Are you in love with a married man?
If so, you probably have your fair share of troubles ahead.
While it’s true that some men are capable of loving more than one person at once, the reality is that most husbands won’t risk their marriage to find out.
Even so, you haven’t given up on him yet, and that’s why you are reading this article. You want to know how to make a married man love you more than his wife.
The good news is that it can be done; the bad news is that it won’t be easy. If you’re willing to put in the work and effort, however, nothing is off limits.
Let’s take a look at the 10 key steps to getting a guy to love you more than his wife:
1) Know that it won’t be easy and will require lots of work
Nothing worth having ever comes easily.
This rule is just as applicable to your situation as it is to any other. You might be in love with this man, but he has a wife and kids.
He has a life that he has built up with her and that he probably loves. Loving you won’t be easy because he has a lot to lose if he makes the wrong decision.
He has everything to lose, but if he’s willing to take that risk, he will have everything to gain.
That means that you will have to put in the work, especially if you want to make him love you more than his wife.
You won’t be able to just show up one day and expect him to fall in love with you. It takes time, effort, and a lot of patience.
2) Be patient and don’t give up easily
You’re probably already aware that patience is key if you want to win his heart, but you still won’t be able to just flip a switch and suddenly be patient.
Patience is a skill like anything else and it takes practice to get better at it. You’ll have to be patient with yourself and your progress.
You’ll have to be patient with how quickly or slowly things are progressing between you two.
You won’t be able to make him love you if you give up too soon.
You have to be ready to weather the storm and keep fighting until he is ready to see what you have to offer.
3) Come up with a plan to meet with him in secret while maintaining the illusion that you are only friends
This is one of the first steps to making him fall in love with you.
After all, how can a married man fall in love with you when he is constantly meeting you as his friend?
If you want to make him fall for you, you need to change the dynamic of your relationship and make him realize that you are more than just a friend.
You can do that by slowly introducing yourself as more than just a friend by slowly making your relationship less and less “friendly,” by pretending that you are still just friends even though you are slowly introducing yourself as something more.
4) Help him feel comfortable enough to confide in you
If you want to make a married man fall in love with you, you have to make him feel like he can confide in you.
You have to be someone that he feels comfortable talking to, and you have to be someone that he can trust.
To make him feel comfortable enough to confide in you, you have to be a good friend to him first.
You have to be someone that he likes to spend time with, and you have to be someone that he can talk to when he needs to get something off his chest.
However, if he ever does feel like he can confide in you, let him know that you are there for him. Let him know that you want to support him, and let him know that you care about what he has to say.
5) Show him how amazing you are
Show him how amazing you are and he’ll fall for you like he’s never fallen for anyone before.
You have to show him that you are capable of being a great partner, and you have to prove to him that you have the potential to be someone that he can spend the rest of his life with.
To do that, you’ll have to put in a lot of work. You’ll have to show him that you are capable of good things and that you are a good person to be around.
You’ll have to show him that you are trustworthy, reliable, and capable of good things.
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7) Make him feel special
There are a lot of ways you can make a man feel special:
- You can start by asking questions about his interests and things that are important to him.This will show him that you care about the things he cares about, which will make him feel special because he knows that not everyone takes an interest in the things that he cares about.This will also help you get to know him better, which will make it easier to make him feel special.
- Make him feel like he is the only person in the world. Make him feel like you are the only woman that he wants to be with. To do that, you have to have a special connection with him.
- Remember his special days, and you have to make time for him. While he may have a wife who has been with him for years, he may not be receiving the attention that he needs.
- You have to show him that you appreciate him and that you want him to be a part of your life.
8) Always look amazing
Men love beautiful women; that’s just a fact.
If you want to make him fall for you and make him love you more than his wife, you have to step up your game.
You have to start working on your appearance and make sure you are always looking your best.
This means paying attention to the way you dress, the way you do your makeup, and the way you do your hair.
This means going to the gym and making sure you are fit.
This means eating healthy foods and avoiding things that could harm your health or appearance.
The bottom line is that you need to make sure that every time he sees you, he can’t help but think how beautiful you are and how lucky he is to be with you.
9) Show him a good time
Men like to have fun and they like to be able to enjoy themselves.
They don’t want to spend their time with you sitting around and sulking because they aren’t willing to commit to you yet.
They want someone who makes them laugh and who can show them a good time without bringing up the relationship.
Making him your boyfriend or husband will be a lot easier if you are able to make him have fun with you and enjoy himself when he is around you.
This means doing the things that he likes to do and making him feel like he is living his best life when he is with you.
It means making him feel like he can be himself around you and that he can enjoy his time with you without feeling like he has to do something or be someone else.
10) Don’t keep bringing up his wife
Finally, you have to be careful not to keep bringing up his wife all the time.
This is super important because if you want him to fall madly and deeply in love with you and consider leaving his wife for you, then he needs to forget about her.
And think about it. How can he forget about her and focus on you if you keep mentioning her?
What’s more, you should avoid saying things like, “Your wife would never do this.” or “Your wife would never let you do that.” Don’t make comparisons.
Instead, you should focus on making him feel good and making him happy. You should let him know that you are there for him. You should make him feel like he is the best thing that has ever happened to you, and you should make him feel like he is lucky to be with you.
It’s up to you now…
There you have it ladies, all the key steps to making that married man love you more than his wife!
And if you’re still feeling unsure about the whole thing, I have the perfect remedy for the situation you’re facing – I mentioned the hero instinct earlier.
Because once a man’s hero instinct is triggered, he’ll only have eyes for you. You’ll reach a part of him that no woman has ever managed to reach before.
And in return, he’ll be compelled to commit to you and love you like he’s never loved another woman.
So if you’re ready to take that plunge and reach new heights in your relationship, make sure to check out relationship expert James Bauer’s invaluable advice.