If your lover does these 7 things in bed, they’re a keeper and you should never let them go!

When it comes to relationships, there’s no easier way to tell if someone loves you than by their actions in bed.

That’s right: if your partner is paying attention to you and your every need in bed, they could be the one you are meant to spend the rest of your life with.

While amazing sex can make for a great relationship, there’s so much more to building trust and comfort than that.

If your lover is doing these 7 things in bed, then there’s a good chance they’re in love, and you should never let them go.


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1) Kissing is Always Top of Mind

While kissing is generally associated with before and during sex, those who continue to kiss on you after the deed is done are worthy of your attention.

Sometimes, sex can feel like it is just part of the package and it can start to get routine after a while. But if your lover is kissing you well into the morning light, they’re a keeper.

2) Playful Gestures and Body Contact

It feels great to relax in bed with someone you love, but it can be made all the more fun by silly gestures and the off smack in the ass thrown in there.

If your lover loves to give you playful taps on the behind, it’s a good sign that they’re really comfortable with you.

It’s also a good sign that they’re paying attention to your body even when sex isn’t on the table.

3) Nuzzling Your Chest

Both guys and girls love to be hugged and held. So when your lover finds their way to your chest, it’s because they love to feel warmth and security near your heart.

Don’t shove them away just yet, people who like to nuzzle in your chest are pretty vulnerable and want to feel comfortable with you no matter what you are doing.

It could send the wrong message if your lover wants to nuzzle and you push them away.

4) Great Sex is Always a Plus!

It goes without saying that any great relationship can be stalled in its tracks when the sex is less than ideal.

But when the sex is on point, you tend to overlook some of the not-so-great aspects of your relationship.

If couples really gel in bed, then it’s likely that they will find a way to make their relationship work. It’s hard to walk away from something that feels so good.

5) Fantasies are on the Table

If your lover wants to know about your fantasies and they want to act them out with you, hang on to them.

A lot of people feel self-conscious about fantasies, even though they fantasize all the time! It’s sort of a catch-22! They will talk about their fantasies to some partners, but never follow through.

So if they are sharing their deepest secrets with you, or they ask you to share yours, keep that one around.

6) Cuddling is Part of the Package

Guys like to cuddle as much as girls do, even though they pretend not to care about it. It’s a pretty big stereotype actually.

Whether you are hanging out in bed watching a Netflix marathon on a Sunday afternoon, or you’ve just had a wild romp in the sack, anyone who wants to hang around you and cuddle is worth hanging on to.

When someone want to be close to someone else, it’s because they felt safe and trusted in the space. You don’t want to let that go.

7) Manners Make a Man

Okay, so let’s get real here: manners are important in all aspects of a relationship, but especially in bed.

If you’ve ever had a lover take, take, take and not give anything in return, you know what we are talking about.

It’s important that you are with a person who understands that sex and relationships take the effort of two people, and if their head isn’t in the game, they’re not worth hanging on to in the long run.

If, however, they are always thinking about you and asking you what you need out of the relationships, they could be a keeper.


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