11 undeniable signs you’re dating the right person

We all dream of finding that forever kind of love, but in the world of modern dating, it often feels like navigating through a maze.

Dating someone new stirs up the excitement and hope that maybe, just maybe, they are ‘the one.’

However, it’s not always clear if you’re on the right track or veering off course.

Life, sometimes, has a funny way of making things fall into place.

So if you’re curious whether your current beau is the one you’re destined to share your future with, here are some unmistakable indicators that you should keep an eye out for:

1. Together, It Just Feels Like Home

You may have heard seasoned couples reflect on how they just knew they had found their lifelong partner – it all simply felt right.

This might seem abstract to some, but there often arrives a moment when everything aligns and being with a person feels so natural, so right.

It’s not something you can easily define or explain, it’s simply the energy and emotions that swirl around when you’re with them.

When you’re with the right person, their company feels like home, brimming with warmth and comfort, stirring that wonderful bubbly feeling within you.

Your relationship doesn’t seed doubts about settling or compromising; rather, you find yourself believing that you’re precisely what each other needs.

With the two of you, there’s an undeniable spark, a chemistry that pervades every layer of your relationship, manifesting itself both physically and emotionally.

2. Happiness and Respect Are Always in the Air

When you’re with the right person, joy permeates your relationship – no matter where you are or what you’re doing.

A unique emotional bond between you and your partner lights up your world, filling your time together with laughter and cheerful moments.

Sure, tough times may come, but the core happiness of being together remains unscathed.

Alongside this profound happiness, the right person also offers a strong sense of respect.

Boundaries are clearly established, ensuring that your ‘no’ always means ‘no’ – no ifs, ands, or buts.

You both value each other so deeply that there’s an acceptance of each other’s limits.

There’s no force or haste, just a profound understanding and respect that provides a solid foundation for your relationship.

3. Their Presence Feels Like a Safe Haven

Embarking on a romantic relationship means opening up, becoming vulnerable, and baring your soul to another person.

It’s a challenging step, but with the right person, you invariably feel safe and sheltered.

Numerous instances arise when, despite your insecurities and doubts, you find yourself wholeheartedly trusting them.

They extend their kindness not just to you, but to others as well, painting a clear picture of their compassionate nature.

Any fears of mind games vanish, as they consistently express their thoughts and feelings, providing you a clear window into their heart.

They emanate a sense of tranquility, alleviating any apprehensions that they would intentionally cause you pain.

4. You Both Cherish Your Individuality

While spending time together is indeed wonderful, it doesn’t mean you and your partner must merge into a single entity.

Being with the right person entails recognizing the importance of personal space and time apart.

They understand and respect that you both lead separate lives.

The right person doesn’t impose a demand for all of your time or attention because they realize that a relationship isn’t about owning one another’s lives.

There are activities you engage in independently, simply because they bring you joy.

Over-dependency can be detrimental; being in a loving relationship doesn’t imply surrendering your individuality.

The difference between relying on and depending on your partner is key.

While it’s normal to lean on your partner in certain situations, it should never reach the point where their absence leaves you feeling lost or helpless.

5. You Both Share a Unified Vision for the Relationship

While love is the bedrock of a romantic relationship, compatibility is the glue that binds it over the long haul.

When you’re with the right person, it’s critical that you both align on key values and anticipations from the relationship.

For instance, views on significant life decisions, such as marriage or having children, should ideally sync.

These aspects are pivotal to long-term relationships, so harmonious understanding is crucial.

However, compatibility isn’t only about big decisions; it’s also reflected in the smaller nuances of life – like sharing a sense of humor.

Although having divergent comedic tastes isn’t always a dealbreaker, it can sometimes feel peculiar if you don’t find the same things amusing.

Here, it’s crucial to approach such differences with an open mind, devoid of judgment, while striving to comprehend their reactions.

6. You Feel Unconditionally Accepted by Your Partner

In any relationship, one should have the liberty to be oneself, free from judgment – but this is particularly vital in a romantic context.

You should feel comfortable being your authentic self without the fear of your partner casting judgment.

If you have harmless idiosyncrasies, your partner shouldn’t make you feel as if they need altering – and reciprocally, you shouldn’t create a sense that they require fixing.

In healthy partnerships, there’s a crucial acceptance of seeing the other person for who they truly are and embracing that wholeheartedly.

Your partner should appreciate all aspects of you – quirks and all – and the sentiment should be mutual.

7. You Both Have Mastered the Art of Nonverbal Communication

Effective communication is the cornerstone of any healthy relationship.

While verbal communication allows us to express our needs and queries, there are moments when words fall short.

When you’re with the right person, entire sentences can be communicated without uttering a single word.

They can read your actions and expressions, comprehend your irritations, and sense your moods.

They understand the meaning behind every subtle expression, the weight of your sighs, the relief embedded in your breaths – and you mirror this understanding for them.

Being able to decipher each other’s unspoken language is a strong sign that you’re with the right person.

They should not only recognize these cues but also know how to respond, providing comfort and assurance that goes beyond mere words.

8. You Weather the Storms Together, Come What May

While joy is a constant when you’re around the right person, disagreements and conflicts are inevitable.

However, it’s during these tempests that the strength of your bond is truly tested.

In the midst of arguments, the key is to find a middle ground, a compromise for the sake of each other.

Remember, you’re not adversaries, so the focus shouldn’t be on winning the argument.

The right person has witnessed your best, and they’re willing to navigate your worst with love and empathy.

There will be times when you’ll need to ‘agree to disagree,’ but intractable disputes shouldn’t leave lasting scars on your relationship.

9. Your Friends and Family Give a Thumbs Up to the Relationship

Love can sometimes tint our glasses rose-colored, making it tricky to spot potential red flags.

While your judgment of your partner might be clouded by affection, your friends and family can often provide a clear-eyed perspective.

They are usually the first ones to indicate whether you’re with the right person.

Introducing your partner to your friends and family is a significant step, signaling a readiness to take the relationship to the next level.

These loved ones want nothing but the best for you, so their approval of your partner is a positive indication that you’re in the right relationship.

Moreover, it’s essential to make an effort to build a good rapport with your partner’s friends and family.

Ensuring everyone is on board fosters a supportive environment for your relationship to flourish.

10. Together, You Inspire Mutual Growth and Betterment

Falling in love can prompt personal transformation, but being with the right person inspires growth in the right direction.

They care for you, standing by your side and offering support in all your endeavors.

They root for your success, recognizing your potential and valuing your efforts.

In my view, the right person sees you as their equal in a relationship.

When you’re with the right partner, you navigate life’s lessons together, fostering mutual growth and evolution without force or imposition.

There’s no need for them to critique your personality or overhaul your being.

Instead, they inspire a natural metamorphosis within you, encouraging you to blossom into an even better person and partner.

11. You Unfailingly Show Up for Each Other, Through Thick and Thin

Being with someone in times of joy is easy, but the true test comes when adversity strikes. The right person unfailingly shows up when it matters most.

When you’re with the right person, their dedication to you remains unwavering, even during challenging times.

They know exactly how to provide comfort, express love, and bolster your spirit when you need it the most.

Their assurance might come in the form of soothing words or thoughtful actions – such as brightening your day with your favorite ice cream after a rough day or affirming your worth when you’re feeling insecure.

While it’s easy to make grand promises, it’s their physical and emotional presence during tough times that truly counts.

When you’re with the right person, you consistently feel cherished and supported, relishing the comfort of their unyielding presence.



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Lachlan Brown

I’m Lachlan Brown, the editor of Ideapod and founder of Hack Spirit. I love writing practical articles that help others live a mindful and better life. I have a graduate degree in Psychology and I’ve spent the last 6 years reading and studying all I can about human psychology and practical ways to hack our mindsets. If you to want to get in touch with me, hit me up on Twitter or Facebook.

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