Stop biting your nails and listen! There is such a thing as a metaphysical romantic connection. And everything that happens to you is real, not a product of your imagination.
I know you are a little scared right now. You hope that what your gut is telling you is right, but you still need some kind of confirmation.
This is where I come in. I have a list of metaphysical signs of relationship compatibility prepared for you. By the time you finish reading it, no questions will be left unanswered.
1) You are happy and scared at the same time
Things are going great with your special someone. You almost can’t believe how good they make you feel and how at peace you are in their presence.
Even so, there is a small part of your brain that keeps bugging you. What if this is too good to be true?
Clinical psychologist Carla Marie Manly urges you not to worry. According to her, there is good anxiety and bad anxiety. Your brain can’t differentiate between them now because what you are experiencing is a metaphysical connection.
You feel it deep inside and you know it goes beyond the physical world. Since psychology doesn’t explain intuition as well as other feelings, I searched for the answer elsewhere.
Psychic Deborah Graham explains your mixed feelings. You have met your spiritual match and that’s why you feel both happy and fearful. While you enjoy the experience, you still feel like you have a lot to lose if things go wrong. Her advice is to take the risk.
2) You have a strong feeling of familiarity
Think back to when you first met this person. Didn’t you feel instantly comfortable?
When you have a spiritual connection with someone, they seem very familiar. You feel at ease in their presence, even if you just met them.
You start talking and keep going like you know each other for a very long time. The talks are not just about the things you have in common, but also tend to approach meaningful topics.
So, ask yourself this: Did you feel strangely familiar when you met him/her? If your answer is positive, then you can already check two metaphysical signs of relationship compatibility off your list.
3) You spend a lot of time talking
You and this person have a lot to talk about. It really doesn’t matter how your conversation starts, because it never stops on the same note.
You go from one topic to the other, exposing your vulnerabilities and sometimes laughing your heart out. Even if you are not a talkative person, in their presence, you become one.
When you are together, you actually listen to him/her, and they do the same for you. It’s not like when two energetic friends meet and talk over each other. It’s the type of dialog that leaves one’s ego in the background.
4) Time passes quickly when together
Your time perception is altered when you are together. We all know that time passes by quicker when we feel good, or at least this is how we perceive it.
You become less aware of your surroundings and more focused on the other. You feel such strong energy coming from this person and you can’t get enough.
When your date ends, you don’t feel needy or sad or anything negative. You feel grateful for your interaction and you know there’s going to be a next one.
5) You experience different levels of attraction
With this guy or girl, what you’re feeling isn’t a regular type of physical attraction. You are, of course, intensely drawn to them, sexually speaking.
However, passion doesn’t take over you because you also develop nurturing feelings at a fast pace. Author Brianna Wiest agrees that passion isn’t the main ingredient in happy relationships.
In other words, according to spiritualist Obara Meji, if you and your partner are soulmates, you start behaving in a loving and caring way from the early stages of your relationship.
6) Your interaction is effortless
Relationships take a lot of work. Or at least I thought so until I discovered how effortless the interaction between two spiritually connected people can be.
To find out if this is your case, ask yourself these questions:
Did you get pre-date jitters?
Did you have problems communicating?
Did you get into fights?
You both feel comfortable behaving naturally around each other. It doesn’t matter what you do (if you’re not talking) with this person. You just click. So, pre-date jitters are out of the question, unless it was a blind date.
There are hardly any times when you misunderstand each other or get into fights. It’s like your souls speak the same language, isn’t it?
7) You share common interests
One of the other metaphysical signs of relationship compatibility you can rely on is having things in common with your special someone. The well-known saying ‘opposites attract’ is not applicable in the case of spiritual relationships.
When two souls are in tune with one another, they tend to manifest this compatibility in the material world as well. Maybe you’ve already noticed you like the same food. Or, maybe you are both sports fans.
No matter which domain of your life you focus on, you still find similarities between your likes and dislikes.
8) Common goals are also a thing
According to Solancha, when you are compatible with someone on a higher level, you also tend to share similar goals.
In this way, your relationship is encouraged. For example, let’s say you are working hard to build a career. This means that you need a partner who supports you and truly understands your purpose.
As you already know, we rarely understand something if we do not go through the same situation. Therefore, when it comes to metaphysical compatibility, you and your partner must share common goals and aspirations.
If this is not your case, you don’t have to be disappointed. You may have met a wonderful person with whom you can live a beautiful love story.
9) You never said a lie
People feel the need to tell lies in order to protect themselves on multiple levels. This need disappears when you meet your spiritual match. The same applies to him/her.
Because you feel comfortable and safe in your partner’s presence, you tend to naturally exclude the bad habit of telling lies. You no longer feel the need to protect yourself.
The level of understanding between you two goes beyond what you have ever experienced. Lies simply don’t belong in your relationship.
Even if you were reluctant at first, you should know by now that it’s against your nature as spiritual matches to hide things from each other.
10) Trust was never an issue
Trust is usually an issue these days. More and more individuals are taking actions that deceive us. Knowing who to trust becomes a real struggle.
When a spiritually compatible person comes into your life, they don’t have to earn your trust or the other way around. You simply feel that being completely honest is the right thing to do.
Let’s face it, suspicion is part of our lives. I expect people to lie, cheat and take actions that only favor them. Maybe you thought the same until you met your match.
If things have changed for you, then take this as proof of you two being a match made in heaven.
11) You feel heard and understood
Some couples need countless hours of therapy to learn how to listen to and understand each other. Accepting other people’s flaws and helping them improve isn’t an easy process.
Luckily for you, you can keep your money and spend your time in pleasant ways. You two don’t need a therapist to open up.
Even if your partner knows your weaknesses, they won’t use them against you. They don’t feed off your inability to do certain things. On the contrary, they support you in overcoming them and becoming a better version of yourself.
You, in turn, are drawn to doing the same. You really take an interest in this individual and care about their progress.
12) You don’t communicate using words only
Since we’re not talking about a regular connection here, we must expect the unexpected. Sometimes, you and this person don’t have to use words in order to communicate.
There are days when all you have to do is think about this person. You don’t have to call him/her because they will call you.
The unseen and intangible connection between the two of you works similarly to telepathy. Don’t get too excited, though! What I’m referring to is a feeling, not a movie-like experience, when you actually hear words in your head.
Psychic Deborah Graham says you should look out for these metaphysical signs of relationship compatibility:
You finish each other’s sentences.
You have the same ideas without previously talking about them.
You may even share the same dreams.
You can feel it when something wrong happens to the other person.
13) Your life changes for the best
Spiritualist Obara Meji explains that the simple presence of your spiritual match in your life can be helpful. She notes that when two people who are meant to be together meet, they indirectly influence each other’s lives for the best.
For example, if one of them doesn’t have a harmonious relationship with their family, they will soon find solutions and regain balance. The same example applies to other areas of life.
Obara Meji says these things happen almost magically, without anyone having to put even more work into solving them.
Keeping her words in mind, can you identify with a similar situation? Has anything changed for the better in your life since you met him/her?
14) You are wholeheartedly loyal
A relationship favored by a metaphysical connection lacks doubts, especially when it comes to loyalty. Your partner does nothing to make you doubt yourself or to make you feel jealous. In turn, you behave in the same way.
Loyalty doesn’t come naturally to many people. However, in the case of a spiritual match, loyalty is a non-issue. So, pay attention to this aspect as well.
If things appear too good to be true, you don’t have to become defensive. It could be because you’ve met your match.
15) You give each other space
Teacher of metaphysics, Obara Meji says that couples who are meant to be together will end up doing almost everything together. In the long run, she foresees joining career paths.
Until then, if you two are really a spiritual match, you’ll find it easy to give each other space. You respect and understand each other. So there’s really no reason to become possessive, is it?
Even when you are not together, you still feel connected to this individual. You don’t feel the need to constantly check up on him/her. Your communication is flawless anyway, so there’s really nothing that holds you back.
16) You support each other no matter what
The bond between spiritual matches is strong, pure, and deep. You don’t have to ask for support and you offer yours unconditionally as well.
It doesn’t matter if you need moral support or practical support with a hobby of yours, for example. This person is there for you, and nothing regarding you seems trivial to them. Do you find yourself in this situation?
A metaphysical relationship is supposed to help both of you grow. Neither is more important than the other. You are equals and act as such.
Even if you are equals, you may still embrace different roles. That’s normal to happen as well because you two are not competing with each other on any level.
