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Are you an enlightened soul? 15 signs and what it means

Have you ever wondered what it really means to have an enlightened soul?

If you exude modesty, kindness, humility, and intelligence, does that mean you automatically possess an enlightened soul?

If you have reached a certain level of spiritual awakening in your life after a life-altering event, does that immediately make you an enlightened person?

We often associate “enlightened soul” with good-mannered people, but not all of us have a full grasp of its meaning.

If you think you’re an enlightened soul because you possess great, well-mannered traits or because a friend told you that you are one, then you’re at the right place.

In this article, we will delve into the different signs of having an enlightened soul, as well as the true meaning behind it.

What does it mean to have an enlightened soul?

Definitions may vary as influenced by culture, religion, and beliefs, but the general idea is pretty much the same: someone who has an enlightened soul is someone who had an emotional, spiritual, and psychological awakening.

Often referred to as bliss, nirvana, or simply enlightenment, a person is believed to reach this point of “awakening” in life wherein they possess a new sense of being in this world.

Spiritual author Shannon Kaiser explained what it means to be “spiritually awakened”. She says:

“Spiritual awakenings can be spontaneous, but for most, they are triggered by major life changes or traumas such as life-threatening illnesses, car accidents, divorces, war, pandemics, quarter-life or midlife crises, mental health crises such as clinical depression or anxiety, or even a near-death experience.”

If you’ve gone through a life-changing event in your life and it helped you transform into the best version of yourself, chances are you are an enlightened soul.

15 signs you are an enlightened soul

Now that you are now enlightened (pun intended) with the true meaning of having an enlightened soul, let us now delve into its signs.

Bear in mind that there are different degrees of enlightenment — everyone is at a unique point in their spiritual development, meaning some may be more enlightened than others.

1) You are happy

Do you wake up in the morning and feel energized to start the day? Do your friends tell you that you have a cheerful disposition?

If you don’t find it hard to see a reason to smile and be grateful every day, then you might be an enlightened soul.

A rough day will not let you stop from enjoying what life has to offer.

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And when you notice a friend feeling sad and disappointed, you are the one who usually advises the old adage: “It’s just a bad day, not a bad life.”

2) You are kind

Signs that suggest you’re a kind person include treating others with respect, being honest, owning up to your mistakes, and listening well to others.

People love it when you’re around because you’re a person that treats others fairly.

Chivalry will always be your style because you believe that everyone deserves to be respected, heard, and loved. You care about others, even if they don’t reciprocate the same feeling.

3) You are open-minded

When you are enlightened, you become mentally and spiritually open.

This means that you’ve reached the point wherein you realize that there’s more to life than tangible things.

You also realize that you and your thoughts are just a speck of sand in the vast universe that we live in. Having an open mind is a positive trait, and it allows you to see the world without being swayed by preconceived judgments.

You will observe, listen, and seek complete understanding before coming up with conclusions.

4) You are in tune with yourself

You value your relationship with yourself just as much as you value special people around you.

Valuing oneself means making time for yourself every day, may it be in the form of meditation, journaling, going out for a walk, reading, immersing oneself in a hobby, and more.

Every day, you strive to cut through the noise of the hustle and bustle of life by making time for your thoughts, desires, doubts, worries, and hopes in life.

When you are attuned to your emotions, chances are you also embody the next sign on this list.

5) You are self-aware

Being self-aware means having a deep understanding of your thoughts and how you process information around you.

You also avoid blaming other people for your own mishaps because you know how to take responsibility. You don’t numb from your shortcomings or try to use other people or circumstances as a scapegoat.

Acknowledging your strengths and weaknesses come naturally to you, which is why you have a better understanding of how you can work and harmonize with other people in your environment.

You know how to harness your inner power, and this trait gives you clarity and direction to lead yourself to the right decisions in life.

6) You enjoy peace and serenity

As Gautama Buddha phrased it,

“Serenity comes when you trade expectations for acceptance.”

When you value peace and serenity, life will not feel like a race for you. Instead, you enjoy it as it is.

It can be hard to find peace in the hustle and bustle of life, but you know how to prioritize only the important ones and get rid of the rest that doesn’t spark positivity in your life.

Your desire for serenity may manifest in your minimalist way of living too.

7) Your priorities and values are shifting from tangible to intangible, spiritual concerns

Simply put, you are an enlightened soul if you realize that there is more to life than fame, wealth, money, sex, and other fleeting sources of happiness.

Back in the day, you may be chasing after material things, but now, you’re more interested in knowing your purpose in life.

The pursuit of tangible possessions will never satisfy your happiness in life because you know they only provide temporary joy.

Now, happiness means spending time with your family and friends, having me-times, helping the needy, and living your life unapologetically.

8) You are content and grateful

Life can sometimes be unfair, and that’s okay. While happiness is not constant, you know that contentment can be certain.

You are always grateful for what you have, so your positive mindset always shines through even in your darkest days.

Being continuously grateful should not be confused with toxic optimism, which takes positive thinking into extremes and rejects room for emotions that aren’t happy.

Instead, you are content and grateful that you are still alive despite the ups and downs of life.

9) You are humble

You are confident, but not overly so. You know your worth, but you do not impose it all the time.

Confident and competent, you don’t feel the need to boast about yourself and instead let your actions and thoughts speak for yourself.

Being a humble person, you are likely to help friends when they are in need. This is why you maintain genuine professional relationships with your workmates.

What people love the most about you is that you listen and understand them very well.

10) You are not easily swayed by opinions

People are swayed by the opinions of others for various reasons: some want to go with the flow, others want an easy life, while some give in to others’ opinions just because they don’t like conflict.

And then there’s you, who’s at peace with the fact that your job isn’t to please everyone.

You have an amazing level of self-trust that can’t easily be shaken by other people’s reckless opinions, no matter how convincing they sound to your ears.

You have a strong sense of self, and you know how to put others’ thoughts and opinions in perspective, enabling you to live life your way.

11) You are intuitive

When you’re intuitive but unaware of it, you can usually sense inauthentic people around you.

For instance, your intuition works when you meet someone everyone else adores, but your gut tells you there’s something off with that person because, beyond the beauty and charm, you can sense the real nasty deal underneath.

Other signs of being intuitive include developing solid emotions toward something that tends to be correct, accurately guessing what will happen in the future, and sensing if someone is having a bad day.

12) You are respectful

Your respect is not exclusive to those who are older than you.

Instead, you believe that respect should be given equally and with dignity to people from different walks of life, regardless of age, career, background, race, and more.

As a result, you find yourself providing the bare minimum even to the people you don’t like.

Likewise, you do not participate in disrespectful behavior such as spreading rumors, gossiping about your workmate, playing favorites at work or home, and more.

13) You stay active to maintain your health

Another manifestation of an enlightened soul is when a person prioritizes their overall health.

So, if you are proactively taking steps towards better physical, mental, and emotional health, chances are you are an enlightened soul.

You strive to stay in tip-top shape, believing that it is crucial to becoming your best self.

When you eat a balanced diet, exercise regularly, get enough rest, meditate, make time for yourself, and prioritize your life journey, chances are you have already reached enlightenment.

14) You dedicate yourself to self-improvement

While other people are busy prying into others’ lives and gossiping about them, you are focused on improving your skills and shortcomings.

Because you are in touch with yourself, you know what certain life aspects need further improvement.

For you, every day is a new opportunity to learn.

When you make a mistake, you process it, learn from it, and move forward. You don’t wallow in self-pity all because of your errors.

Instead, you recognize that mistakes are part of growth, and more importantly, being human.

15) You are honest and authentic

Last, and definitely not the least important, is that you are true to others and yourself. Truth can hurt, but for you, it’s a bitter medicine that can save lives.

In a world of false hopes and promises, people like you are the ones that make the world a better, safe place.

Being authentic means you do not obsess over what others think about you—you speak your mind with grace and confidence even if your beliefs are against the norm.

As such, you don’t find yourself overthinking about your social media likes and followers, the status quo, and pleasing all the people around you.

How to achieve enlightenment

If you resonate with any of the signs mentioned, then it’s great for you to reach a level of happiness, contentment, self-understanding, and selflessness.

However, for those who are still on their way to becoming an enlightened person, here are different ways to achieve your sense of enlightenment:

Be authentic

The first step is to be honest with yourself.

For every person trying to reach enlightenment, honesty is a big step you have to take since enlightenment is an experience that changes your perspective on how you see your environment.

But, before anything else, you should learn how to perceive yourself and pinpoint which aspects of your life need change.

Being true to yourself can be difficult, but your transformation to your best self will be worth it.

Kill your toxic ego

Spiritually-aware people are down-to-earth, kind, and humble.

Therefore, if you are eager to reach enlightenment, then say goodbye to your ego. This will be important for you to reach greater heights and eternal happiness.

You have to realize that ego prevents you from experiencing new moments and opportunities to grow. And once you kill your ego, you will understand that putting aside your ego can help save and foster relationships with people.

Meditate

Meditation time can be hard to squeeze into your busy schedule, but enlightened people always make room for me-time, no matter the circumstances.

You see, the whole point of meditation is to steer clear from the external noise and achieve serenity.

So make sure to allot a few minutes per day to free your mind from thoughts and worries.

Detach yourself

Once you’ve got rid of your ego, you will find it easier to detach yourself from worldly things such as money and fame.

You will experience more peaceful situations instead of being stuck in a constant race for material possessions.

Don’t confuse detachment with being aloof. It only means learning to live happily without being dependent on tangible things.

Forgive yourself and those who hurt you

Think of the people who’ve done and said hurtful things that still sting today. Recall what they did and how it hurt you, then forgive them in your mind.

You may think it’s nearly impossible to forgive their atrocious acts, but take a moment to realize that refusing to forgive is terrible for your journey to enlightenment.

In fact, suppressed anger attracts resentment and can lead to many health complications such as depression.

Don’t let anger and madness eat you from the inside. Instead, release it—don’t look back, live in the present, and be on your way to peace and happiness.

Pray and attend pilgrimages

Although spirituality and religion are two different things that are not dependent on each other, both concepts will help you gain a full grasp of life through different perspectives.

Praying is like a form of meditation in such a way that it helps you achieve serenity and form a connection with nature or a higher being.

On the other hand, attending pilgrimages will expose you to like-minded people and opportunities for relaxation and a deeper understanding of your religion and self.

Conclusion

Now that you know the different signs of having an enlightened soul, as well as ways on how you could help achieve enlightenment, you might be wondering what you should do next after reaching that phase.

The answer is not rocket science: Just like in love, commitment is key. You just have to make a conscious and continuous effort to remain enlightened.

It sucks up a massive deal of spiritual nourishment to help others along your journey, so you must know that you need to refill your spiritual strength daily.

The bottom line is, you are an enlightened person if you’re mindful of yourself and the world around you.

If you believe you’ve already reached enlightenment, then great for you. You are on the right path.

For those who are yet to achieve enlightenment, don’t worry; you’ll get there.

Through daily meditation, willingness to kill your ego, detachment, and forgiveness, you are bound to bask in peace and happiness.

Remember, commitment is the way. It takes a lot of effort to achieve enlightenment, but best believe the benefits will be worth it in the end.

Good luck on your spiritual journey!

Written by Colleen Florendo

Colleen Florendo-Svensson is the founder of The Copy Tea, an up-and-coming copywriting studio, currently based in Sweden.

She’s always enjoyed writing as a hobby, but it was while she was taking her MBA that she began falling in love with it even more. She has earned her master’s degree and has since been writing professionally. Her written works have been digitally published by Newsweek and she has also completed the Conversion Copywriting course under Copyhackers School.

Follow her on Instagram at @thecopytea where she drops a ton of useful copywriting tips and tricks! You can also book a free copy audit with her here.

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