10 secrets of women who have inner power and confidence

Have you ever met a woman who just radiates confidence and inner power? It’s like she’s shining with her own special light and an aura so powerful you just want to be like her. 

I’ve observed that confident women like these share some common traits that help them to navigate life with more ease and grace.

I’m not saying that they have it all figured out or that they don’t have challenges, but they do have some habits that help them to stay centered and focused. 

Do you want to know their fabulous secrets? You’re in luck! In this article, I’ll share ten secrets of women who have inner power and confidence. 

Let’s dive in!

1) They prioritize self-care

The first step to radiating inner power and confidence is making sure that that power comes from within. That’s why confident women take care of themselves so well. 

Contrary to what many people think, self-care is not selfish. It’s necessary for our well-being. 

It could be something as simple as reading a book, having a cup of green tea, or going for a walk. Self-care doesn’t have to be expensive or elaborate; it’s about taking time to nurture yourself.

After all, you can’t strut your stuff if you’re looking and feeling haggard and worn out! 

2) They practice self-compassion

Self-care isn’t just about taking care of your body; it’s also about taking care of your spirit

I used to be my own worst critic, tearing myself down at every opportunity. But then I realized that I would never treat a friend that way, so why do it to myself? 

Once I started practicing self-compassion, talking to myself kindly instead of lapsing into negative thoughts, I started feeling much more capable and competent. 

I guess it’s true what they say – what you tell yourself matters! 

3) They practice mindfulness

I know I’ve said to practice self-compassion, but you won’t be able to do that if you don’t practice mindfulness.

This is something confident women do. With mindfulness practices, they learn how to be present in the moment and aware of their thoughts and feelings without judgment. 

And the cherry on top? Mindfulness helps reduce stress and anxiety and increases focus and clarity. That’s a definite recipe for inner power!

4) They trust their intuition

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The more you practice mindfulness, the more you’ll learn to trust your intuition. 

Trusting one’s intuition can be challenging, especially in a world that values logic and reason over feelings and intuition. 

But confident women know that their intuition is a valuable tool that can help them make decisions that align with their values and goals. 

It’s not about ignoring logic or reason; it’s about balancing it with our feelings and inner voice. It’s about tapping into our subconscious mind and accessing information that we may not be aware of consciously.

If you can do this (and of course you can, with a bit of practice!), you’ll feel much more powerful and in control of your life. You’ll feel brave enough to take risks, which leads me to my next point.

5) They take risks

Is there a higher position at work that you want but feel scared to apply for? Do you want to go on a solo trip and explore the wide world out there? 

Then be like a confident woman who radiates inner power and confidence – be brave and step outside your comfort zone

See, taking risks is a key part of developing confidence. Growth and learning happen outside our comfort zones, and confident women embrace that challenge. 

So, go ahead and take risks – you just might be surprised to find out just how capable and powerful you are! 

6) They focus on their strengths

One way confident women get to the point where they feel bold enough to take risks is by using their strengths. 

See, when you focus on your strengths, you acknowledge and embrace your abilities, talents, and qualities that make you unique and valuable. By doing so, you can boost your confidence and self-esteem.

Here’s how focusing on your strengths can help you be more confident: 

  • It boosts your self-awareness
  • It helps you set realistic goals
  • It helps you overcome self-doubt
  • It increases your sense of purpose
  • It helps you stand out

7) They set boundaries

Confident women know their worth, and they set boundaries to protect themselves from toxic people and situations. They are not afraid to say no and prioritize their well-being.

I remember a friend who shared with me how she used to say yes to everything and everyone, even when it meant sacrificing her own needs. 

But after a while, she realized that she was exhausted and unhappy. So, she started to set boundaries and prioritize her own needs. It wasn’t easy, but it made a huge difference in her confidence and self-esteem.

Boundaries can take various forms, from saying “no” to additional commitments that may cause undue stress to limiting time spent with toxic individuals. 

By setting and enforcing these boundaries, these confident women can create a supportive environment that nurtures their well-being and self-esteem.

8) They have a support system

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Speaking of supportive environments, I have to stress that, yes, confident women are independent, but that doesn’t mean they go through life alone. 

No one is an island, and confident women know this. So, they have a support system that helps them to navigate life’s challenges. 

Your support system could be anyone – friends, family, or even a therapist. The point is to surround yourself with people who support and encourage you to keep going even when you don’t feel like it.

9) They have a growth mindset

Another surefire way to get that inner power is to cultivate a growth mindset

Confident women never stop learning and growing. They seek out new opportunities for growth and are not afraid to ask for help or advice when needed.

That attitude toward learning also helps them bounce back from disappointments. Because here’s the truth – no matter how confident you are, life has a way of knocking you down from time to time. 

But as long as you understand that life is just a learning process with its ups and downs and lessons to be learned along the way, you’ll be fine! 

10) They practice gratitude

Finally, here’s the last secret: a grateful attitude

Gratitude is a powerful tool that can help us to shift our focus from what we lack to what we have. Confident women practice gratitude regularly, and it helps them to stay positive and centered.

This is something I learned from one of my mentors in the first job I ever had. Whenever I was feeling down and discouraged, she would urge me to write down three things you’re grateful for each day. 

She said it so often that I gave in and got myself a gratitude journal. And she was right – it really did wonders for my soul and renewed me in my low times. 

To this day, I still keep one. Because I realized that seeing the silver lining, my blessings and all the good in my life – it keeps my inner fire burning and nudges me to go on when life gets too hard. 

Final thoughts

As you can see, inner power and confidence are not elusive qualities reserved for a select few. They can be cultivated by any woman willing to invest in herself and embrace the principles outlined in this article. 

Remember, the journey toward self-empowerment is an ongoing process, and each step taken contributes to a stronger, more confident, and empowered woman. 

Embrace these secrets, and watch your inner power and confidence soar to new heights.


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Tina Fey

I've ridden the rails, gone off track and lost my train of thought. I'm writing for Ideapod to try and find it again. Hope you enjoy the journey with me.

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