Every woman dreams of having a high-value man by her side. But what does that even mean?
Today, we’ll take a look at some high-value man traits, so that you don’t let him go by accident!
30 traits of a high-value man
1) He is confident
A high-value man is confident in who he is. He doesn’t try to fit in, or blend in with the crowd.
Instead, he stands out in a good way. He doesn’t care what people think. Instead, he walks his own path, no matter what others might think.
He is secure in his strengths, weaknesses, and everything in between.
He knows that each of us is human, and no one is perfect.
And yet, he can still be a great role model to others.
He is confident in his abilities, strengths, and passions. He knows who he is deep down inside, and is secure in his identity in this world.
This confidence is an incredibly attractive trait, and when you see him being confident without being overly cocky, that’s when you know he is a high-value man.
2) He is humble
A high-value man is humble.
He knows he is not perfect.
He knows he has weaknesses and makes mistakes just like the rest of us.
This man doesn’t think he is better than others.
Instead, he is open to learning from everyone.
He is empathetic, and can feel the emotions of others. He is not afraid to cry when he feels the need to do so, because he knows it doesn’t take away from his masculinity.
He doesn’t feel the need to put on a show for anyone.
He is open and honest, and feels no shame in sharing his feelings with others.
A high-value man is humble when he succeeds and humble when he fails.
3) He takes care of himself
A high-value man takes care of himself, physically, intellectually and spiritually.
He makes sure he is healthy, so that he can be there for others.
This man is open to learning new things, and growing as a person.
He may be into sports, reading, music, art or something else that feeds his soul.
But wait, let me tell you something! He may be religious or spiritual in some way, or he may not be.
But whatever he is, he feeds his soul on a regular basis. He is ready for a committed relationship, if that is what he wants.
He may have been burned in the past and be cautious, or he may be ready to settle down. But he is not looking to settle down with just any woman. He is looking for the right one.
You see, the best part about a man who looks after himself on all levels is that it’s proof to a woman that he also has the capacity to take care of her.
Think about it: if a man can’t take care of himself, how can he take care of anybody else?
A high-value man is ready to be in a committed relationship, and he has the capacity to be a great partner.
Bonus point: He is your hero and takes care of you
I know, this one sounds a bit weird, but hear me out:
There’s actually a psychological term for what I’m talking about here. It’s called the ‘hero instinct’.
This concept is generating a lot of buzz at the moment as a way to explain what really drives men in relationships.
I know it might all seem kind of silly. In this day and age, women don’t need someone to rescue them. They don’t need a ‘hero’ in their lives.
But this misses the point about what the hero instinct is all about.
The hero instinct is an instinctive need that men have to step up to the plate for the woman in their lives. This is deeply rooted in male biology.
When a man genuinely feels like your everyday hero, he’ll become more loving, attentive, and committed to being in a long-term relationship with you.
But how do you trigger this instinct in him?
The trick is to make him feel like a hero in an authentic way. And there are things you can say and messages you can send to trigger this natural biological instinct.
If you want some help doing this, check out James Bauer’s excellent free video here.
I don’t often recommend videos or buy into popular new concepts in psychology, but the hero instinct is one of the most fascinating concepts I’ve come across.
4) He has healthy boundaries
A high-value man has healthy boundaries. He knows what he likes and what he doesn’t.
He knows when he is ready to date, and when he isn’t.
Simply put, he knows when someone crosses the line, and he knows how to set healthy boundaries with others.
A high-value man knows that we all deserve respect, and he gives it when he is asked.
He doesn’t take advantage of others, and he is careful with his word. He doesn’t promise something he can’t deliver, and he doesn’t over-commit.
He also knows how to set boundaries with his partner, and he is not afraid to do so. A high-value man is not a doormat. But he doesn’t let anyone walk all over him either.
You see, he tries to see things from the other person’s perspective, but he also knows when to stand his ground.
He knows when to walk away from a situation, and he knows how to set healthy boundaries.
5) He is independent
A high-value man is independent. He doesn’t need you to take care of him. He is confident enough in his own abilities to make his own way in life.
He doesn’t need you to pay all the bills or buy him fancy gifts.
You see, he is used to taking care of himself, and he knows what he needs to be happy.
He can be sweet and romantic. But he knows when to back off, and respect your boundaries.
And the best part?
He doesn’t need you to do everything together.
He is happy when you are doing your own thing, and vice versa.
A high-value man is not clingy. He doesn’t want to be with you every second of the day. Instead, he is happy to take some time for himself and enjoy his own hobbies.
He is also happy to spend time with you when you want to hang out. He knows when you need some space, and he respects that.
This is really nice, as it will give you both the freedom to still pursue your own interests!
6) He values honesty and transparency
A high-value man values honesty and transparency.
He knows when he has made a mistake, and he is not afraid to apologize for it.
He does not try to cover it up or make excuses for it.
Instead, he owns up to it.
You see, he knows when you are lying, and he will call you out on it.
He also doesn’t lie to you, or try to deceive you in any way.
A high-value man is also open and transparent with his feelings.
He doesn’t try to hide his feelings from you. Instead, he is honest with you, and lets you know what is going on inside his head.
A high-value man doesn’t cheat, and he doesn’t try to manipulate you into doing his bidding.
Instead, he treats you with respect[, and he expects you to do the same. He values honesty in a relationship, and he won’t tolerate anything less.
7) He is intelligent
A high-value man is intelligent.
He may not have a Ph.D. in Physics, but he is smart enough to know what he is doing in life.
He doesn’t make rash decisions, and he knows when to ask for help.
He doesn’t try to solve every problem by himself.
Instead, he knows that we all need help from others sometimes. He is curious, and he likes to learn.
But you see, he doesn’t just collect facts and figures. Instead, he applies what he learns to his life, and he is always growing.
A high-value man doesn’t just talk the talk. He walks the walk too.
Simply put, he doesn’t just have knowledge. He applies it in his life to make it better.
He doesn’t brag about what he knows, or show off. Instead, he is humble and eager to learn more. He is eager to learn from others, and eager to teach what he knows.
8) You can depend on him
A high-value man is reliable.
You know that he will always come through for you when you need him to.
Not just that, but you also know that he will show up when he says he will.
You know that he will do his best to make your relationship work.
He will be honest with you, and he won’t try to deceive you.
He will respect you, and he will respect your feelings. He won’t try to push you into doing something you don’t want to do.
Instead, he will try his best to meet your needs. A high value man is there for you, when you need him to be.
This is an especially important trait, as every woman wants a man by her side who she can rely on.
In that environment, she can feel safe and secure, and not be worried about whether her man is going to let her down.
9) He treats women with respect
A high-value man treats women with respect.
He doesn’t try to use them or have one-night stands.
He values commitment, and he values women.
You see, a high-value man knows that women are just as capable as men, and he doesn’t try to undermine them.
He treats his partner like a partner, and he is patient and kind with her. He doesn’t try to control her, or tell her what to do.
Instead, he respects her, and he respects her decisions. A high-value man is not only respectful to you.
He also respects other women. He doesn’t brag about his accomplishments or try to make others feel small.
He doesn’t boast about his sexual encounters or try to make others feel inferior. Instead, he treats everyone with respect, no matter who they are.
You see, this is another important trait because you don’t want someone as a partner who doesn’t respect you on a fundamental level.
10) He has a strong purpose in life
A high-value man has a strong purpose in life.
He knows why he is here, and he knows what he wants out of life.
He is motivated and driven, and he is always making progress toward his goals. He doesn’t waste time on distractions. Instead, he focuses on what is important.
He is always working towards his purpose, and that gives him a sense of pride and satisfaction.
This man doesn’t have time for negativity or laziness, because he is too busy working hard to achieve his goals in life.
The high-value man knows where he wants to go, and he knows how to get there.
He has a plan in place, and he isn’t afraid of obstacles along the way. Instead of being discouraged by them, he sees them as opportunities for growth.
In that way, the high-value man can grow stronger when times are tough.
He learns from his mistakes, but it doesn’t stop him from moving forward with his life.
Instead of quitting when things get tough, he keeps going because he knows how important it is to keep moving forward with his life.
11) He has integrity
This man is trustworthy.
He keeps his promises and is dependable.
He doesn’t gossip or says mean things about others behind their backs.
Instead, he treats others with respect and speaks well of them when they aren’t around so that they will hear it from him rather than from someone else.
Integrity is an important trait because you want to know that you can trust your partner. You want to know that he will always be supportive of you and encourage you to do the right thing.
You want to know that he will be there for you when times are tough.
12) He is a good communicator
A high-value man is a good communicator, both in his words and his actions.
He doesn’t keep things bottled up inside, and he doesn’t hold grudges. Instead, he is open and honest with others, because he knows that it’s important to communicate effectively with those around him.
When something needs to be said, this man says it whether or not it’s easy or convenient for him.
If he has a problem with something or someone, he isn’t afraid of telling them about it because he knows that being honest is the best way to resolve any conflict between people.
He doesn’t try to sugarcoat things so that they seem better than they really are because honesty is more important than making other people feel good about themselves at their own expense.
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He doesn’t hide behind false identities or pretend like everything is okay when it isn’t because his sense of integrity won’t allow him to put on a show for anyone else but himself.
A high-value man is good at communicating his feelings to you.
He is also good at communicating his thoughts and ideas to you.
You won’t have a hard time understanding him, and he won’t have a hard time understanding you.
He is logical, and he likes to look at things from different points of view.
13) He is a leader
A high-value man knows that he is a leader, and he assumes leadership roles in life.
He doesn’t ask for permission to do things. Instead, he does them and then tells you about it later.
He doesn’t sit around waiting for others to tell him what to do. Instead, he takes the initiative and makes things happen on his own.
You see, a high-value man rarely seeks approval from others before doing something.
He understands that his actions reflect who he is as a person, so he takes ownership of his actions and the consequences that follow from them.
A high-value man also knows how to lead people effectively by inspiring them with his vision of the future.
He doesn’t try to manipulate people into following him blindly. Instead, he lets people know what they are getting into by sharing his vision with them ahead of time so they can make an informed decision before following him into it.
He also listens closely to their ideas on how best to accomplish this goal or task at hand, so as to achieve maximum efficiency in the process.
In this way, everyone wins when working together with a high-value man leading the way!
14) He constantly works on improving himself
One thing you will notice is that a high-value man is never completely satisfied with himself.
He is always striving to improve himself and his life in some way.
He doesn’t wait for things to happen, he makes things happen!
A high-value man is a self-starter. He doesn’t need anyone’s permission to do what he wants to do or achieve what he wants to achieve in life.
You see, a high-value man knows that the only person who can make a difference in his life is himself.
When he feels like something isn’t right about his life, he works hard on changing it for the better instead of waiting for someone else to come along and fix it for him.
A high-value man knows that there are no shortcuts when it comes to achieving success; if you want something done, you have to do it yourself!
This is a great trait because when someone is constantly improving himself, you know he will work on being a better partner.
15) He wants to help others
Another high-value man trait is that he wants to help others, especially those close to him.
He doesn’t wait for others to ask for his help, he offers it freely and generously.
When someone is in need, a high-value man will be there to help them out, regardless of the situation.
He doesn’t see himself as superior to everyone else; he sees himself as a valuable member of society who has something to offer just like everyone else.
A high-value man knows that life is all about to give and take; if one person helps another person out, they will eventually receive help from someone else in the future!
This is a great trait because it shows that he cares about more than just himself. He’s willing to put others before himself and go out of his way to help people when they need it most.
And the best part?
He will jump at every chance to help you out a bit!
19) He’s a man of his word
You will spot a high-value man by the fact that he is a man of his word.
He doesn’t say things he doesn’t mean and he doesn’t make promises that he can’t keep.
A high-value man knows that if you say something, you have to follow through with it.
If you tell a woman that you will call her on Monday, then do it; don’t just make an empty promise!
You must always be honest and truthful with others because if you aren’t, it will come back to bite you in the future!
High-value men are also trustworthy. They know how important trust is in any relationship so they never break another person’s trust.
They are known for being loyal and trustworthy because they know how important those two things are to building long-lasting relationships with others!
And the best part?
When he is a man of his word, you know that you can trust him with your whole heart.
This relates back to what I mentioned earlier: the hero instinct.
When a man is made to feel needed, wanted, and respected, he’s more likely to be extremely trustworthy.
And it’s as simple as knowing the right things to say to trigger his hero instinct and make him into the man he’s always wanted to be.
All of that and more is revealed in this excellent free video by James Bauer. It’s absolutely worth checking out if you’re ready to take things to the next level with your man.
20) He’s smart
A high-value man is also a smart man.
He knows how to keep his cool in any situation and he always has a plan in case things go south.
A high-value man is always aware of the situation he is in and he knows how to handle himself accordingly.
This means that you can be sure that you are with a high-value man because he will always have your back!
His quick wit will get you out of any problems that may arise, and you won’t have anything to worry about.
21) He has a great sense of humor
A high-value man has a great sense of humor.
A great sense of humor is essential in any relationship because laughter is the best medicine!
It’s important to be able to laugh with your partner and just have a good time together.
It’s also important to have a partner who can make you laugh when you’re down.
High-value men know how important it is to have a good sense of humor in any relationship, so they are always looking for the next joke!
22) He’s not dependent on you to be happy
A high-value man is also independent. He doesn’t need another person to complete him; he is already whole on his own.
He knows that he can survive on his own and he doesn’t need anyone else in order to live a happy life.
When someone needs someone else too much, it means that they aren’t confident enough in themselves and their abilities.
A high-value man knows that he doesn’t need anyone else for anything other than love, so you will never see him staying in unhealthy situations because he knows when it’s time to leave.
He knows how to take care of himself, so there will never be any issues with this!
23) He loves his family
Another trait of a high-value man is that he loves his family.
A high-value man will always be there for his family and he will do whatever it takes to help them out.
He is willing to do anything for the people he loves, even if it means sacrificing himself.
This trait is something that most women look for in a man because they want someone who they can depend on when they need help the most!
A high-value man will always be there for you when you need him!
And that’s what makes him such an attractive person!
24) He is generous
A high-value man is generous. He will always be willing to give back to the world, whether it’s through his time, money, or something else.
The world needs more people who are willing to give back so that others can live better lives.
A high-value man knows that he can make a difference in the lives of others and he wants to help out as much as possible!
He knows how important giving back is and he will always be there when you need him the most!
And the best part?
A high-value man is a provider.
This doesn’t mean he needs to earn a huge living, but it’s all about his intentions.
A high-value man will always be there for you when you need him the most!
25) He is loyal
A high-value man is loyal. He will not cheat on you and he will never leave you for another woman.
He knows that loyalty is one of the most important things in any relationship, so he will always be there to stay by your side no matter what!
A high-value man values his word, so he won’t go back on it. He makes promises and keeps them because he knows how important they are to anyone who hears them!
So if a high-value man says he’s going to do something, then you better believe that it’s going to get done!
26) He works hard
Another trait to look out for in a high-value man is that he works hard.
A high-value man will always be willing to work hard for his family, his goals, and for you.
He knows that working hard is the only way you can achieve success in life, so he will always do what it takes to get his work done!
A high-value man won’t give up on something until it’s finished. He doesn’t have lazy moments because he knows that if he works hard enough, then he will succeed in life!
So if this is something that you’re looking for in a man, then look no further and meet your next high-value guy!
27) He is positive
Nothing is worse than a man who constantly points out the negative in life.
A high-value man will not bring you down when you’re feeling low. He won’t focus on the bad, but he will always focus on the good around him.
He knows that there is good in everything and he wants to show it to you!
A high-value man is positive and he will always look at life from a different perspective!
And that’s what makes him such an attractive person!
However, he is still a realist and will make sure to stay grounded.
28) He isn’t messy
Now: I’m sure you’ll love to hear this, but a high-value man isn’t messy.
He’s not messy in the way he thinks, and he’s not messy in the way he lives.
A high-value man is a man that knows how to keep himself together. He knows how to keep his house clean, and he knows how to make sure that everything around him is organized!
This isn’t because he’s a neat freak or anything like that. It’s just because he knows how important it is for him to stay organized!
And if you want this trait for yourself, then you’re going to have to get yourself a high-value man!
29) He has ambition
A high-value man has ambition. He doesn’t waste his time on things that don’t matter. He doesn’t waste his time on things that won’t bring him closer to where he wants to be in life.
He knows that the only way to succeed in life is to have a plan and to stick to it.
He knows that it’s important for him not to waste his time on things that won’t help him get closer to his goals. So he will always make sure that he has a plan for the future!
A high-value man has ambition and he will do whatever it takes to achieve his goals!
30) He isn’t a pushover
Last but not least, a high-value man isn’t a pushover.
He won’t let other people walk all over him. He knows how important it is for him to stand up for himself!
A high-value man will not let anyone take advantage of him.
He knows that everyone has their own problems and he doesn’t want to add to anyone’s stress.
So he will always make sure that he stands his ground when it comes to things that are important to him!
This is why you need a high-value man in your life because your future husband should not be a pushover.
You deserve someone who will defend you, who will protect you, and who will love you no matter what!
Do you know a high-value man?
After reading all of this, do you already have a high-value man in your life?
If you do, congratulations, and if you don’t, these are the traits you should be looking for in a man, trust me!
High-value men will not only be good partners, but they will also add lots of value to your life.
By now you should have a good idea of what makes a high-value man.
And maybe you are still searching for “the One”.
So what can you do to resolve this?
Well, I mentioned the unique concept of the hero instinct earlier. It’s revolutionized the way I understand how men work in relationships.
You see, when you trigger a man’s hero instinct, all those emotional walls come down. He feels better in himself and he’ll naturally begin to associate those good feelings with you.
And it’s all down to knowing how to trigger these innate drivers that motivate men to love, commit, and protect.
So if you’re ready to take your relationship to that level, be sure to check out James Bauer’s incredible advice.