10 reasons most men can’t handle a deep woman

The deeper you are, the more likely you are to be single. Sound familiar?

While intellect and complexity are highly sought after in men, the truth is most men can’t handle the same in a woman.

Why? For these 10 reasons:

1) A deep woman asks too many deep questions

A deep woman will always probe a man further. These are questions most men simply aren’t prepared for.

Your purpose in life? What makes you happy? These questions make most men insecure. And if you can’t answer them, then a deep woman simply won’t get funky with you.

2) A deep woman is honest

An intellectual and deep woman hasn’t got time for games. You’re 10 minutes late? Prepare to be told off.

She gets straight down to business. Her direct nature can make some men nervous , but if you ask her anything, at least she’ll tell the truth.

3) A deep woman knows what she wants

She knows what she wants in a men and won’t wait around for you to show her who you are. Her intuition is her best asset and if you haven’t passed her “gut feeling test” then don’t even bother.

4) A deep woman wants a deep relationship

Just having fun? Fooling around? Then you need to leave as soon as you can. A deep woman is looking for meaning and complexity and won’t settle for anything less.

5) A deep woman is not afraid of intimacy

If she truly likes you, she won’t hesitate to get closer. For her, this is what makes relationships worthwhile. She’s independent enough to know it won’t entrap her freedom or make her feel vulnerable.

She’ll always cherish the beauty of intimacy in a relationship.

6) A deep woman sees through you

She thrives on getting to know what makes people tick. She’ll learn about your goals, your vulnerabilities and what you ultimately want to be remembered for.

This can make some men uncomfortable, and if you can’t reveal yourself, she doesn’t want you anyway.

7) A deep woman craves consistency

She hates flaky behavior. If you can’t be honest and form a solid bond with her, then you’re just wasting her time.

She wants a man who stays by his word and does what he say he will.

8) A deep woman is intense

She’s passionate and lives for the thrills of everyday life. She feels all her emotions and isn’t afraid to share her thoughts.

This can be make her intimidating to deal with and not many men are strong enough to handle her intensity.

9) A deep woman only knows how to love deeply

If you can’t love her deeply, she’ll simply walk away. “Casually dating” doesn’t exist in her vocabulary. If you can’t give her the true love she deserves, she’ll simply detach herself from your arms.

10) A deep woman won’t wait for you

She’s not going to wait around for you to make up your mind. She’s passionate, strong and making too many moves in the world to wait around for a hesitant guy. So if you can’t commit, you need to get out of this woman’s way.

Even though she is looking for a special kind of love, if you can’t meet her standards, she’s more than happy to fly solo.

This article was originally published on Hack Spirit.


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