If you want to be taken seriously at work, say goodbye to these 12 behaviors

There’s a significant difference between being a professional and just doing your job.

This difference often lies in behavior. Some actions can undermine your credibility at work, no matter how good you are at what you do.

If you want to be taken seriously at work, there are certain behaviors you need to say goodbye to.

In this article, I’m going to share 12 such behaviors that can affect how others perceive you in the workplace.

These are behaviors that might seem trivial, but trust me, letting go of them can change the game for you. So, let’s dive in!

1) Procrastination

The professional world is no place for the habit of putting things off until the last minute.

Procrastination is a surefire way to tarnish your credibility in the workplace. When you delay tasks, it can lead to rushed work, missed deadlines, and increased stress for both you and your team.

We’ve all had those days where we push a task to the side thinking we’ll have more time later, only to find ourselves scrambling at the last minute to get it done.

The thing is, in a professional setting, your colleagues and superiors notice these patterns. And it can leave a lasting impression of unreliability.

2) Oversharing personal information

There’s a thin line between being friendly and oversharing personal information at work. Walking this line has always been a bit tricky for me.

I remember in one of my previous roles, I was working in a close-knit team. We all got along well and often shared our weekend plans and family stories. It was a friendly atmosphere, and it felt like a second family.

But, there came a point when I realized I was sharing too much about my personal life. I noticed that some colleagues started to treat me more as a friend rather than a professional peer.

It hit me then – in my effort to be friendly, I had blurred the lines between personal and professional.

Since then, I’ve learned to maintain a balance. It’s great to be open with your co-workers but remember that too much personal information can affect how you’re perceived professionally.

3) Negativity

Did you know that negativity is contagious? In fact, studies have shown that being exposed to a negative person can drain your mental energy and affect your mood.

When you constantly complain or focus on the downside of things, it can create a gloomy aura around you. This doesn’t just bring down your own morale, but it can also affect your colleagues’ perspective towards you.

In a professional environment, it’s crucial to maintain a positive outlook. Yes, there will be challenges and not every day will be a walk in the park. But dwelling in negativity can lead to a reputation that you might not want.

So, if you want to be taken seriously at work, it’s time to bid adieu to the habit of constant negativity. Try to cultivate an attitude of problem-solving and optimism instead. Not only will this enhance your professional image, but it will also improve your overall work experience.

4) Being unprepared

Nothing screams unprofessional like showing up unprepared. Whether it’s a meeting, a presentation, or even your daily tasks – being unprepared can severely impact your credibility at work.

Imagine walking into a meeting without knowing what it’s about or presenting a project without having all the necessary information on hand. It not only affects your performance but also sends a message that you don’t take your work seriously.

Being prepared, on the other hand, displays professionalism and commitment to your role. It shows that you respect not only your own time but also that of others.

Start investing time in understanding your tasks thoroughly and preparing for meetings or presentations ahead of time. Trust me, it can make all the difference!

5) Lack of punctuality

We often underestimate the importance of being on time. But in reality, punctuality is a clear sign of respect for other people’s time and commitments.

Consistently coming late to work or meetings can leave a negative impression on your colleagues and superiors. It might even lead them to question your dedication and professionalism.

In contrast, being punctual shows that you take your responsibilities seriously. It’s a sign of respect for others’ time and a demonstration of your commitment to your role.

It’s essential to say goodbye to the habit of tardiness. Start prioritizing punctuality, and you’ll notice how it positively impacts your professional image.

6) Not acknowledging others’ efforts

We all crave recognition in one way or another, especially for our efforts and hard work. I find that it’s the little words of appreciation that often make the most significant difference in a workplace environment.

Failing to acknowledge others’ efforts can quickly create a sense of resentment or unappreciation among your colleagues.

It can make them feel undervalued and overlooked, which isn’t conducive to a healthy work environment.

7) Avoiding feedback

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I’ve often struggled with handling criticism. It’s not easy to hear that your work isn’t up to the mark or that there’s room for improvement. But over time, I realized that feedback is crucial for personal growth and refinement.

When you avoid or disregard feedback, it sends the message that you aren’t open to learning or improving. It can also stunt your professional development and limit your potential.

On the flip side, embracing feedback, even when it’s tough to hear, shows a willingness to learn and grow. It demonstrates a level of professionalism and maturity that is respected in any work environment.

8) Gossiping

Workplace gossip can be a tempting trap to fall into. But participating in it can damage your reputation and professional relationships.

Gossiping shows a lack of respect for others and can create an untrustworthy image of you. It fuels negativity and can lead to conflicts, which isn’t ideal for a productive work environment.

Maintaining professionalism means avoiding such harmful behaviors. Instead of engaging in gossip, focus on building positive relationships based on trust and mutual respect.

If you want to be taken seriously at work, it’s time to say goodbye to the habit of gossiping. Your relationships with your colleagues and your professional reputation will thank you for it.

9) Avoiding responsibility

We’ve all been there. There’s a task that needs to be done, but it’s daunting, difficult, or just downright tedious.

It’s tempting to pass the buck, to say “that’s not my job”, or to hope someone else will pick up the slack. But here’s the thing – avoiding responsibility is one of the fastest ways to lose respect at work.

You need to step up, take ownership of your tasks, and follow through on your commitments. It might be challenging at times, but in the long run, it will pay off in spades.

10) Neglecting your appearance

While it’s true that your skills and abilities should take center stage at work, neglecting your appearance can send the wrong message.

Dressing appropriately and maintaining personal hygiene shows respect for yourself and those around you.

It also communicates that you take your role seriously.

Remember, you don’t have to wear expensive clothes or follow the latest fashion trends, but cleanliness and a professional attire can go a long way in helping you to be taken seriously at work.

11) Failing to show empathy

Workplaces are made up of people, and people have feelings, experiences, and challenges that they bring with them each day.

Failing to show empathy towards your colleagues when they’re going through a tough time not only affects your relationships but also paints you as someone who doesn’t value their emotions.

Listen actively, show understanding, and offer support where you can. This will not only earn you the respect of your peers, but also foster a supportive and caring work environment.

12) Lack of respect for others

The golden rule applies everywhere, including the workplace – treat others as you would like to be treated. Disrespecting your colleagues or superiors, consciously or unconsciously, can severely damage your professional image.

It’s essential to remember that everyone deserves respect, irrespective of their role or position. Showing respect fosters a positive work environment and encourages healthy communication. On the other hand, lack of respect can lead to conflicts and a toxic work atmosphere.

Final thoughts: It’s about self-awareness

The path to professionalism and respect in the workplace often begins with self-awareness.

Understanding your behaviors and their impact on others is the first step towards creating a positive work environment. Each action you take, each word you speak, contributes to the impression you leave on your colleagues and superiors.

The transformation might not happen overnight. It requires conscious effort and consistency. 

So, reflect on your behaviors at work. What habits do you need to let go of to be taken more seriously? What new behaviors can you adopt to enhance your professional image?

The answers lie within you.

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Tina Fey

I've ridden the rails, gone off track and lost my train of thought. I'm writing for Ideapod to try and find it again. Hope you enjoy the journey with me.

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