When it comes to seducing men, body language is everything.
From the way you look at him, to the way you stand near him, and even the way you smell him, will all play a part in determining how successful you are in your efforts.
But how can we use body language to seduce a married man?
If you want to seduce a man who is already taken, then keep reading for some useful tips on how you can do that successfully with body language.
1) Touch him, but do so subtly
What do you know about the power of touch for seduction?
Well, you won’t be very surprised if I told you that it’s very powerful, will you?
The truth is that touching a man can be a huge turn-on for him. So much so that it could lead to him breaking his vow of marriage and straying from his wife.
How do you touch him?
With subtlety, of course!
Don’t go around touching every part of his body – that will come later! Instead, start by lightly touching his arm or his back when you’re talking to him.
Touching is a very effective way of seducing a man, but you need to be subtle.
If you touch him on a regular basis, then he’ll become desensitized to it as a result, and it will have very little effect on him.
To keep his attention and have him craving more, you should be touching him on a very occasional basis, and only in areas that are appropriate.
For example, you can touch his shoulder, upper arm, and the knee cap (if you’re sitting next to him).
A light touch on the hand, shoulder, or knee cap is extremely effective when done at the right time.
This is a great way to show your interest in him and stimulate the chemistry between you two.
You can also touch the small of his back when you’re walking behind him or if he’s standing next to you at a party or a bar. This will make him feel more masculine and desired by you both, physically and mentally.
2) Play with your hair while talking to him
Another great way to seduce a married man with your body language is to use your hair to draw his attention away from his wife.
If you’re talking to him, then play with your hair occasionally and show off some skin. Why?
Because this will definitely get his attention.
Playing with your hair is one of the most obvious ways you can flirt with a man while you’re talking to him.
This is something that most women do when they’re flirting with someone or attracted to them.
To be successful in your efforts, though, you need to make sure that you do it at the right time. You should play with your hair when you’re in the middle of a conversation with him and you want to show him that you’re interested in him.
You should make sure that you don’t play with your hair too much, though, as it can come across as a bit obsessive and desperate.
But keep in mind: playing with your hair for 10 to 15 seconds at a time is the perfect frequency. Just don’t make it too obvious, and don’t overdo it.
3) Make him feel like an everyday hero
Ever thought about seducing a married man by making him feel like he’s a hero?
Let me explain how this works.
There’s actually a psychological term for what I’m talking about here. It’s called the ‘hero instinct’.
This concept is generating a lot of buzz at the moment as a way to explain what really drives men in relationships.
I know it might all seem kind of silly. In this day and age, women don’t need someone to rescue them. They don’t need a ‘hero’ in their lives.
But this misses the point about what the hero instinct is all about.
The hero instinct is an instinctive need that men have to step up to the plate for the woman in their lives. This is deeply rooted in male biology.
When a man genuinely feels like your everyday hero, he’ll become more loving, attentive, and committed to being in a long-term relationship with you.
But how do you trigger this instinct in him?
The trick is to make him feel like a hero in an authentic way. And there are things you can say and messages you can send to trigger this natural biological instinct.
If you want some help doing this, check out James Bauer’s excellent free video here.
I don’t often recommend videos or buy into popular new concepts in psychology, but the hero instinct is one of the most fascinating concepts I’ve come across.
4) Stand straight up and look him in the eyes while talking to him
When it comes to seducing men with body language, eye contact is always the key. The same applies to married men.
But guess what?
You should make eye contact, but only for a moment!
Just stand up straight, look him in the eyes, and talk to him with your hands on your hips.
You may have seen this body language used by women in movies before: a woman stands up straight, looks her man directly in the eyes, and talks to him about something serious.
How does this body language sign work?
Well, when you use this body language, you’ll be sending him a clear message that you’re interested in him.
This will definitely make him want to get to know you more and it will trigger his curiosity.
And also, it’s a very powerful position for women because it shows that they’re confident about what they’re saying and that they feel comfortable standing up for themselves.
So if you want to be more assertive around your husband or boyfriend (or if you want to seduce a married man), then you should definitely try doing this while talking to them.
Just make sure that you do it at the right time! You should only stand straight up and look at them when you’re having an argument or an important discussion with them.
This will instantly show them that you’re serious about what you’re saying. It will also make them more attentive to what you’re saying because they’ll be paying more attention to how important what you’re saying is.
5) Lean in to smell him
Let me guess…
You’re probably thinking that this tip is a little too weird and kinky, right?
But I’m not talking about doing this in front of other people.
This tip is actually very simple.
I want you to lean in to smell him when you’re close to him.
This is a very subtle way of seducing men, but it can work wonders if you do it at the right time and in the right way.
The best part about this tip is that you can do it anywhere! You just have to be close enough to them so that they can feel your breath on their face and neck.
The thing is that there are certain scents that are very attractive to men, so if you want to seduce a married man, you can definitely benefit from smelling as great as you can.
One scent that will definitely have him craving more is your own natural scent.
Depending on what time of the month it is, you should lean in close to him and smell him (in an appropriate way)
Believe it or not, most women don’t know how powerful this body language move really is because they don’t use it often enough.
But if you learn how to use it correctly, then you’ll be able to seduce just about any man with ease.
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Here’s what I mean: When a woman leans into her man, she’s subconsciously telling him that she wants more physical contact with him and she wants him closer to her; she’s also telling him that she likes the way he smells and feels like he belongs in her world.
The idea here is for you to show your husband or boyfriend that he belongs in your life by leaning into them when you’re talking face-to-face or when they’re standing behind you while you’re cooking.
The more you do this, the more he’ll feel like he belongs in your life, and the more he’ll want to be with you.
6) Use your eyes and facial expressions effectively
Want to know one of the most crucial parts of using body language to seduce a married man?
It’s to use your eyes and facial expressions effectively.
What I mean here is that your eyes and facial expressions will tell a married man that you’re interested in him without you having to say a single word.
If you want to use your eyes and facial expressions to their fullest potential, then you need to look at him while he’s talking to you and keep eye contact for as long as you can.
You should also use a seductive smile and make sure that your eyes are sparkling.
Using these techniques will let him know that you’re interested in him and that you find him attractive. For even better results, you can combine your eye and facial expressions with playing with your hair and leaning in to smell him.
Now you’re probably thinking, “How can you use your eyes and facial expressions to seduce men?”
Well, it’s actually very simple.
You just have to learn how to use these parts of your body in the right way. And for this, you need to take a look at his reactions and see what he likes the most.
If you want to make your eyes and facial expressions work for you, then you need to learn how to make them seductive.
7) Maintain proper posture at all times
Having the right posture when you’re around a married man can make all the difference when it comes to seducing him.
The best posture to use when you want to seduce a married man is an open posture.
This means that your knees should be slightly apart and your legs should be angled away from him.
To give your posture an extra boost, you can also use your hands to create an open look.
For example, you can hold your hands behind your head as you lean back against the wall.
Having the right posture will let him know that you’re confident and that you’re interested in him. It will also make you look more attractive.
And you know what else?
Maintaining the proper posture at all times can help you trigger his hero instinct, which will also help you seduce a married man.
This relates back to what I mentioned earlier: the hero instinct.
When a man is made to feel needed, wanted, and respected, he’s more likely to be seduced.
And it’s as simple as knowing the right things to say to trigger his hero instinct and make him into the man he’s always wanted to be.
All of that and more is revealed in this excellent free video by James Bauer. It’s absolutely worth checking out if you’re ready to take things to the next level with your man.
8) Smile and laugh a lot
One more thing that you need to know about seducing a married man is that you should be smiling and laughing a lot.
The thing is that a lot of women take themselves too seriously. They think that they have to be really serious and seductive in order to attract a married man.
But this is not true at all. In fact, being too serious can actually push him away from you.
This is because when you’re too serious, he’s not sure if he can trust you or if he wants to get closer to you.
So instead of being seductive and trying to act all sexy with him, try to be yourself and have fun with him.
You should smile and laugh a lot when you’re around a married man you want to seduce. Smiling and laughing are two of the most effective ways that you can flirt with a man.
When you smile at him, it will make him feel good and happy, and he’ll also feel desired. When you laugh at his jokes, it will also make him feel wanted and will also let him know that you’re interested in him.
You can also use your voice to flirt with him and let him know that you want him. You can do this by making your voice softer.
This means smiling often and laughing at his silly jokes. It also means going out with him and enjoying your time together as friends rather than trying to seduce him the whole time, as a prostitute would do it.
9) Hinge your body towards him
Hinging your body towards him is a very powerful way to flirt with a married man and make him want you.
When you hinge your body towards him, you’ll be more likely to seduce him because he’ll feel more powerful than you and he’ll feel like he can protect you.
How can you do this?
Simply position your body so that it’s facing towards him. This will send him the message that you want to be close to him and that you’re interested in him.
You can also do this in reverse as a way of breaking the ice when you first meet a married man.
Stand close to him, and then slowly move your body so that it’s facing towards him. This will let him know that you’re interested and that you want to get closer to him.
What’s more, this will make it easier for the two of you to talk and flirt with each other without being distracted by other people who might be around or who might
And you know what else?
He may even start to feel like he wants to marry you. This is the goal that most women have when they want to seduce a married man. They want this man to marry them.
So, if that’s what you want too, then hinging your body towards him will definitely help a lot. You can do this by crossing one of your legs over the other while facing him or by leaning forward slightly while talking with him.
10) Proximity is key
Can I be totally honest with you?
A man will be more likely to flirt with you when he’s close to you.
If you’re standing next to him, he’ll be more likely to flirt with you because it will make him feel more powerful. If you’re sitting next to him, he’ll be more likely to flirt with you because it will make him feel like he has a lot of control over the situation.
If you’re standing or sitting near each other, then the two of you can start flirting and get closer and closer together.
This is another good way for a married man to subtly flirt with a woman who is interested in him and wants to be his wife.
You should also make sure that you’re not sitting too far away from him at any given moment. Make sure to be as close to him as possible without making him uncomfortable.
For example, if you’re both sitting on a couch, then you should sit as close to him as you can without placing your knee on his leg.
So, remember: proximity is key when you’re trying to seduce a married man. You need to be close to him as often as possible and make sure that he knows that you’re interested in him.
All in all, it’s not easy to seduce a married man. He may be unhappy in his relationship, but that doesn’t mean he is willing to risk his marriage for a quick fling with you.
But the key is to understand what he wants and give it to him. This might sound like a lot of work, but it’s not as hard as it seems at first glance.
By now you should have a good idea of how to seduce a married man with body language.
So what can you do to increase your chances?
Well, I mentioned the unique concept of the hero instinct earlier. It’s revolutionized the way I understand how men work in relationships.
You see, when you trigger a man’s hero instinct, all those emotional walls come down. He feels better in himself, and he’ll naturally begin to associate those good feelings with you.
And it’s all down to knowing how to trigger these innate drivers that motivate men to love, commit, and protect.
So if you’re ready to take your relationship to that level, be sure to check out James Bauer’s incredible advice.
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