16 signs she’s a high quality woman worth marrying

So you’ve found yourself a wonderful woman and you think she might be the one for you?

That’s fantastic.

But how can you be sure? Is anyone ever really sure of these things?

We’ve all been there. The uncertainty can feel crushing.

Only time can tell how your relationship will pan out, but there are a lot of ways to determine if it’s headed in the right direction.

In the meantime, here are the top signs that the girl you are with is high quality and worth marrying.

1) She knows she isn’t all that’s good in your life

If a woman knows that there are ups and downs in your life, she is a high-quality woman.

She respects that there are other things in your life that bring you joy and excitement. She wants to share those things with you, and not keep you from them.

A woman who truly loves you wants to see you excel in all areas of your life. She will support and encourage you where she can.

A high-quality woman wants to be with a man who makes an impact on the world. Not necessarily financially, but through his actions in the world.

She wants to see him living a life that makes him happy, and no matter how hard it is, she will stand by him every step of the way.

2) She doesn’t beat around the bush

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A woman worth marrying is honest and communicates well.

She always says what she means, so you always know exactly where you stand with her.

Other girls like to play games and do silly things to get your attention, but not her. She is honest about how she feels.

A woman worth marrying is loyal and honest. But she does not have to say it. She knows the difference between right and wrong and so does the world.

A woman worth marrying is strong and independent but keeps these traits under control.

She asserts herself in her life, and in her relationships, but does not overdo or act like a brat at every turn.

3) You want to be a better person because of her

If you find yourself suddenly sitting up straighter and trying harder to be a better man, there’s a good chance she’ll always bring out those qualities in you.

Being with someone who makes us better can help make a marriage successful in the long run.

A woman who’s worth your time will reinforce the already great relationship you have with yourself.

She’ll remind you of all the progress you’ve made and continue to make.

4) She doesn’t need to be with you all the time

If a woman is fine feeling independent and busy with her time, she has qualities that are ideal for a long-term partnership.

It means that she has her own life to live and while she wants to share her life with you, and you with her, you both have your own path to walk.

She loves that you see your friends and family and get to travel for work.

She gets to do her own things too. So being with you is an added pleasure, not a desperate need. 

5) There was no doubt that you wanted her to meet your parents

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You knew from the moment you met that this was a girl you could take home to your mom, then she is someone to hold on to for a long time. 

It means that you respect her, are proud of her, and can’t wait for others to see your happiness.

If you want to share the love you feel with your family, you are opening up to a more serious and fulfilling relationship that you would be happy to commit to.

6) She likes to try new things in and out of the bedroom

If you found a woman who likes to explore sexual desires and fantasies then she is someone that will keep a committed relationship feeling fresh and adventurous.

Sex is important to every relationship and if you’ve got a woman who is not afraid to try new things then hang on to her. Adventure in life usually translates well into an adventure in life.

She has energy and passion when she’s in the bedroom. She lets it all go and releases all of the tension for your benefit.

7) She’s got her own opinions

She’ll tell you what she thinks, but she doesn’t expect you to agree with her all the time then she is someone to hold on to for the long run.  

She respects that you both have your own point of view on the world.

But one thing is certain when you’re dealing with her:

She’ll express how she feels, even if it makes certain people feel uncomfortable.

Even when she is mad at you, she doesn’t lump you into the “every man is the same” category. You are an individual, and she knows that. She’ll play fair, even during a fight.

8) She has goals

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Women with ambition are worth marrying.

Not only do they help raise you up to another level in your own life, but they are wonderful to be around.

Their desire and passion will help fuel yours and you will find that you are achieving more than you could have ever done by yourself.

An ambitious woman has dreams and aspirations and hopes that make life interesting and greatness feel attainable. 

9) You feel lucky to be with her

You catch yourself in disbelief that this amazing woman wants to be with you. That’s all you need to know if you are deciding whether or not to marry her. 

Finding someone who leaves you in awe of how lucky you are is worth settling down with – that feeling never goes away.

So if you are wondering whether you are ready to tie the knot, consider all that your partner brings to your life and how you can contribute to her life.

Marriage is a lifelong commitment, and it takes a lot of work, but when you are matched well with your partner, everything in life becomes a lot easier.

10) She’s going to care about you

A woman who cares about you is someone you want by your side. So often we value how someone makes us feel. And who doesn’t want to feel loved and cared for?

Even though she doesn’t need a friend, lover, or business partner, she’ll take the time to care for others and make sure they are looked after.

She might not always put others before herself, but she will care for them as if they mean the world to her.

11) She’s powerful yet feminine

A woman to commit to is someone who is able to be feminine and warm, and at the same time strong and firm.

Women don’t need to act like men to achieve things in life.

They recognize that they can be women, be powerful in a female way, and succeed because of it, not in spite of it.

12) She’s into her looks

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A woman who is confident and doesn’t care when other women or men try to bring her down is someone that you want to be with for a long time.

Her aura and sense of self will draw you in closer and closer and it will also start to make you feel like you are capable of anything.

While she might not be the most beautiful woman to the rest of the world, a charming woman knows what she’s got and she flaunts it in a way that makes her feel even more powerful.

As part of the attention she pays to her appearance, she works out, eats right, and gets her sleep.

A strong and powerful woman knows how to take care of herself.

She knows that the best way to take of you is to take care of herself first.

13) She’s got her act together

A high-quality woman knows how to control her emotions and is not ashamed of the way she feels. This mature mindset is very attractive and someone you want to marry.

They can laugh, cry, yell, celebrate, share, and be happy without the worry of being judged or ridiculed.

She won’t hide how she’s feeling or play games. She expresses how she feels and won’t be afraid to let you know about it.

14) She’s well-spoken

A woman who is able to communicate well is someone that you want to have in your corner.

Whether she’s fluent in Italian or English, or any other language, she speaks it well. She makes an impact with her actions and her words.

You won’t mistake her for someone who doesn’t know what she’s talking about.

A high-value woman can hang with the best of them. She can work a room and carry it if need be.

She doesn’t need someone else to take the lead. She’s comfortable doing that on her own and for as long as needed.

15) She doesn’t play games

Women with a high sense of value don’t need to play games. And this will make the difference between someone you want to marry and someone you are unsure about.

She’s tuned in to what is going on around her and can tell when someone is trying to play her.

If you are wondering which one of you is going to play the fool, rest assured, it’s not her.

16) She sets boundaries

A high-value woman doesn’t just let anyone into her life and she knows when she needs to make changes to continue on her own journey.

Boundaries play an important role in her life because they help her determine what stays and what goes, who stays and who goes, and where she’s going without any fear of how she’ll get there.

Enjoy the journey

Finding the traits of a high-quality woman is certainly going to make you want to hold on to and commit to her in the long term.

And once you do that, you won’t look back, not because she looks like the last girl you dated, and not because she doesn’t let anyone in.

You’ll look back because she was it. She was the one. You liked being with her so much that when someone new comes along you still want to get to know and see what they have to offer.

You’ll be this way because your relationship with her was genuine, honest, and real. And you enjoyed spending time together.

And to be honest, the only thing that will make the difference, in the long run, will be if you have a strong connection to yourself.

And that’s something that we can look forward to developing with time, but it can start today, right now.

So what can you do to feel more confident with your life and decisions? 

Begin with yourself. Stop searching for external fixes to sort out your life, because in your gut you know this approach isn’t working. 

Until you look within and start to unleash your personal power, you’ll never find the satisfaction and fulfillment you’re searching for. 

I also learned this important point from Rudá Iandê. His life mission is to help people restore balance to their lives and unlock their creativity and potential.

And as he can help you in your relationship with love and intimacy he also has some sage advice for helping you to unleash your personal power. 

In another one of his excellent masterclass videos, Rudá explains effective methods to cultivate more confidence and power to achieve what you want in life. 

So if you want to build a better relationship with yourself, unlock your endless potential, and put passion at the heart of everything you do, start now by checking out his genuine advice. 

Here’s a link to the free video again

It’s one thing to find a high-value woman who you want to marry, it’s another to become the high-value man that you’ve always dreamed of being.

We must address the fear of being vulnerable and powerful.

But if we can take action and elevate our own state of mind and well-being, we’ll have nothing to fear.

We’ll be ready to take on the world and that includes someone who is a high-value woman.

Stay strong!

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Lachlan Brown

I’m Lachlan Brown, the editor of Ideapod and founder of Hack Spirit. I love writing practical articles that help others live a mindful and better life. I have a graduate degree in Psychology and I’ve spent the last 6 years reading and studying all I can about human psychology and practical ways to hack our mindsets. If you to want to get in touch with me, hit me up on Twitter or Facebook.

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