11 rare things authentic people do – that fake people don’t

Authentic people have a certain allure in authenticity that cannot be denied.

They remain true to who they are and what they believe in, making them a breath of fresh air in a world often filled with imitation and pretense.

But what exactly makes them stand out?

What do these authentic individuals do differently that sets them apart from the rest?

We all wear masks from time to time – it’s part of being human.

But wouldn’t it be lovely if we could all be a little more authentic?

So, let’s dive in and explore their unique traits — maybe we’ll learn a thing or two about becoming our most authentic selves!

1. Authentic People Embrace Their Flaws

You know, it’s pretty easy to pretend to be perfect, especially in the age of social media where everyone’s life looks like a highlight reel.

But guess what? Authentic people don’t bother with that nonsense. They know they’re not perfect, and they’re cool with it.

Instead of trying to hide their flaws or mistakes, they own up to them, learn from them, and even share them.

It’s not about celebrating failure, but about understanding that it’s a part of the journey.

They’re not afraid to say, “Hey, I messed up” or “I’m not great at this.”

And you know what? This honesty not only makes them more relatable but also gives others the courage to be open about their own shortcomings.

2. Authentic People Speak Their Truth

Ever met someone who always seems to say what you want to hear?

That’s not the case with genuine folks.

They are more interested in speaking their truth than pleasing others.

Now, don’t get me wrong. This doesn’t mean they’re rude or insensitive. Actually, it’s quite the opposite.

Authentic people understand the art of being honest without being hurtful. They express their thoughts and feelings openly, but they do it with kindness and respect.

They don’t twist their words to fit what others want to hear. Rather, they stand by their beliefs, even if it means standing alone sometimes. It’s all about staying true to their values and principles.

Remember, speaking your truth might not always win you popularity contests, but it will definitely earn you respect and trust.

And for an authentic person, that’s more than enough!

3. Authentic People Don’t Compare Themselves to Others

A few years back, I found myself constantly falling into the trap of comparison.

I’d scroll through social media, see everyone’s picture-perfect moments, and instantly feel like my life didn’t measure up.

Then one day, I had a chat with a friend who always seemed to be her genuine self, no matter what.

She told me something that stuck: “Why compare yourself to others? No one in the entire world can do a better job of being you than you.”

And just like that, it clicked.

Authentic people don’t waste time comparing themselves to others. They understand that everyone is on their own unique journey and that’s okay.

They focus on their own growth and progress, rather than obsessing over how they stack up against others.

And you know what? Once I stopped comparing and started appreciating my own path, I found a lot more joy and satisfaction.

So trust me on this one—life’s way too short for comparison games! Be you, because you’re pretty amazing!

4. Authentic People Are Not Afraid of Vulnerability

Authentic people are not afraid to show their soft side or share their deepest feelings.

They understand that being vulnerable doesn’t mean being weak. In fact, it takes a lot of courage to open up and show your true self to the world.

They’re comfortable with showing emotions, asking for help, admitting they don’t have all the answers.

They know these things don’t make them less—it makes them human.

5. Authentic People Practice Gratitude

Here’s a heartfelt truth: Authentic people are often the most grateful. They have this beautiful way of appreciating the little things in life that many of us might overlook.

Instead of always chasing the next big thing, they take time to appreciate what they already have.

The sun shining on a new day, a good book, a hearty laugh with a friend—these small moments are treasured.

They know that gratitude isn’t just about saying ‘thank you.’

It’s about truly feeling it, deep down in your bones.

It’s about recognizing the good in your life and letting it fill your heart.

When you’re grateful for what you have, you start to attract more positive things into your life. It’s a cycle of goodness that keeps on giving.

6. Authentic People Don’t Chase Approval

Life isn’t a popularity contest — authentic people get that. They don’t run around trying to please everyone or seek approval for their every move.

They know that they can’t be everyone’s cup of tea, and they’re totally fine with that. They’d rather be true to themselves than be someone they’re not just to fit in or gain likes.

This is because they understand that chasing approval is exhausting. It’s like running on a hamster wheel—you keep going but you’re not really getting anywhere.

Instead, they choose to step off that wheel, because they understand that the only approval they need is their own.

7. Authentic People Practice Self-Care

Here’s an interesting fact for you: According to the National Institute of Mental Health, practicing self-care can lead to increased productivity, improved immune function, and better mental health.

So if you’ve noticed that authentic people seem to be more emotionally and mentally stable, it’s probably because they practice self-care diligently.

They understand that they can’t pour from an empty cup, so they take time out for themselves to recharge and rejuvenate. 

And they don’t view self-care as selfish or indulgent. Instead, they see them as necessary for their overall well-being.

And they’re right!

When you take care of yourself physically, emotionally, and mentally, you’re better equipped to handle life’s challenges and take care of others.

8. Authentic People Listen Actively

I’ve always been a chatterbox. I love to talk, share stories, crack jokes – you name it. But a few years ago, I realized that I was so busy talking that I wasn’t really listening.

That changed when I met this incredibly authentic person who had the amazing ability to make anyone feel heard.

When they listened, they weren’t just waiting for their turn to speak. They were fully present, soaking in every word, every expression, making you feel like you were the only person in the world at that moment.

This made me realize that active listening is not just about hearing the words someone is saying—it’s about understanding, empathizing, and making the other person feel valued.

Since then, I’ve made a conscious effort to listen more and talk less.

And guess what? It has deepened my relationships and made my conversations so much more meaningful.

9. Authentic People Don’t Fear Change

Change is scary, that’s for sure.

But guess what?

Authentic people don’t let fear stop them. They know that change is inevitable and often, it’s necessary for growth.

They don’t cling to comfort zones or stick to old ways just because they’re familiar. Instead, they embrace change, adapt, and evolve.

They see change not as a threat, but an opportunity to learn and grow.

10. Authentic People Live in the Present

Let’s be completely frank here: Life is happening right now—in this very moment. Authentic people understand this.

They don’t waste their time dwelling on past mistakes or worrying about future uncertainties.

They live in the present, savoring each moment as it comes.

11. Authentic People Follow Their Passion

Authentic people don’t just follow the crowd or take the easy path—they follow their passion.

They understand that life is too short to spend doing something that doesn’t light their fire.

They’re not afraid to go against the grain or take risks if it means doing what they love. After all, isn’t that what life is all about? Finding what you love and letting it set your soul on fire!

So, if you’re stuck in a rut doing something you don’t love, remember this: It’s never too late to follow your passion. Be brave, take the leap, and watch how your life changes!

Clifton Kopp

Clifton Kopp

Welcome to my writings on Ideapod! I'm a bit of a "polymath" in that I like writing about many different things. Often I'm learning from the process of writing. I hope you enjoy, and please leave a comment on one of my articles.

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