begin your relationship in the best way possible.

6) Déjà vu occurs often

If you suddenly start experiencing déjà vu almost on a daily basis, it means that the universe is trying to tell you that your soulmate is on the way. Don’t be afraid when this feeling starts being too intense.

It may be confusing for sure but consider it a way for you to reset your beliefs and see what you can do better. Look at this feeling as a guide so you can fully embrace the love when you finally meet your soulmate and welcome him into your life.

Even though we can be pretty skeptical towards these kinds of feelings, spiritual experts advise that the best thing you can do is open your mind to the divine energy guiding you.

7) You gain clarity

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When we are too overwhelmed with ordinary things happening daily, it is hard for us to think clearly about our past, enjoy the present moment or think about the future. However, there are times when we simply start seeing everything clearly.

Cherish this moment because it signifies that your soulmate is very near and that you will soon meet. That may be a person you have already had conversations with, but you will undoubtedly realize that this person is very similar to you and that there is something more than meets the eye.

8) It is clear what you want and don’t want

Sometimes, it isn’t easy to recognize what we truly want and need in our lives and what is imposed by other people. The periods of clarity when we can easily understand the needs and wishes of our souls are rare and should be appreciated as very valuable.

If you started noticing lately that you don’t have a problem expressing your desires, you should know this is the preparation for the things that will come. In order to welcome your soulmate and fully enjoy the connection you will create, you should be ready to seek the things that will make you joyous and satisfied.

Take advantage of this time because it is an excellent opportunity for you to increase the overall satisfaction with your life and vibrate on higher levels.

9) You are done with the past relationships

Every relationship begins with a great hope that it will succeed and that we will be able to live happily ever after with the person we chose.

However, that is not always possible for a number of reasons, and each relationship is there to teach us something so we can move on with our lives and learn something new.

If you have noticed that lately, you are not thinking about your past relationships anymore, and that the things that once hurt you simply pass through your mind without causing a significant disturbance, it means that you are on a good path.

It is a sure sign that you are healing. Give yourself time, because everything is coming to its place.

10) Everywhere around you are the signs of love

You’ve probably rolled your eyes in the past when you would hear the sentence “Love is in the air.” When we are single, this can be so annoying that you probably wanted to escape far from all that in the past.

If you don’t mind when you see couples in love now, and they actually manage to put a smile on your face, it is a sign that you won’t be single for a long time. Look at the things that pop up such as red color, hearts, babies, and couples kissing.

Breathe in this energy and appreciate the signs coming from the universe, so you can welcome your soulmate with open arms.

11) The timing is just right

Once you notice that you are coming everywhere on time and that the universe is favoring you in some way, appreciate it because it doesn’t happen very often. Life is like a ball, it turns, and we can be on top one day and on the very bottom the next, so being so lucky to have things happen on time is wonderful.

It is the push of the divine energy to help you get the confidence you need to be able to receive love once it comes to you. The right timing is an excellent sign that you are in God’s grace and that you will be able to get the love you have been yearning for.

12) You believe everything will be alright

When we are feeling down, everything we want to hear is that things will work out and that everything will be fine.

Forcing this feeling is never a good idea, but if you genuinely start thinking that everything will be good means that the universe is trying to comfort you and show you that you are not alone and that everything will find its way.

You will be satisfied with the outcome. Take some time to pay attention to the way you feel, and if you notice that you are a lot calmer lately, it means that the energy of the universe is working in your favor.

Have faith that you will manage to find the happiness you have been yearning for, and trust the universe that it will take care of everything for you.

13) Your purpose is clear now

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Discovering the reason we are put on this Earth is sometimes very challenging and difficult. If you start realizing what this reason may be, you are on the right path to fulfilling your destiny, and your soulmate may help you do it.

Starting to feel this energy means that you will be more open to new people in your life or you will be able to look at the people you know in a new light. It is a good sign for sure, so work towards fulfilling your destiny, so you can focus entirely on your soulmate when this divine encounter happens.

14) You changed your life

If you have been working on implementing changes in all areas of your life, you probably started noticing the lightness you feel and the joy that surrounds you. The law of attraction works entirely here.

If you prepare your life and make room for one more person, you will surely give the universe a clear sign that you are fully ready now. You will be able to welcome your soulmate into your life and release all the disappointments that once hurt you.

The process is not easy, and it takes some time. Make sure you don’t rush it because your soulmate will come when you are completely ready.

But if you’re wondering how you can get started to change your life, I’d suggest getting to the root of the issue. How so?

Well, you have to look for an answer in the relationship you have with yourself. 

I learnt about this from the renowned shaman Rudá Iandê. He taught me to see through the lies we tell ourselves about love, and become truly empowered.

As Rudá explains in this mind blowing free video, love is not what many of us think it is. In fact, many of us are actually self-sabotaging our love lives without realizing it!

And getting in touch with yourself can also help you to change your life radically. At least, that’s what I managed to do after watching his amazing free video. If this sounds like something appealing to you as well, you know what you should do!

Click here to watch the free video.

15) You are ready to try new things

You have noticed lately that other people are suggesting interesting things to you and saying that you are bringing new energy to the table. If you have done the work concerning your personal struggles, you will probably be fully open to trying new things and experimenting with the things you never wanted to do before.

This is a great time to take advantage of this new breeze because it is a hint that you will finally meet your soulmate. One of my friends experienced the exact same thing.

She couldn’t find a boyfriend for a long time, so she just decided to focus on having fun and spending time with friends trying new things. She met the love of her life pretty soon, and she never regretted her adventurous period because it enriched her relationship from the very start.

How can you recognize your soulmate?

On our journey to meeting the love of our lives, we usually meet lots of people who feel right for us at the moment. After a while, it usually turns out that they are far from ideal for us, and we should move on with our lives.

Some signs will tell you if you truly met your soulmate, and here are a few that will you guide you!

1) He brings serenity into your life

Most girls dream about being swept off their feet by someone handsome, capable, mysterious, and unpredictable. However, as we mature, we see that some other qualities may be better for us.

If you meet a guy who brings serenity when he’s there, he may just be the soulmate you were looking for. The connection you have and the way you care for each other is the true scale for measuring love.

If you feel good when he is around, it is a great starting point for a quality relationship. Pay attention to the way he treats you, and that will be enough for you to be certain this person is your true soulmate.

2) There is mutual respect

People who are soulmates emphasize respect even more than usual because they want to be fully committed to the wishes of the person they are with. Suppose you notice that guy you started seeing or you like shows respect towards your obligations, preferences and listens to the way you talk attentively.

In that case, that is already a good start for something that can become more meaningful. Even when you’re fighting, your fights are fair without the low blows, which will help you overcome all the problems more easily.

The way he treats you will surely affect how you feel about yourself because you will not let people who give you less even come near you.

3) Your goals are similar

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Relationships based only on passion can last long, but their foundation is not stable. On the other hand, if you deeply care for each other, like each other, and want the same things, then it means that you will build a good relationship pretty fast, especially if you look forwards to the same things.

This primarily relates to agreeing on starting a family, the direction your careers should go, moving to another place or staying in your city, and a million other questions essential for a successful relationship. Having similar goals will help you go through all the challenges much easier and with less stress.

4) He challenges you daily

We were led to believe that love is smooth sailing and “happily ever after,” but the reality is entirely different. But no one prepared us that our true soulmate will push us beyond our limits.

This happens because of the genuine desire of our soulmate to push us towards the progress and because it is the only way to mature. Don’t be afraid of these challenges because they are the best way to grow as a person.

5) You don’t need to pretend

People who want to start a relationship usually wish to portray themselves better than they actually are. We all do this by choosing better clothes and adjusting our answers to get the approval we want.

However, the relationship with a soulmate has one excellent quality – you can be yourself completely, and you don’t have to pretend. This gives you a chance to enjoy each other genuinely and share the purest form of love.

6) Future planning comes naturally to you

Once you meet your soulmate, you will notice that there is nothing easier than planning a future and thinking about starting a family. You will suddenly realize that you are talking about baby names or discussing buying a house.

All of the doubts that you’ve had in your previous relationships will simply melt, and you will feel ready to invest everything you have into your future together. You will probably notice the absence of fear because you will know in your heart that this is the right person for you.

It will make everything much easier because you will be on the same page concerning the things you want and work together towards getting them.

Things you can do to prepare for your soulmate

There are some things you can do to prepare yourself for the coming of your soulmate. It includes working on your attitude, self-confidence, and care.

All of this will help you fully enjoy the relationship when you finally meet your soulmate. It would help if you learned to have fun when you are all alone.

This means that you can assess yourself objectively and resolve all the issues bothering you. Once you finally meet your soulmate, everything will go much smoother if you are at peace with yourself.

You will be able to offer much more because your capacity to enjoy the present moment will increase.

Here are some things you can do:

  • learn to have fun on your own
  • improve your self-confidence
  • take full responsibility for your life
  • release all the negative emotions related to the past
  • try new things

Each one of these things will contribute to your overall feeling of satisfaction with your own life, so once the time comes to meet the soulmate you were yearning for all these years, you will be completely ready. Think about all these preparations as if you will meet him tomorrow, because it can happen anytime once you finish with all the steps.

Release all the wishes you have into the universe and trust in the process that the law of attraction will work in your favor. Imagine the way your soulmate will look, what he will say, and how he will make you feel.

Look for the signs that the universe is sending that may come in the form of angel numbers or through the perfect timing. Every sign will be one step closer to meeting the love of your life.

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Azra Jovicic

I am Azra Jovicic and I love writing about psychology and wellness. I am just trying to make the sense of the world and share with others the things I’ve found out.

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