How to manifest someone you like in 13 easy steps

What if you could manifest someone you like? What would that mean for your life?

The idea of manifesting a person into your life might sound crazy, or not even possible.

It might sound like something that only happens in movies. But the truth is, it’s actually pretty simple.

All you have to do is follow these 13 easy steps and you’ll be well on your way to getting the love of your life in no time.

13 easy steps to manifest someone you like

1)  Get crystal clear about your intentions

What are you looking for? What do you want to manifest?

Think about your exact intentions.

Do you want that person to contact you? Do you want them to admire you? Get obsessed with you? Or maybe you’re okay if they just start texting you.

In any case, clarity is a crucial part of successful manifestation. You need to be sure about your exact goals in order to get someone to like you. Why?

The answer is simple. Being clear about your intentions will give you an opportunity to create better possibilities for future actions. But most importantly, it also means taking care of your current actions and wishes too.

How can you make your wishes come true if you don’t know what they are?

Even a genie would have been unable to make your wish come true if you hadn’t told them exactly what you wanted. The same applies to manifestation.

You need to point out exactly what you want from this person and be as clear as possible about your intentions.

So, whatever it is, write it down. Write it in your journal. Write it on a piece of paper and put it somewhere visible for easy access.

2) Take a few minutes to think about your ideal partner

Think about the person you want to manifest into your life.

What are their core values? Are they intelligent? Creative? Open-minded? Cheerful?

For instance, most people adore honesty in relationships and believe that it’s vital for strong bonds.

Others prefer caring partners, people with innovative ideas, or people who are well-liked in society.

In order to manifest someone successfully, you need to clearly imagine all the qualities and values your ideal partner would have.

Write down all these qualities. Write down all the things you like in romantic relationships. Write down all the reasons why this person is perfect for you.

Does this person openly express their feelings to you? Are they great listeners? Do they have a heart of gold?

The list can be endless. You need to know everything about your ideal partner.

Being able to clearly picture them will also allow you to relax, clear your mind, and allow you to observe the person that you want in your life.

Keep in mind that you also need to write down what you don’t like about them, what is not so good about them, and why this is a deal-breaker for you. Why?

Because it’s important to realize if your possible partner has any negative personality traits that might be harmful to your relationship.

3) Think about what this person would look like

Think about this person’s appearance and physical features, as well as their personality.

This is not just important for manifesting someone, it’s also important for maintaining a healthy relationship with that person in the future.

For instance, if you’re manifesting a person with a great personality, but they have a bad body, you can be sure that this person will always be attracted to themselves and their physical appearance.

As humans, we tend to think about our appearance when we’re talking about someone else. Even more. Most of the time, we judge people by their appearance. And even if it’s not morally or ethically right, that’s what we usually do.

Considering this, appearance does matter in relationships.

We think about how the other person looks, what kind of clothes they wear, and how much money they have.

That’s why you need to know exactly what you want your future partner to look like before starting the manifestation process.

So, think about what this person would look like, how they might dress, and how they might carry themselves in public.

You don’t need to know exactly how they look, but you do need to visualize them clearly in your mind.

Do they have a particular style of dressing? Do they prefer wearing hoodies or tracksuits? Do they prefer wearing a certain color?

Do you like their hairstyles? Do you like the way that person dresses or how he/she carries himself in public?

Can you imagine all of that? Can you picture this person as a real-life personality with a real-life personality similar to what you’ve written down on paper?

If you don’t know what they look like yet, it’s also very important that you write down as many details as possible in your journal or notebook so that later on, when you are manifesting.

4) Visualize how your partner would behave around you

As psychologists prove, sometimes our behavior is different from our attitudes and values. What does it mean?

It means that even if your person cares about children, seems like a kind human being, and is a good friend, in reality, they might act completely differently around you.

Therefore, knowing the basic values and attitudes of this person is not always enough to predict their behaviors.

That’s why you need to know how this person will act around you.

You want this person to be a good partner and friend, right? Well, then you need to know that he/she will be a good partner.

You don’t want to have the worst partner ever in your life, do you? If you do, it’s going to kill your chances of manifesting the best relationship ever.

When you’re manifesting someone else, this person must act in a certain way towards you, because otherwise, the manifestation process will not work.

That’s why it’s so important that when manifesting someone else, you visualize them as real people acting in a certain way towards you.

Maybe the way they treat you is far different from how they act towards other people.

However, maybe what matters to you is their specific behavior towards you, and you don’t care about the way they treat other people.

So, you need to find a way to visualize them as real people who act in a certain way around you.

5) Visualize how your partner will react to the events that happen.

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You want this person to be a good partner, right? Well, then you need to know that he/she will be a good partner when it comes to certain events.

Once the relationship starts, certain events will likely happen.

Maybe you’ll be going on a trip together. How will this person react to this?

Maybe you’ll have a fight. If you do, how will this person react to it?

You need to know that your partner will react in a certain way to certain events, and that’s why it’s so important that when manifesting someone else, you visualize them reacting in a certain way to these events.

Visualizing your partner’s reactions to various mutual events will help you get a clearer picture of them. Otherwise, how can you expect him/her to become a good partner?

Maybe the person doesn’t like children at all and will never allow them into the house. But maybe that’s not what matters to you in life.

But this is just one of the many examples of your upcoming events in the future.

If you don’t know how your partner would react to certain events, it’s going to be very hard for you to manifest this person because there’s a big chance that he/she won’t react in the way you want him/her to.

If you can visualize your partner reacting in a certain way to these events, then it will help you get a clearer picture of them. As a result, chances are high it will help you manifest this person faster.

6) Select a prompt to begin scripting

If you’re already clear about your exact intentions and know what your ideal partner would look like and act like around you, then it’s time to start scripting them.

When it comes to manifesting people, scripting is one of the most useful and effective strategies.

In simple words, scripting means describing your life and creating a possible scenario for your relationship as if your manifestation goal has already come true.

Scripting is a technique for creating a clear picture of your future life and events.

This technique helps you get a clearer picture of your manifestation goal and how it’s going to happen in the future.

Scripting is super simple, but it’s very effective.

This prompt is a sentence or two that describes the person you’re manifesting and his or her future.

For example, if you’re manifesting a woman and you want her to be your partner, then the prompt is something like: “I’m going to have a partner who will be my soulmate.”

It works the same way as visualizing: you just need to visualize how your partner would react to certain events, and that’s it. In other words, you just need to create a clear picture of your desired outcome.

For example, if you want to manifest someone else who will be a better partner for you, then scripting is the perfect technique for you because it will help work out all the details of this person.

That’s why it’s so important that when manifesting someone else, you start with the prompt because, without it, it’s very hard for you to script the events of this person.

However, keep in mind that even though scripting is a technique of the Law of Attraction. Still, you should know that the Law of Attraction isn’t completely the same as manifestation.

7) Block thoughts that limit your imagination

If you want to manifest someone faster and easier, then you must block thoughts that limit your imagination.

But what exactly are the limiting beliefs?

They are the thoughts that you have right now, but they’re not your truth.

They’re the thoughts that prevent us from seeing our true intentions and desires.

For example, if you believe that “I’m too old to manifest someone,” then it’s a limiting belief because it’s not your truth.

Another example of limiting thoughts could be: “I shouldn’t manifest someone because it will complicate my life.”

In other words, limiting beliefs are the thoughts that prevent us from seeing our true intentions and desires.

Now that we know what a limiting belief is and how to recognize them, let’s see how you can block them so that you can manifest them faster and easier.

So, if you really believe this thought and if you really think that you’re too old to manifest someone, then it means that this thought is actually blocking your manifestation.

8) Show the universe you’re ready for this person

As you know, manifesting is a process of showing the universe that you’re ready for this person to come into your life.

All you have to do is be completely clear about your intentions, then start scripting these events and be ready for the manifestation.

If you’re manifesting a woman, then the events that will happen in your life will be something like:

  • “I’m ready to meet my soulmate.”
  • “I’m going to have a partner who is the perfect match for me.”
  • “My partner is going to be my best friend and the person who will make me happy.”
  • “My partner is going to take care of me and treat me like a queen.”

But if you’re manifesting a man, then the events will be something like this:

  • “I’m going to find a man who is kind and loving.”
  • “My partner is going to be my friend, my lover, and my best friend.”
  • “I’m going to have unconditional love with my partner.”

The point is that manifestation doesn’t happen overnight. It takes time. If you want this person in your life, then keep working on him/her until you’re completely sure about it.

But most importantly, keep showing the universe that you’re ready for a new relationship. As a result, the universe will give you what you want. How so?

It’s likely that if you’re doing the right things, the universe will start showing you certain signs that you’re on the right path. Why?

Because the universe understands that you need proper energy in order to start something new. But if you’re not really willing, be ready to get signs that are against your relationship.

The reason is that the universe knows exactly when you’re ready. And also, it acknowledges when love is coming your way.

That’s why you should always keep your mind open to the universe.

9) Use specific manifesting techniques and strategies

If you’re trying to get someone to like you, all you have to do is keep a positive attitude, work on your self-esteem, be ready for the signs from the universe, and use specific manifesting techniques and strategies.

Here are some examples of manifesting techniques that will help you manifest your relationship:

  • Meditation – Meditation is a technique that will help you relax and put you in a positive state of mind. This technique is very effective in helping you manifest your relationship.
  • Affirmations – Affirmations are words or phrases that we repeat to ourselves over and over again. They help us believe in our dreams or desires. And when we repeat them, they’re like a “magnet” attracting the energy of the universe.
  • Visualization – Visualization is the technique of imagining your desired outcome. It helps you imagine your new relationship and make it as real as possible.
  • Feelings – Feelings are an important part of manifesting our desires because feelings are a universal language that everyone understands. And if you can convince yourself that you want to.
  • Scripting – As we already mentioned, you can use scripting to help you manifest your desires. Scripting is the technique of creating scripts that will help you get what you want.
  • Gratitude – Gratitude is very effective in manifesting our desires. Gratitude is the feeling that you’re grateful for everything you have and all of the opportunities you’ve received. And this gratitude will help you to see things in a different light and will help you to get what you want.

Just choose the most appealing strategy that will help you feel comfortable on the way to achieving your relationship goal.

10) Maintain a positive attitude

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When you’re trying to manifest something, it’s very important that you keep a positive attitude toward your goal.

In fact, having a positive attitude leads to success and happiness. Therefore, a positive attitude will help you to keep going when things are not going well, and also stay motivated when things are going well.

When you’re not having much luck, it’s a good idea to remind yourself that everything is working out for the best.

And when things go well, try your best not to take them for granted. This way, you’ll be able to take advantage of any opportunities that come your way.

You should also try to keep yourself relaxed. When you’re relaxed, your mind will be at ease, and it will just be easier for you to manifest your desire.

And when you focus on the positive aspects of a situation, it’s like having a big magnet attracting all of the positive circumstances and opportunities towards you.

11) Be patient and keep working hard

Once you’ve set your goal and intentions, keep working hard until you achieve it.

That is the only way to manifest anything in your life.

Since manifesting is a process of showing the universe that you’re ready for this person to come into your life, you must be patient and keep working hard.

The important thing is that once you’re done with this step, the universe will start working on your behalf.

That’s why it’s important that when manifesting someone else, you don’t give up because it takes time.

And if you didn’t know before, not giving up is accompanied by plenty of surprising benefits, either for your mental well-being or your relationships.

If you’re manifesting a woman, then work on her until you’re completely sure that she’s the person for you. If not, then start working on something else because she’s not what you want.

The same goes for men. If you’re not sure about him/her, don’t keep working on him/her because the universe will tell you about it sooner or later.

And when things don’t go as planned, simply start working on something else and be patient with the universe to give you what is yours to have in your life.

12) Have faith in the universe

Not only should you show the universe that you’re open to a new relationship, but you should also believe in it.

If you’re manifesting someone in your life, then trust the universe. Let it do its job.

There’s no need to worry about what’s going on because the universe will take care of everything for you. It knows exactly when you’re ready for something new, and it will work on your behalf to make sure everything goes smoothly.

How so? Because the universe wants you to have the proper energy in your life so that you can start something new. And when it’s not there, then the universe simply takes care of it by doing what needs to be done.

Thanks to the law of attraction, the universe has enough power to guide you towards the right side by teaching you what is wrong and what is right.

You just need to trust the universe and keep working hard until you achieve your goal.

13) Keep manifesting until you get what you need

When you’re manifesting something, don’t give up until you get what you’re after.

And when you get what you want, then thank the universe for bringing everything that is yours to have in your life.

You can thank the universe for bringing someone into your life and helping him/her start a new relationship, or simply thank it for helping you manifest something new.

Whatever it is that happens in your life, don’t be afraid to tell the universe how grateful you are, because this will help it work even harder on your behalf.

So, keep manifesting until you feel that it’s no longer a “thought” and that it’s actually real.

Continue manifesting until you have all of the qualities you desire in your partner.

And when this happens, you’ll know it’s the right time to start a new relationship.

You’ll also know that it’s the right time to start a new relationship because the universe will be sure that you’re ready.

It will definitely help you find him/her and let you know exactly what kind of person is best for your life. So, keep manifesting until everything is perfect for you.

And whenever you notice that this person already has certain positive feelings towards you, maybe it’s already time to stop.

Therefore, once you’ve manifested someone, then stop working on your goal and let the universe do its job from now on.

Bonus step: Trust your gut!

When in doubt, trust your gut instinct.

Try to avoid making any decision based on what you think is right or wrong. Even if you’re not sure about how to listen to your intuition, it’s worth finding out because trusting your gut is accompanied by several benefits.

How so?

  • Your intuition is shaped by your past experiences.
  • Trusting your inner feelings will make you feel happier.
  • It will help you become more confident in your decisions.

When in doubt, trust your gut and look for the positive feelings that are coming from your intuition. You’ll be surprised by how much things will change once you start listening to it.

This is because you might end up making the wrong decision and it will only make things worse for you.

You need to make decisions that align with your gut instinct because it’s the voice of your higher self.

Trust it and follow its advice because it’s always right.

Yes, you can manifest a specific person – Here’s how:

It’s true that we can manifest certain things like objects, goals, and, most importantly, even other human beings.

However, to manifest someone, you must believe that they’re already yours.

And when you feel that this person is already yours, then stop working on your goal and let the universe do its thing.

This way, the universe will make sure that things go perfectly for you and this person as well.

But is manifesting someone right? Isn’t it morally wrong?

No, there’s nothing wrong with manifesting a specific person. The reason is that the people in your life are reflections of your own beliefs. And if you feel that you need to be in a relationship with a specific person to pursue your dreams, go for it.

Why? Because the universe will make sure that things go perfectly for you and this person as well, anyway. However, manifestation will indeed help you to make this person fall in love with you faster and stronger.

Your manifestation journey begins now

Let’s be honest – It’s perfectly normal to want to manifest someone.

But if you really want to manifest someone in your life, you must learn how to do it in the correct way.

So, get clear on your specific desires, visualize the person you want to be attracted to, and become acquainted with manifestation techniques.

And if you really want a relationship with this specific person, then start working on your manifestation journey now.

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Nato Lagidze

Nato is a writer and a researcher with an academic background in psychology. She investigates self-compassion, emotional intelligence, psychological well-being, and the ways people make decisions. Writing about recent trends in the movie industry is her other hobby, alongside music, art, culture, and social influences. She dreams to create an uplifting documentary one day, inspired by her experiences with strangers.

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