Toxic masculinity is a huge topic nowadays and we all know immediately what is meant by that.
But what about its divine counterpart?
How can you know that the divine masculine in you is starting to awaken?
Today I will show you the divine masculine awakening symptoms so that you know when that change is happening in your life:
1) You feel the need to be active and move
The divine masculine is all about movement and activity.
In other words, when it starts to awaken, you will feel the need to be active and move.
You may have already been active before but this time you will feel an even greater desire to move – whether it is through working out, working outside, or anything else.
You see, the divine masculine is connected to its nature, and man’s nature is that we used to move all the time.
Our entire lives were based on movement – to hunt, to travel, to survive.
Maybe you’ve noticed how your body gets flooded with endorphins whenever you are active – that’s because you are literally meant to move.
And when the divine masculine awakens, you will start to notice that.
Perhaps you join a gym, go on runs, or learn how to build things with your own hands.
Whatever it is, being active and moving your body will just feel right and you will be restless when you can only sit around and do nothing!
2) You’re goal-oriented
If you’ve been feeling like your goals are bigger and more realistic than they used to be, then it is a sign that the divine masculine in you is starting to awaken.
You see, divine masculine energy is all about rational thinking, goal-setting, and being analytical.
Once you start to embrace that, you will notice that you will become more goal-oriented.
This will make you more driven to accomplish your goals because you will know that what you are doing is right.
You will know that the divine masculine is awakening, and this new energy is going to help you accomplish your goals more effectively.
You feel the drive to succeed and do better than before…and you want to!
The divine masculine in you wants to grow and become stronger, and it wants the opportunity to impress others with its abilities.
So, when it awakens, it may have already been there but now that it has awakened, it wants the opportunity to prove itself.
When this happens, do not be surprised if your life suddenly becomes all about working out, working hard, or getting better at something.
This is what gives you that inner sense of satisfaction, it is literally in your nature to strive for these things.
3) You enjoy taking risks
The divine masculine is adventurous and enjoys taking risks.
When this part of yourself awakens, you will feel a new level of excitement as you take on challenges that used to seem too intimidating before.
You will feel more alive because the divine masculine realizes that life is not safe and that risk-taking can be a way to keep your life from becoming boring.
Of course, those risks are usually within a healthy scope, you aren’t throwing yourself off cliffs without a rope, but you will become more inclined to do things other people deem unsafe.
This could relate to finances, sports, travel, or even hobbies.
The divine masculine realizes that life is not safe, and therefore it is important to find ways to keep yourself entertained and to keep yourself excited about life.
Risk-taking also has another special underlying reason: you finally trust yourself enough to know that if things don’t work out, you will be okay because you can figure it out.
You are not afraid to take risks because you know that if things do not work out, you will be okay.
You know that you can handle the situation, and it will not be the end of the world because you have already prepared yourself for what could happen.
It is as if you have a secret weapon that keeps you from getting too stressed out about life’s little problems.
This secret weapon is your ability to trust yourself!
4) You feel more confident in your abilities
When the divine masculine awakens, you will feel more confident in your own abilities and your capabilities.
You may notice that you are having more confidence in your own actions, and you are not doubting yourself as much as you used to before.
You will also feel like you are starting to embrace the idea of being comfortable with yourself because the divine masculine knows that it is a good thing!
And the best part?
Other people will notice this, too.
All of a sudden, the timid guy you once were is gone and in his place is this confident man who knows his worth and knows what he brings to the table.
When you are the divine masculine, you will feel safe in your own skin.
You will be able to accept yourself for who you are, and you will not have to worry about other people judging you or having a negative opinion of who you are.
You can just be yourself without worrying about what other people think of you.
And on top of that, once the divine masculine awakens inside of you, it is as if a veil is lifted off of your eyes so that all the world becomes a beautiful place.
You see life through an entirely different lens than before, and it is fantastic because all of the beauty that was hidden before has now been revealed.
And the best part?
If you are still looking for a divine feminine woman, then this quality will definitely attract her!
5) You’re interested in extreme sports
If you’re not into extreme sports before now, you might start to be.
Extreme sports are a big part of the masculine spirit and they’re usually an excellent way to release some tension or anger.
You might find yourself taking up new hobbies to replace your old ones which could be seen as reflecting a change in your life.
Of course, that doesn’t mean every divine masculine is suddenly into motocross or something like that.
However, you might start to develop a liking for these sorts of activities.
6) You find your own way of being masculine
A divine masculine is a unique individual, and he is not going to be the same as every other man out there.
He will find his own way of being masculine and living his life without trying to be like anyone else.
The divine masculine will be an individual who embraces his masculinity and follows his instincts.
He won’t spend all day trying to figure out what other people think of him or how he should act in situations, because he knows that what works for him might not work for others.
Now, that doesn’t mean you aren’t extremely connected to your brothers, because a divine masculine man will have a strong sense of brotherhood.
But he will not be a follower of the crowd, and he will not try to be what other people want him to be.
The divine masculine is his own man and he knows who he is and where he’s going.
7) You have increased self-confidence and self-esteem
One of the symptoms of the divine masculine awakening in your life is increased self-confidence and self-esteem.
You will have a sense of personal power and strength that you never had before.
I know I already talked about confidence in your abilities, but this one is a little different.
You will know who you are, what you want, and what you need to do in order to be successful in your life.
You’d be surprised how many people on this planet actually have no idea who they are.
Sure, they know their name and what they work, but when it comes to the deeper stuff?
They have no idea.
And in order to find out who you are, you have to start thinking about what makes you tick, what makes you happy, and what makes you sad.
You have to identify those things, and then take action on them.
And when it comes to self-esteem or confidence, the divine masculine is at the top of that list.
He is not afraid of failure because he knows that failure is just a part of life and that he will eventually succeed if he keeps trying.
And the best part?
If you know yourself, there is nobody on this planet who can tell you who you are!
8) You feel a new sense of purpose and direction in life
Another one of the symptoms of the divine masculine awakening is feeling like your life has a higher purpose.
You’re starting to feel guided and motivated by a greater force or power.
Your life has meaning and it’s not just about surviving anymore. You have found your life’s work.
It is an awakening that may feel like a sense of restlessness but it is a good thing.
You want to change your life, be more spontaneous and do things you never thought you would do before.
You feel alive and want to explore the world. Don’t go into panic mode. These are all symptoms of the divine masculine awakening!
You see, once you find your purpose, it is a magical thing.
Where other people lack energy and feel tired and unmotivated all day long, you suddenly feel an extreme passion to pursue your goals and dreams.
You have the energy to do whatever it is you need to do in order to achieve your goals.
You feel mentally and physically strong, but you also feel relaxed and calm.
And that is the divine masculine awakening! And it will continue to grow stronger and stronger each day as you keep doing what you want.
Too many people lack direction in life and exist merely to survive. But when your divine masculine awakens, you notice that you have a higher purpose. You are here for a reason.
When it comes to experiencing peace from being in your core energy, it could be that you’re not living your life aligned with a deeper sense of purpose.
The consequences of not finding your purpose in life include a general sense of frustration, listlessness, dissatisfaction, and a sense of not being connected with your inner self.
It’s difficult to live your divine masculinity when you’re not feeling in sync.
I learned a new way to discover my purpose after watching Ideapod co-founder Justin Brown’s video on the hidden trap of improving yourself.
He explains that most people misunderstand how to find their purpose, using visualization and other self-help techniques.
However, visualization isn’t the best way to find your purpose. Instead, there’s a new way to do it which Justin Brown learned from spending time with a shaman in Brazil.
After watching the video, I discovered my purpose in life and it dissolved my feelings of frustration and dissatisfaction. This helped me to connect to divine masculinity.
9) You no longer want meaningless flings
The toxic masculine wants to feel strong and powerful, so it can lead someone to act out by having meaningless flings or one-night stands without any type of emotional attachment.
But these types of behaviors only serve to feed the ego and not the soul so they aren’t really satisfying, which is why they will end up seeking more.
When your divine masculine awakens, you will notice that your urge to have meaningless flings and one-night stands diminishes.
You see how unproductive it is and how it gives you nothing in return except for a few minutes of pleasure.
And you will never forget how empty the experience felt, no matter how good it felt in the moment.
You don’t want to wake up with a hangover and feel like a fool.
Now you know what your soul is saying to you!
And when you listen, your life will become easier and more fulfilling. You will discover that life is what you make of it.
You are here for a reason and that reason is to find your purpose and live it out!
When the divine masculine awakens, chasing multiple women will not be necessary to you anymore, and something else will take its place:
10) You crave sacred union with your goddess
You start to crave sacred union with your goddess.
You want to be in an intimate connection with a woman that’s not just romantic, but spiritual too.
You see, when your divine masculine awakens, you will realize that you don’t need a different woman each weekend.
All you need by your side is your goddess, your queen.
As a divine masculine, you will want someone who is there to support you through thick and thin, and you will realize how much the divine feminine can teach you.
Your goddess will teach you how to be a better person and how to become the best possible version of yourself.
And when you are with her, your divine masculine awakens even more, and all your problems melt away. You will feel at peace.
You will know that all is well in the world and that there is no need to worry or stress out about anything because your goddess is always there for you.
And when she is with you, you realize that she completes you in every way possible.
You see, when we find our perfect counterpart, everything starts falling into place and we are invited to drop even more into our core energy.
So, your feminine woman can bring out your divine masculinity even more!
11) You understand that physical union is sacred
Sex is sacred, and if you know that, it’s a signal that the divine masculine in you is starting to awaken.
The divine masculine in all of us wants to give us life, and as such everything that we do should be done with love, care, and reverence for the other person (while being responsible and considerate).
If you understand how important physical union is, then it means that the divine masculine in you has started awakening.
You see, as a young boy, everything is about quick pleasure, and sex has lost all of its spiritual importance.
Once your divine masculine awakens, you will realize that it is so much more.
During this practice, you can feel as though you are opening a portal to the divine realm.
Once you understand the intimate nature of this, you will also cease to sleep with anything that moves.
All of a sudden you will crave that deep connection with only one woman in your life, your queen.
You will understand that it is sacred and not something that should be wasted on a bunch of women.
And once you realize this, you can start feeling more spiritually connected with your woman.
You will feel more alive, and all of a sudden you will feel as though there is nothing that can separate you from her (and each other).
But that raises the question:
Why do we have such a hard time coming to this realization in the first place?
And what’s the solution to divine union with a woman?
The answer is contained in the relationship you have with yourself.
I learned about this from the renowned shaman Rudá Iandê. He taught me to see through the lies we tell ourselves about love and become truly empowered.
As Rudá explains in this mind-blowing free video, love is not what many of us think it is. In fact, many of us are actually self-sabotaging our love lives without realizing it!
We need to face the facts about sex and relationships:
Far too often we chase an idealized image of someone and build up expectations that are guaranteed to be let down.
Far too often we fall into codependent roles of savior and victim to try to “fix” our partner, only to end up in a miserable, bitter routine.
Far too often, we are on shaky ground with our own selves and this carries over into toxic relationships that become hell on earth.
Rudá’s teachings showed me a whole new perspective.
While watching, I felt like someone understood my struggles to find love for the first time – and finally offered an actual, practical solution to unite with my queen.
If you’re done with unsatisfying dating, empty hookups, frustrating relationships, and having your hopes dashed over and over, then this is a message you need to hear.
12) You love providing for others (especially your partner)
When the divine masculine starts to awaken, you often find that you want to provide for your partner.
You want to make them happy and give them everything they need.
This is often a result of going through the process of awakening your own divine masculine energy.
It can be challenging at first because it means you have to take care of yourself in order to be able to provide for others.
But once you start providing for your partner, it’s one of the most rewarding feelings in the world because you know they feel loved and taken care of by you.
When the divine masculine in you starts to awaken, you’ll find that those around you take precedence over yourself.
You will think less about what’s best for yourself and more about what’s best for others.
This is because your priorities have shifted from seeing yourself as being important to see other people as being important.
The masculine energy is all about providing, whereas the feminine energy is about receiving and nurturing.
So, if you find your partner, a divine feminine woman, you will be happy to provide for her and she will be able to gratefully receive these things.
13) You can make good decisions
Divine masculine men are known for their decision-making skills. This is because masculine energy is all about rational thinking and analyzing.
So of course, the more you drop into your divine masculinity, the more you will be able to make good decisions.
This is also important for your feminine counterpart.
You see, in order for your partner to be able to fully drop into her feminine essence of creativity and flow, she has to be able to trust that you will take care of her and make the big decisions.
Of course, she can make decisions as well and will give you advice, but she has to know that if she were to relax, you would still take care of things.
14) You take responsibility for your life
Last but not least, a divine masculine man takes responsibility for his life. He takes control of it, for the most part.
This is because his masculine energy is all about being in charge and taking care of things.
So, if you find yourself going through the process of awakening your divine masculine energy, you’ll start to take control of your life.
You’ll start making decisions that are in line with what’s best for you and what makes you happy.
Add when you make mistakes, you will take ownership of them.
Is your divine masculine awakening?
It’s a process and there will always be more you could improve, but these are some great starting points of the divine masculine awakening.
Keep working hard and you will get even further!