11 reasons it is okay to never have a girlfriend (and remain single forever!)

Hey there! So you’re single, male and you’re in your twenties, thirties or forties.

There’s no hope for a girlfriend at this point? It’s time to start getting over it, right!?

WRONG! It’s time for a wake-up call and we’re here to deliver it: it is okay that you never have a girlfriend.

Here are 11 reasons you don’t need a girlfriend, and you can happily remain single for however long you want:

1) You can stay single and still be happy!

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Life is beautiful when you’re single!

Most guys don’t know how to enjoy life when they’re single because they’re always thinking about how to get a girlfriend.

They think that if they stay single, they will be alone and miserable forever.

But some people have stayed single and have been happy for many years.

Therefore, being happy does not depend on having a girlfriend or not; it depends on your mindset and viewpoint on life.

Being happy doesn’t necessarily mean you need to be in a relationship with someone else; it means that you understand how to find happiness without relationships.

When you’re single, you can find happiness in many different ways.

You can find happiness in your own life and it doesn’t have to depend on anyone else’s life.

You don’t need to be perfect in order to be happy!

People are not perfect; they will never be perfect and they shouldn’t try to be perfect because that’s impossible.

The most important thing is that you understand who you really are inside and what makes you truly happy.

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2) You can do whatever you want all the time

One of the best things about being single is that you have no responsibilities whatsoever.

You have a lot of time to do whatever you want.

You can watch videos on YouTube all day and spend hours playing games and movies in your living room with your friends, or you can go out and meet people, which is always fun!

When you have a girlfriend, there are so many rules that she’ll impose on you..

Do what you want, when you want with whoever you want! You’re free man!

You do not need a girlfriend to make sure your needs are met. You can take care of yourself 24/7 with no girlfriend.

And guess what? You’ll be happier.

3) You have more time to save up and spend on things you love

When you have a girlfriend, it’ll be harder to work on your goals.

You’ll have less time to go out and make more money because you spent so much time with your girlfriend.

No girlfriend? You can spend all day making money and living the good life.

You can save up money and make your dreams come true. Your bank account will be fatter and you’ll feel great.

What’s more?

If you have no girlfriend in your life it will be easier for you to spend your money on ANYTHING amazing that you want.

The only person who can ask you for money is YOU!

YOU can buy things for yourself and do whatever you want with your life!

4) You can find your purpose in your life jumpstory download20220831 073031 2 11 reasons it is okay to never have a girlfriend (and remain single forever!)

Dude, when you have a girlfriend, you may not find your purpose in life because she can control you.

But when there’s no girlfriend in your life, you’ll easily find your purpose and meaning in life.

You’ll realize that there are so many different things that make up our lives and that it’s important to find out which one is the best for you (the interests, hobbies or career).

What would you say if I asked you what your purpose is right now?

A month ago I would’ve closed my eyes and sighed. I had no idea.

The problem is that there are far too many fake gurus out there ready to sell you on unrealistic and ineffective solutions.

They told me to meditate, radiate “positive vibrations” and visualize the life of my dreams. They said I’d find the romantic partner I’d always wanted and that prosperity and peace would flow.

It sounded good, but it backfired.

Here’s the crazy thing:

Visualization and positive vibes won’t bring you closer to your dreams, and they can actually drag you backwards into time-wasting, idle fantasy and frustration.

You can end up trying so hard and not finding the answers you need that your life and dreams begin to feel hopeless.

You may end up further back than where you started, miserable, alone and angry.

The fact is:

Before you can experience a real change, you need to really know your purpose.

I learned about the power of purpose from watching Ideapod co-founder Justin Brown’s video on the hidden trap of improving yourself.

Justin used to be addicted to the self-help industry and New Age gurus just like me. They sold him on visualization and positive thinking. It left him lost and confused.

That’s why he traveled to Brazil to meet the renowned shaman Rudá Iandê, who taught him a life-changing new way to find your purpose and use it to transform your life and everything around you.

After watching the video, I discovered my purpose in life and it’s no exaggeration to say it was a turning point in my life.

Watch the free video here.

5) There’s no girl in your life to control you

At a certain point, when you have a girlfriend there will be some things she’ll tell you to do and some things she won’t let you do.

You can’t say no to your girl and avoid doing what she wants, because if you do so, she has the power over you!

If a girl is in your life, dude, it’s over!

Your girlfriend will dictate everything to you.

When you have no girlfriend, you can do what you want.

You don’t have to worry about what to wear when you go out, or if that picture on Facebook was taken when she thought you were single.

There’s no girl in your life who will tell you what to do or not to do with your time.

In a nutshell, there is NO ONE for her to control and nothing for her to control at all! You’re the boss of your own life!

6) You can have many hook-ups

Having a girlfriend means you won’t have the time to meet and hang out with other women.

If you’re in a relationship, your mind will always be on your girlfriend.

You’ll want to spend more time with her than with anyone else, like your friends.

Sure, you can meet up with other girls when there’s no one in your life, but when you have a girlfriend it will be harder to do so because she’ll want to be with you all the time.

Having a girlfriend means you’ll have less hook-ups with other women.

You won’t have the time and the energy to meet and hang out with other girls. So when there’s no girlfriend in your life, you’ll be able to meet many hook-up opportunities.

7) You’re in no rush to settle down or have children

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There’s absolutely no pressure to have children when you have a girlfriend.

You can date until your heart’s content and enjoy it.

When you have a girlfriend, she will force you to work on your finances and she’ll make you feel like you need her to have children.

When there is no girlfriend in your life, there will be no pressure on you at all! You can date as long as you want with no strings attached.

How great is that?

8) You’re not worried about being dumped

You don’t have to worry about being dumped when you have a girlfriend because there’s no girlfriend in your life.

When you’re really in love with your girlfriend, you’ll want to know if she’s cheating on you or if she’s dating other guys behind your back.

You’ll want to know that there are no other guys so that you can be certain she won’t leave you for another guy.

For the most part, when a girl finds out that there is someone better than her boyfriend, she will dump him and find another boyfriend.

Therefore, if you’re single and have no girlfriend, you don’t have to worry about what your girl is doing and whether or not she’ll leave you for another guy.

9) You won’t feel the need to impress or manipulate her

When there’s no girlfriend in your life you don’t need to put a mask on who you really are.

You can do as you wish without having to pretend that everything is okay when it isn’t.

When there’s no girl in your life, it makes it easier for you to show the real side of yourself.

If you have a girlfriend then it’s almost impossible for her to like you because she’ll be controlling you, trying to make you do stuff that she wants.

Therefore, you’ll have to work hard on getting her love and support and improving your social life in order to get her approval.

But when there’s no girlfriend in your life, it will be much easier for you to show the real side of yourself.

10) You’ll start to see life from a different perspective

Yes, it’s true!

You’ll look at the world from a different angle!

You’ll see beauty in ordinary things.

When there’s no girlfriend in your life, you can see things differently.

You can have better control over your mind and you’ll be able to think about things in reality.

You’ll start seeing life like it is, not how it is supposed to be.

For example: When you see small children playing together, it’s like watching an orchestra. You won’t feel alone because there will be other people around you enjoying their lives as well.

When you have a girlfriend, it’s like looking into one beautiful painting every day and still feeling lonely inside.

You can even learn about time-management and become the best judge of what is important for you and what isn’t.

11) You’ll have more free time for yourself and for hobbies

If you have a girlfriend, you’ll spend all day taking care of her, planning dates, having sex and all that stuff.

Girls don’t want to spend most of their time with you because they’re wasting your time.

You’ll also be spending more time with her than with your friends (and you don’t want that).

You won’t have much free time at all!

If you have no girlfriend in your life, you’ll have more free time for yourself.

You can play sports every day if you want; you can practice martial arts or go to the gym; or just do whatever else that makes you happy!

It’s really hard to find time for hobbies if you let girls take over your life.

Having a girlfriend means you’ll have less free time for yourself.

When there’s no girl in your life, you can spend most of your time on sports, practicing martial arts or doing whatever interests you!

Some people find personal power more easily when they’re single

That’s because when they’re single, they can focus on who they are and what they want out of life.

There’s no one else to think about or to please!

By being single, some people have become more productive, creative, social and happy.

They get to spend all of their time doing exactly what they want.

You can plan your own days, go for a walk in the park with your pet or just exercise in your basement. You can even write in your diary about your feelings and get them off your chest (without having to worry about anyone reading it).

Or you can focus on accomplishing one goal at a time instead of thinking about everything at once. It’s up to you!

There’s a reason why you don’t find fulfillment in relationships – you’re reliant on your partner for happiness and not yourself.

But when you learn to trust yourself and tap into the incredible pool of personal power within you, you’ll find what you’ve been searching for all along.

You see, we all have an amazing amount of potential. We’re all capable of achieving more than we realize. Happiness is in reach, we just look for it in all the wrong places.

And this has a knock-on effect on everything else in our lives, including our relationships.

I learned this from the shaman Rudá Iandê. He’s helped thousands of people restore balance to their lives, discover their personal power, and live life with passion at the heart of everything they do.

He uses a unique approach that combines ancient shamanic techniques with an effective modern-day twist.

In his excellent free video, Rudá explains how you can build the life and relationships you’ve always wanted, simply by following a few of his techniques.

So if you’re ready to take the plunge and live the life you know you deserve, check out his genuine advice below.

Click here to watch the free video.

Being single is easy and you have so many possibilities!


You can be happy without a girlfriend!

In order to have a happy life, you need to understand how to enjoy your own life.

You don’t need to depend on someone else.

Don’t depend on girls!

Instead, depend on yourself and enjoy your own life every single day.

Believe us, it’s worth it!

Try this; it will help you avoid the mistake of trying to get girls into relationships with you so that you can be happy.

I hope you enjoyed this post and I hope it helped you understand the real side of being single.

Besides, you will learn simple techniques that will help you achieve a better life, even though you’re single.

But don’t wait; watch the video right now if you’re ready to make that change today, to put self-doubt behind you and start living your best life, you need to check out the shaman Rudá Iandê’s genuine advice.

Click here to watch the free video.

It will help you understand what is really important in your life.

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Nguyet Yen Tran

Yen is a freelance writer and a researcher specializing in mental health, self-awareness, and psychology. Her hobby is studying human behavior throughout their reaction upon situations. Be sure to check out her other posts on our blog.

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